Advise pls

My friend with kids had a failed marriage and she was in severe depression . That time a old friend came in her life . Both started texting and then he found her in depression . He counselled her and told her how amazing she was in childhood and made her bold . My friend is also working in a reputed place and started gaining confidence . She learnt that he and his wife were on dispute . They had a kid . She insisted him to bring his family back for the sake of kids . He agreed to it . But he told her his wife was very possessive and will never allow him to talk to her . Both are in different countries and never met . They have good understanding and they share their stress and about their families . The only mistake my friend is doing is they both talk to each other without the knowledge of their respective families .they both don't want to hurt any one . She tried many times to leave the relation but he was her courage and she feared going into depression . Pls advise what my friend should do ? . Is it EMA ? IS SHE Nandini ?

Put yourself in the other persons shoes...

Originally posted by: Mumoos

Put yourself in the other persons shoes...

If you were the spouse and realised your partner was secretly friends with some one.. how does that make you feel.

You will find the answer.

Why should you hide it from your spouse if there was no wrong intention attached to your conversation? The mere fact that he feels the need to hide it, shows his intention is not as innocent. Transparency is the key to every relation. If your friend requires support, she should attend counselling classes.