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Glittersnow

@Glittersnow

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

...did aditya ever love his family with this intensity...

D effort he is taking to woo zoya or win her trust back..not even a bit i think he gave to his mother's insecurity...anjana accepted back her cheater husband..for whatever reasons...dat made aditya just ignore her inner turmoil...

I know anjana is hiding everything..but never did i saw aditya take time fr his mother..calm her down..make her understand she is important for him...he never cared much for his parents...he came back from paris for zoya..but his family's plight did'nt move him...

Aditya wid pooja was ignorant of his family...

Wid zoya .. If he continues same ..by challenging anjana like dis...nothing is gonna change...

Being the elder son..he have not done anything fr his family sarcasam...

Only adi can save his mother from dis madness..he should have time fr his mother...otherwise a truely happy life ignoring family is not possible...

Whatever d reason ..zoya has done out of love...zoya gives d respect her parents deserve...

I hope aditya learns the importance of family..otherwise he won't be able to give zoya a happy life...

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Krithika ravichandran

@Kiruravi

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

I agree with what you said. It is good point. But if you see adi has immense love for his family especially for arjun. His father cheated his mother with another girl, this made adi to loose his trust on his pa. Anjana accepted harsh for some reason which again didnt go well with adi. As a person who hates cheating he couldnot digest what his mom did. So all these things made him to loose trust on his ma nd pa nd became detached frm his family. it was only because of zoya he is now attached with his family. He once promised anjana tht he wil do anything for her nd she can check tht anytime. And during reopening of poosh case he stood beside his family not zoya, even arjun left the home for zoya but adi took his parents side. This shows his love immense love for his mom nd for his family. This love for his mom only gonna play a major role in future life of adiya. And however u convince, anjana is a person who will never understand tht she will not change, she is obsessed with adi. Sometimes family members wil not interact tht much with each other but tht unspoken love and bonding will always be there i think hoodas especially adi and arjun are like that.

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Deepthy

@deeps07

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Posted: 7 years ago

Aditya was brought up in a broken family unlike zoya..his dad had an affair and left them in an age where he could hardly empathize with anybody even his own mom when she accepted harsh back..its difficult for a teenager to.understand the complexities of relationships..in that perspective his anger towards anjana and his dad for 16 years is sort of justified to.me..he lost his trust on parents be it his dad or his.mom at the age of 16..after knowing abt sakshis betrayal..he realized his.mom atleast cared for.him enough to.show him her truth..tht made him forgive anjanas past and love her back..still thn, he used to call harsh mr hooda..it was during jail track he started calling him.pa..because harsh too reinstated the trust in him..his trust that he would save him no matter how much complicated or difficult the situation is..all of these are very human and natural facts...

Now abt aditya not caring for his family even after patching up with them..first i wouldnt say..he doesnt care..he does care..just not enough to sacrifice his love for his families baseless dislike towards zoya...he doesnt knw anjana has mental issues..In his eyes..she is just being a possessive loving mom who is too worried abt her son..nothing can be really done abt it except to show them how happy is with zoyas presence in his life..and thats exactly he is doing...

And one more thing..i really dnt understand why people.say aditya came back from paris for zoya..it was never shown that way..all it looked to me like he came back after knowing abt his family missing news..he looked rather surprised to see zoya in his home..he does care for his family..

but yes..arjun does.the elder son part in the family..arjun is the more responsible one..even aditya agrees to it..as he said in the anniversary party..but still there is a reason for it..aditya just stayed in the same home with his family for 16 years of.life..he had no family love and care..he never let his parents care for him..and Arjun was too young to understand the pain of betrayal to be affected that adversily by it...he was almost unharmed by its effects then unlike aditya...Frm such a bg its not easy for aditya to turn overnight and be like taking care of every.minute details and change of moods of his.mom or dad .

And he did mention how.much troubled he was to.leave his family for paris..he was broken..almost to.the point tht he didnt see hope.in his life..and no..anjana didnt invoke any hope for him in life too..it was zoya who instilled new feelings in him..tht made him.look for new happiness..he was just being truthful to his mom..a normal.mom would understsnd too..and i would say a normal mom would thank.god for zoya the reason for which her son is safe and sound and in front of her eyes..but the problem here is aditya doesnt know anjana is not normal..no one knows..

So basically i think..its neither adityas fault..nor fully anjanas..its just life is really hard in this family..the day harsh left his family for another women..some unmendable cracks did happen in evryones life..

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SHABLA MUSTAFA

@shabla

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: deeps07
Aditya was brought up in a brokrn family unlike zoya..his dad had an affair and left them in an age where he could hardly empathise with anybody rvrn his.mom whrn she accrpted harsh back..its difficult for a teenrger to.undrrstsnd the complexities of relationships..in that perspective his anger towards anjana and his dad for 16 years is sort of justified to.me..he lost his trust on parents be it his dad or his.mom at the age of 16..after knwing sakshis betrayal..he realized his.mom atkeast cwred for.him.rnough to.show him her truth..tht made him forgive anjanas past and lovr her back..still hr used yo call harsh mr hooda..it waz during jail tra k he started calling him.pa..becauce harsh too reinstated the trust in him..his trust that he would save him no matter how much cimplicated or difficukt the sutuatiin is..all of these are very human and natural facts...
Now abt aditya not caring for his fsmily evrn aftr patching up eith them..first i wouldnt say..he doesnt care..he does cares..just not enough to sacrifice his love for baseless dislike towards zoya by his mom..he doesnt knw anjana has mental issues..in his eyes..she is just a possessive loving mom who is too worried abt her son..nothing can be really done abt it.. And one morr thing..i really dnt understand why people.say aditya came back frm paris for zoya..it was never shown that way..all it lookrd like was he came back after knwing abt his fsmily.missing news..he looked rather surprised to see zoya at homr..he does care for his fsmiky..but yes..arjun does.thr elder son part in the fsmiky..arjun is tge morr responsibke one..rvrn aditys agrees to it..as he said in the anniversart party..but still therr is a reason for it..aditya just stayed in the same home with his fsmily for 16 years of.life..he had no family love snd care..he never let his parents care for him..and srjun was yoo young to undersatnd thr pain of betrayal...he wss almost unharmed by ts effects then unlike aditya...frm such a bg its not easy to turn overnight and be like taking care of every.minute details and change of moods of his.mom or dad .
And he did mention how.much troubled he wss to.leave his fsmily for paris..he was broken..almist to.the point tht he didnt see hope.in his life..and no..anjana didnt invoke any hope for him in life too..it was zoya who instilled new feelings in him..tht made him.look for new happiness..he was just bring truthful to anjana..a normal.mom would understsnd..and may thank.god for zoya so that her son is safe and sound and in frnt of her eyes..but the problm is aditya doesnt know anjana is not normal..no one knows..
So basicskky i think..its neither adityas fault..nor fully anjanas..its just life is really hard in the fsmily..the day harsh left his family for another women..some unmendable cracks did hspprn in evryones life..

Agree with your every word deeps...😳

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Isha

@tereliyex

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: deeps07
Aditya was brought up in a brokrn family unlike zoya..his dad had an affair and left them in an age where he could hardly empathise with anybody rvrn his.mom whrn she accrpted harsh back..its difficult for a teenrger to.undrrstsnd the complexities of relationships..in that perspective his anger towards anjana and his dad for 16 years is sort of justified to.me..he lost his trust on parents be it his dad or his.mom at the age of 16..after knwing sakshis betrayal..he realized his.mom atkeast cwred for.him.rnough to.show him her truth..tht made him forgive anjanas past and lovr her back..still hr used yo call harsh mr hooda..it waz during jail tra k he started calling him.pa..becauce harsh too reinstated the trust in him..his trust that he would save him no matter how much cimplicated or difficukt the sutuatiin is..all of these are very human and natural facts...
Now abt aditya not caring for his fsmily evrn aftr patching up eith them..first i wouldnt say..he doesnt care..he does cares..just not enough to sacrifice his love for baseless dislike towards zoya by his mom..he doesnt knw anjana has mental issues..in his eyes..she is just a possessive loving mom who is too worried abt her son..nothing can be really done abt it.. And one morr thing..i really dnt understand why people.say aditya came back frm paris for zoya..it was never shown that way..all it lookrd like was he came back after knwing abt his fsmily.missing news..he looked rather surprised to see zoya at homr..he does care for his fsmiky..but yes..arjun does.thr elder son part in the fsmiky..arjun is tge morr responsibke one..rvrn aditys agrees to it..as he said in the anniversart party..but still therr is a reason for it..aditya just stayed in the same home with his fsmily for 16 years of.life..he had no family love snd care..he never let his parents care for him..and srjun was yoo young to undersatnd thr pain of betrayal...he wss almost unharmed by ts effects then unlike aditya...frm such a bg its not easy to turn overnight and be like taking care of every.minute details and change of moods of his.mom or dad .
And he did mention how.much troubled he wss to.leave his fsmily for paris..he was broken..almist to.the point tht he didnt see hope.in his life..and no..anjana didnt invoke any hope for him in life too..it was zoya who instilled new feelings in him..tht made him.look for new happiness..he was just bring truthful to anjana..a normal.mom would understsnd..and may thank.god for zoya so that her son is safe and sound and in frnt of her eyes..but the problm is aditya doesnt know anjana is not normal..no one knows..
So basicskky i think..its neither adityas fault..nor fully anjanas..its just life is really hard in the fsmily..the day harsh left his family for another women..some unmendable cracks did hspprn in evryones life..

Very well said, Deep!

I come from a similar family situation like Aditya's and let me tell you it is not at all easy to build a bond with people who betray your trust, be it your own parents. I don't have any siblings so I wouldn't be familiar with Adi's relation with Arjun at that time but I do know he loves Arjun a lot. I feel as if Aditya has a better bond with Arjun than anyone else in the family

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Deepthy

@deeps07

Stunner

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Posted: 7 years ago

yes ishu..aditya does have a better bond with arjun than anyone else..because his relationship with arjun was stable from the very beginning..thats the only normal relationship he ever had in his life if u ask me..

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Glittersnow

@Glittersnow

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

@deeps07

Given the advantage of a broken family..aditya will have his share of griefs and problems...nw when he himself has decided to be with a woman..be a family man...

He should start working on his family especially mother..

If he wants zoya happy...

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Deepthy

@deeps07

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Glittersnow
@deeps07
Given the advantage of a broken family..aditya will have his share of griefs and problems...nw when he himself has decided to be with a woman..be a family man...
He should start working on his family especially mother..
If he wants zoya happy...

he doesnt see anjana having any other issue than concern for him..he believes anjanas hatred for zoya is because she blindly believes zoya can only hurt him..the apshagun fact..and it can be only corrected if he shows her how much zoya loves him.. i am saying this from adityas perspective..its us who knows anjana is deeply troubled...troubled by zoya that she thinks zoya is taking him away from her..aditya cant understand anjana that deep because of his past life ..atleast not right now...it takes time to build that depth in bond after such a past..in his perspective he is doing everything for his parents happiness..he is being happy himself..for one..the day he came back frm paris..his love for them was evident..then the janmashtami scene..where he says he can do anything for anjana..thts what happens normally..if he knew anjana was having serious mental trouble he would have been more caring abt her situation..

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Glittersnow

@Glittersnow

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: deeps07

he doesnt see anjana having any other issue than concern for him..he believes anjanas hatred for zoya is because she blindly believes zoya can only hurt him..the apshagun fact..and it can be only corrected if he shows her how much zoya loves him.. i am saying this from adityas perspective..its us who knows anjana is deeply troubled...troubled by zoya that she thinks zoya is taking him away from her..aditya cant understand anjana that deep because of his past life ..atleast not right now...it takes time to build that depth in bond after such a past..in his perspective he is doing everything for his parents happiness..he is being happy himself..for one..the day he came back frm paris..his love for them was evident..then the janmashtami scene..where he says he can do anything for anjana..thts what happens normally..if he knew anjana was having serious mental trouble he would have been more caring abt her situation..

Hmm...problems can be tackled through communication...anjana is busy in murders...manipulatins...if this goes d same way..aditya

will loose his mother..so its better aditya takes initiative and drive the thought out of anjana's mind that he will leave her...