Originally posted by: -JaprilForever-
@JustMoi if RK had issues he's adult enough to sort them out and if really it was that big of a problem he wouldnt have lasted in BW and earned the reputation of being a frontrunner star. Who are we to pass judgements on someone's mental health? Its morally wrong at many levels.
And that's the thing, u do not know how or if Kjo suffered. So if u cant assume him to not have suffered i dont think its right to pass judgements at RK since it directly insinuates that u somewhere think Kjo suffered. What haves and could haves are all conjecture, there is nothing concrete about statements like 'he can do worse shit and thats why he needs a shrink'. If he had to cause harm, he is smart enough to do so.
In ur case the person misusing ur phone was impersonating u right? (Tell me if i need to edit this) so how is that not supposed to be criminal. So the officer would obviously tell u that that person had a criminal bent.
And cmon, spouses check each others' phones, best friends and even good friends check each others' phones. Its very normal to me at least. It may not be to u. Fair enough. As long as its not causing any harm its not right to pass blatant judgements without proper proof about a celeb we know about only from media and social media.
Well I do not know Tom Cruise, Kamal Hassan or Raj Kapoor personally. In fact I only heard of Raj Kapoor after his time. These are people whose cinema, talent and work ethic I admire and consider the best in their fields. I have also never met any of them but know enough of their lives to say their actions are not of normal healthy people. They are more in the direction of sociopathic people because of their actions.
Based on RK's actions which are documented I am comfortable saying that about him because normal people do not behave like that. For me, while I admire his hard work and talent, I will also not going to believe the best of him which you are asking me to, that KJO was in no way damaged. IME he would minimum feel violated. KJO is someone who wrote a book about how Kajol betrayed him, he is also a person who became friends with her fairly soon after he made big statements that he never will. So he comes across as forgiving. I only need to know human nature to guess at how people will behave. I am no way saying that is the truth. I am comfortable judging RK's behavior as abnormal because his actions which I have seen close to a decade have made it so. All his documented actions, not gossip mind you. It is possible to draw a character sketch of a person you do not know especially a celebrity based on the amount of factual information available for years.
Like I said, if people are not in any way harmed by people checking their phones it is beca
use they are surrounded by good people. Consider yourself lucky as to by the grace of God I go.
Unfortunately that is not my experience or normal behavior in the world. The reality though is this in the RL. When you google "is it safe to give phone password" one of the searches that comes up is
The national domestic violence hotline advice. So we have to disagree on this.
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