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Posted: 6 years ago
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I have been wondering if Mauli still loves Kunal. I know right now the character is confused. I would think numb, really unable to process the level of betrayal she is experiencing. Perhaps, as a coping mechanism, she is holding onto the old memories. But I feel Mauli's love for Kunal must have died the moment (or at least when) she fully realizes what has happened. I don't believe a woman can ever fully love a man, or especially in the same way, as before once he has hurt her this viciously.
I think Mauli has to go through the stages of grieving. I don't know all of them but I believe anger, bargaining and acceptance are three stages. Perhaps, as she moves through the stages, she will have different emotions. But acceptance will only come after she has truly mourned her marriage and most importantly, her hopes/dreams for her marriage. Once she can do this, she will be stronger and hopefully move onto acceptance.
I feel it will be easier for her to move to this stage once she begins to find out exactly how much they have done: going behind her back, sex, etc.

NO matter what, she must accept that this marriage is over and good riddance! She's been given a gift: freedom to find real love.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Love just can't go away whenever we decide. If it would have been that easy why would couples who break up cry. Yes she still loves him. But this has nothing to do with the fact if she wants him or not. Many times trust and loyalty matters more that love. And mauli doesn't trust or believe him now. And if she leaves him, then gradually the love will go away too.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli still loves douchebag because she still doesn't know the whole truth, but there is disgust in her heart. She will grow amount of disgust when she will come to know the whole truth.

First, she thought it was slip of emotion. But password made her realize that it wasn't a slip of emotion and he was fully aware and it made her to take decision of leaving.

She is sad, still processing. She cant really realize how she is feeling now, except the realization of ''settled life has turned into ashes''.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: kiransgirl

I have been wondering if Mauli still loves Kunal. I know right now the character is confused. I would think numb, really unable to process the level of betrayal she is experiencing. Perhaps, as a coping mechanism, she is holding onto the old memories. But I feel Mauli's love for Kunal must have died the moment (or at least when) she fully realizes what has happened. I don't believe a woman can ever fully love a man, or especially in the same way, as before once he has hurt her this viciously.
I think Mauli has to go through the stages of grieving. I don't know all of them but I believe anger, bargaining and acceptance are three stages. Perhaps, as she moves through the stages, she will have different emotions. But acceptance will only come after she has truly mourned her marriage and most importantly, her hopes/dreams for her marriage. Once she can do this, she will be stronger and hopefully move onto acceptance.
I feel it will be easier for her to move to this stage once she begins to find out exactly how much they have done: going behind her back, sex, etc.

NO matter what, she must accept that this marriage is over and good riddance! She's been given a gift: freedom to find real love.


i think yes . she still loves him and anyone in her place wud try to give a chance and forget this incident. As a wife am telling this. she still loves him but she is hurt and shattered. its impossible for Mouli to move on instantly becoz it takes time for her love to die.

but for kunal its so easy he can easily move on in his life with his so called true love. the only emotion he may be having wud be guilt and fear to face the society. once these 2 are handled he will easily move on.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Since I love my hubby I think the answer is sadly Yes. For a person like Mauli Love, loyalty is like breathing for her. Even wen Nandini chose to believe Rajdeep in Lucknow she still loved her friend & wanted only good & happiness for her. She is that kind of person unlike scums like Kunal & Nandini for whom love, loyalty, honesty is not worth even the paper on which it is written. For such a person it is v difficult to hate Kunal. And no matter how much we despise Kunal he did care for her in the past. He made her happy, laugh, enjoy life. So its not like Nandini who never got any love or affection frm her hubby. So its indeed difficult for Mauli to hate Kunal. In fact in the future if she sees Nandini lying on the road hurt I am sure she will save Nandini's life. She is too good a human & too conscientious doctor to ignore a person's pain.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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One cannot undo a love for a person whom the person is loving from 7+ years. Mauli loved Kunal from 7+ years. It takes time to completely get over the relationship.

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