Are Mauli and Kunal taking divorce? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Anahi

i have kind of repeated it two three times..

giving one more try.. accepting him doesnt make her a doormat.. itsher choice.. its not that she has no choice other than him or she wants a man in her life or she is a weak woman but breaking off a marriage is not easy..

copied from previous post of mine -

who wouldnt want her to start a new fresh life without kunal but then, kunal is not her boyfriend. its not easy to break off a marriage.. and they were in such a beautiful happy marriage.. we as viewers have seen every kunal-nandini moment but mauli also needs to know all this before taking any huge step.. i guess when she encoutered them hugging she was devastated and was not able to think.. then she kept thinking for long and would might have thought that kunal got attracted to nandini as their was no reason for him to drift away from mauli . there was no kami there were no fights no misunderstandings.. nothing which could led them drift away from each other.. rather they were in love..

she recalled kunal's weird behaviour towards her and realised that he drifted away bcz of nandini not because they had some issues.. she might have thought that kunal and nandini got carried away emotionally.. i know even thinking about some other woman is also a form of cheating.. and she is unaware of the "type of cheating"

when the password thing happened it was a reality check for mauli.. she got to know that it was more than just-got-carried-away..

now its mauli's choice to get things clear or head for a separation.. but trust me as a viewer only we know kunal's love for nandini.. just remove all those scenes from your head and see things from mauli's point of view.. she knows almost nothing..

i think she should wait for some time and let her absorb the fact that kunal loves somebody else. if he approaches mauli for a talk then she should ask him few questions like how it started, what made him cheat her, does he love Nandini?? if yes, then i wouldnt want her to ask him if he loves her. she should ask him about his future plans? let kunal say what he wants but do what she wants..

ps: i wrote all this when i had no idea about her filing a divorce..

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

i liked that OS someone wrote...

Kunal in mental hospital and the doctor who is treating him happily married to mauli 😆😛

Originally posted by: Anahi

@kiransgirl - thanx for giving it a try to understand really appreciate that.. and kindly avoid typos.

i agree every breakup hurts.. be it with your best friends or with your parents or be it breaking up a romantic relationship.. but ending a romantic relationship specially marriage is something really a big deal..

i am not saying she shouldnt file for divorce rather i am really happy that she has kept her self respect intact..

some say , mauli filing divorce is making her extra mahaan and they dont like it.. they think as if she is sacrificing kunal for nandini.. some say, they dont want kunal back in her life as it will make her a doormat..
i kind of disagree with both things.. filing for divorce was the most right thing to do at this time. if kunal-nandini are so in love with each other then why to become an unwanted responsibility( not financial) for kunal and why to become a hurdle in their way.. mauli didnt file for divorce because she gives a thumbs up to their true divine love rather she still knows that she is been cheated and no God can make kunal nandini's relation a pure one.. no god. she knows that. she is not giving a clean chit to them . she is walking away keeping her integrity intact.. mauli is no revenge type girl and kunal is no heera so that she would fight for kunal who himself seems in love with any other woman. so she is not being mahaan here.. its no sacrifice..

and also she is also not a doormat .. i know kunal is not gonna come so soon... so discussing this point is waste of energy and time but i really want to reply as people are discussing this and some believe in end games and really respect their feelings. i personally dont believe in end games. if kunal and nandini is the end game i dont care and if mauli kunal happens then also i dont care.. what i care about is the storyline. how it is executed..

so i am assuming that kunal will return to mauli some day . okay now the point is if mauli is willing to accept him then at what cost and for what reasons.. that is all matters to me.. if i were mauli i wouldnt have probably accepted him ever.. but then, i am not mauli and it takes me nothing to say i wont do that ever but the reality can be different.. love is a very very strong feeling. and people often take advantage of this word and name their feeling Love. this is what i feel kunal nandini did.

mauli has always loved him..if kunal goes back to her realizing that his true love was mauli only and he just got carried away in emotions then its entirely mauli's choice to pardon him or not.. his mistake is a big big big one and forgetting everything and making a fresh start with such husband takes a lot of courage.. for that you have to sideline your ego, doubts, those eyes which pity you and a feeling of not being that perfect couple..
i think mauli accepting him is no where near so it shouldnt be discussed that much.. right now we dont even know kunal's actual emotions.. what we know is his mistake not his emotions..
accepting him or not is just only about these two, not even nandini..

ps : havent watched todays episode.. so i am excluding whatever happened today..

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

@Anahi, I agree she's no doormat. I keep saying she has to go through the stages of grieving and now added, the betrayal of it being with her supposed best friend. It is such a terrible situation; we can all be excused if we are just trying to wrap our heads around it.

Marriage is sacred. It is for me so I don't take the dissolution of marriage lightly but I also sadly have seen a situation where a cheater did not change his ways.

I hope the writers research Mauli's character and really flesh her out. It's hard for her, I would think, to reconcile the memories she had of her marriage and what she is seeing. And with every scene, she discovers the level of the betrayal.

it will take time.

I think it just really shows how cheaters live double lives and are such good liars. She had no clue because they hid their deception so well. it's the lying that has always made the act evil for me.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

@Anahi, I agree she's no doormat. I keep saying she has to go through the stages of grieving and now added, the betrayal of it being with her supposed best friend. It is such a terrible situation; we can all be excused if we are just trying to wrap our heads around it.

Marriage is sacred. It is for me so I don't take the dissolution of marriage lightly but I also sadly have seen a situation where a cheater did not change his ways.

I hope the writers research Mauli's character and really flesh her out. It's hard for her, I would think, to reconcile the memories she had of her marriage and what she is seeing. And with every scene, she discovers the level of the betrayal.

it will take time.

I think it just really shows how cheaters live double lives and are such good liars. She had no clue because they hid their deception so well. it's the lying that has always made the act evil for me.