Bikhri hoon har jagah main ret ki tarah

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Zoya's stubborn attitude and Aditya's small prank made her decide to marry Arshad.

In Thursday's episode, Aditya actually broke her stubbornness by making her realize what she is doing with her own life and with him. Even if she called Adi's love as paagalpan but his words had deeply affected her. His words had made her feel she shouldn't marry Arshad.

On the engagement day, she was looking for Aditya. She wanted Aditya to come to her home to convince her again to break the engagement and somewhere she was ready to do that. She did not even care for the fact that her abbu was ready to give his old ancestral ring to her to put on Arshad's finger and get engaged. Ancestral property are symbols of ones pride and heritage and Waseem was ready to let go off his pride and prestige for his daughter's future. But still when Zoya came to know of Adi's 'accident', she didn't care for her father's pride, her family's izzat, let go off his hand and crossed the threshold to reach Aditya. She told Waseem that Aditya needs her that's why she has to go. But actually she needed Aditya so she left.

When Zoya saw Adi unconscious, she told him she left her engagement to come to him. She said that to made Adi feel that even after his prank call mistake, she still trusts him so much that she left her engagement to come to him.

But when she realized Adi once again lied, this time her real trust on him broke. Last time Adi said his intention was not to harm Arshad which she even believed but this time Adi's prank broke not just her own trust but also made her to embarrass her family in front of everyone.

This time with her trust, Zoya also broke and the broken Zoya puts the ring on Arshad's finger in front of Aditya. The moment she put the ring, she became weak. It was more painful for her to take this step and she took it.

Today, we saw a completely weak and vulnerable Zoya who lost her voice, her identity and her confidence. People are taking her life's decisions on behalf of her and she is standing still helpless without opening her mouth. Today, she has become a lifeless person. She does what Waseem and Arshad tell her to do.

Somewhere her heart still needs Aditya and she is asking herself why she needs him.

At this stage only Adi can help her but not by trying to be her lover but by being her best friend. Only his friendship can make Zoya strong again and give her the will to accept her love as well as fight with Waseem and Arshad to fight for her love.

But will Aditya decide to be her best friend again? We will get to know that in upcoming episodes but today indeed Zoya ret ki tarah bikhar gayi hai.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Subha...i get ur version..but what i feel is...aditya loves zoya..but that doesnt mean he is not a friend to zoyas anymore..the mere fact that he keeps asking her to not marry arshad is that..he knows she is ruining her life by getting herself married to a lerson she will never love..aditya himself said if he wasnt in the chapter even zoya would never marry aditya..its her fear to face love from aditya that is making her take the drastic decisions..
Yes aditya made the prank call..but was that a big enough mistake to never trust him again?.to break the friendship..?.infact..if a lie like prank call was to be taken this seriously then why didnt aditya react badly to zoya when she brought him back frm.paris with such a scandal..more tha anyone zoya knows how kurafati aditya and his ways are..a friend could understand that..but she was too angry with him for a friend..her anger was her reaction to the shock..when he confessed she just realized a deep emotion in herself which she had never explored and hidden under the tahmg of friendship..it was her instinct to hate that feeling and repel it by calling him untrustworthy..zoya used to.blindly love yash...and when her trust was broken..the scar left is so deep that..its not normal to fall in love again..and if one does find love..it will be very difficult to accept the feeling and take the risk of that broken pain again..aditya knows this pain and fear more than anyone..he was almost on the verge to jump off the roof to escape this feeling..zoya rather decided to diverge her life away frm.anythjng that has love in it..
Now the hosp waala.prank..yes..it was a prank..but was he forcing her to come?..no..he just let her hear he is in hosp..and she left her engmnt ceremony against her family for aditya..if she had no feelings and her concern for him was just that of a friend and trust..she could have finished the ceremony and then went to hosp..engmnt ceremony is not a silly thing to be just left like that..no matter how.much serious our best friend is..so aditya played his card so that zoya will have to question her own actions..and he did do it..the fear and sadness of zoya when aditya confronted her about her fear was enough to show us how scared zoya was about accepting her heart..and aditya just showed her that he knows..he knows her fears...
But as u said..the stubborn girl..zoyas heart is in war with her mind..and she has totally shut down her hearts calls..her mind is winning efgortlessly..and hence the engmnt..she needs to prove aditya wrong..to prove she has no feeling of love in her life to accept...aditya keeps.probing her so that she get the courage to burst out her heart..once she lets her heart out her heart will win its war against the mind..and unless she is probbed she wouldnt let her heart speak..

Yes ur title is very apt for zoya..and its zoya only who can get herself together..and aditya is only trying to help her truly do that ..he is pushing zoya only to face her fears and not herself fall into ruins..he is not trying to stop the ruin himself here.
Ps...sorry for the very long reply yaar..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Beautifully written 😊nd every wrd is true. His friendship side is much needed to her than his lover boy side. I bet after his c onfession if aditya had tld her to take right decision as a frnd without farak nahi scene nd other efforts she would nt hav taken the decision of marrying arshad. But at tht time she was not in a state to listen to him. he knw it for sure tht she loves him .This 7 days matter nd pooja's diary everything has affected him in such a way tht his lover role took over his frnd role. He is almost loosing each day of this 7 days battle. Zoya is also reciprocating his love in someway or other which is boosting his confidence. He will not afford to loose his 2nd life nd he is fighting to this extent bcuz he is sure abt zoya's love for him.
Adi is sticking to his wrds tht he will fight untill she says qubool hai. Surely he wil not backoff hereafter. But the way which he uses to make her realize is the problem now.

The complicated thing is adi sees zoya realising her feelings + stopping her frm takng wrong decision as one thing. he thinks tht realising will automatically lead to calling off the wedding which is true.

But actually he should see both as 2 diff things. 1st he should make zoya understand tht mrg arshad is wrong thing this should b his priority rather than making her to realize her love. But to do this he has to become her frnd again as u said :))

i really dnt hav hope on adi backng off but becoming her frnd would b similar to backing off but i highly dbt whether he w ill take tht route. I cannt sleep till now.😆after 2 more episodes i think we can somehow predict what will happen

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Her stubborness is what makes Zoya, Zoya and Aditya's paagalpan Aditya.

These 2 will never change, but they get each other. Her trust was never broken, its a big misunderstanding, Yash was a trust that broke- Aditya was never in a trustworthy category because friends are friends. Lovers are lovers.

Theres a big difference. Her friendship ideology has been blown out of proportion big time, Zoya saying how she only ever made one single friend was also silly. She was never a loner, she had her abbu, kohinoor and ammi.

Zoya is currently broken because she misses her best friend, but Aditya has not divulged from this whatsoever. Yes he's hell bent on proving a point, but she needs the push.

I agree, shes in a war of mind over matter, head Vs heart.

Which will be the successor we can only find out soon!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Great post
Today zoya spoke very little but you could see how she has become meek scared zoya again since the day she agreed to marry lambu the confident independent zoya is lost somewhere and waseem roughshod his way into getting what he wanted. Zoya is losing her mind and freaking out over adi and is basically a slow pressure cooker ready to blow up. She needs adi but he is also the reason for her turmoil lets see how she comes out of this and how adi can restore her trust in him.

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