No, Aditya should not back off

Originally posted by: deeps07

Great post..agree with all ur points..thats why bepannaah is so beautiful..it might not br easy to understand at first glance to most..because the whole concept of bepannaah itself is very crucial and controvercial..but the cvs are pulling it on so beautifully..its almost as if we r literally experiencing it..and will be able to relate..understand..and apprciate it sooner or later..

Yrs..aditya shouldnt back off now unless he doubts himself regarding his trust that zoya loves him too..because no.matter how much he stays away from.her..zoyas.mind is so afraid to think of any other possibility that she cringes at the thought of.mohobbat..the way she said hum.unse oyar nahin kar sakthe..parwaa karthe hein..kadar karthe hein..she was shaking thinking all.tht..its easy to mix up feelings with that much depth in friendship..zoyas mind is playing very stronh to stop herself.from experienving the bepannaab love..it was easy for her to reject arshad..but for aditya..she is reacting with full force..almost violently..like aditya asked...why so angry...why marry someone who she clearly rejected just a night befr just becz aditya.loves her..she is runninh away..brcz her heart aknowledges the feelings..her heart felt his love..and she afraid to explore her heart..if aditya backsout now..she will lrt her heart be silent..but aditya staying on and pushing her.emotions to to loose its balance...which will make her heart bleed.and .it will have to shout out..and only aditya knws that about her..

I am.blabbering a lot. 😆..i just loved the whole concept and its beauty..i cant stop.myself..sorry for the long reply dear..

Originally posted by: Pri89

Till a few post back, even I argued that Aditya should back off and Zoya should realize her love on her own. And, the doubt also lingered that what if Zoya appreciates Aditya but just as a very good friend.

Tbh I never felt Aditya needs to back off convincing love for Zoya. Neither his love for her nor her realisation of love for him. POV's does differ hence I think I felt it this way. Running away from one's own feelings is the worst kind of betrayal one can do to themselves. It can result in the future turning out to be a complete mess. If a person doesn't realize his/her own feelings for another or tries to deny, the best thing is to make that person realise whether or not you're scared, tries to deny, you've fallen for me. I've seen such a situation, perhaps that's why I'm speaking in favour of Adi's behaviour 😊

I even wondered is Zoya really worth fighting for? Zoya looked a little selfish to me considering how Aditya shielded her every time from the world and now, Zoya can't even take a stand for him.

But, somewhere down the line there was a huge parallel between what the CV's were trying to show and what I thought about Love.

After yesterday's episode, I realized that Yash adored and pampered Zoya but materialistically. Aditya on the other hand..he built Zoya from the scratch. He bacame a foundation for her. Love always makes you a better person.

Ykw? I've come in to terms with the fact that Zoya being pampered & not known to what society means & how cruel & vigorous people can be, she never knew what 'True love' meant. Mind the words - True Love. Her feelings were that of butterflies in my stomach kinda for Yash, if you notice further. What you say here, the materialistic love is the freaking exact word that hit my mind the first place when I felt this too 😆😆 Adi on the other hand knows how to deal with people. Living in a family where a separation of parents has happened, more of a troubled childhood, Aditya knows his ways to live in the society. Moreover he's in such a occupation that he can easily discover how people changes within seconds. A foundation for Zoya? I definitely agree 😊

The CV's are showing Zoya's perspective through Aditya. This shows how much Aditya knows her. He knows that her heart is at war but that the decision needs to be taken by Zoya only.

He knows that she is scared of accepting that she is in love again and will do anything to prove her point. Aditya just have 7 days to make her realize things.

"...You deserve love, dunya ki har khushi deserve karti ho tum, pyaar deserve karti ho apne aap ka pyaar, kyun kar rahi ho dobara aise? pehle hi tumhara dil toot chuka hai agar ek aur baar aisa hoga to tukde bhi nahi bachenge...

If Aditya doesn't hold her hands now, Zoya will surely fall off the cliff.

The best thing about Aditya? Knowing how vulnerable & shattered Zoya can be, he wants to ensure he'll always be there for her no matter what. Aditya, with the dawning of true love in his life has started knowing Zoya more closely because love can do wonders to a person. Unlike when he was married to pooja, how he avoided even her small needs & wants, became selfish at times, Aditya has completely changed himself & what matters to him now is what his love Zoya wants in her life, what she wants to do. Yeah exactly, that's why he told her at the office on Thursday & Friday episodes that she needs to admit her love for him. Her heart is definitely struggling with her mind & her weird behaviour towards Aditya is something how won't tolerate. By weird I meant the denial act of hers. It's so nice to see Aditya talking about love to Zoya, his words & the dialogues given for Harshad are so heart warming. Zoya just needs that certain push from her life to fall not offthe cliff but straight in to Aditya's arms & embrace his love ❤️

"Par Pyaar mein Zor hoti hai, Zabarzasti nai " Aditya can only show her the truth, it's upto Zoya whether she wants to accept it or not.

Aditya's love is what Zoya deserves. After going through such turmoil and betrayal.. Zoya is in denial.

And, this is bepannaah love.. It has to be insane.

Insane exactly 😃 All along what I meant is this. If one runs away from their own feelings, that would do nothing good to that person or the one who love you. It would be a destruction of both their lives. Adi doesn't wanna lose his first love neither wants Zoya to lose hers. Materialistic love & pampering doesn't mean love, it's only affection. Aditya & Zoya needs each other in this journey & Zoya is yet to realize it. Zoya is a kind hearted, innocent & a pure soul who is a very mild & a sensitive woman. Knowing her inside out, Aditya knows how she'll continue to live in denial of their love for eo & he doesn't want that to happen at any cost..

My verdict, Aditya don't back out till Zoya says Qubool hai to Arshad 😆 But, in between if Zoya clearly says that she doesn't want you (without the tears and pain in her eyes), please back out. And, we all know Aditya will back out if he sees Zoya happy with Arshad.

True that. If Zoya is indeed wholeheartedly excepting Arshad, her marriage & her future with him there's no way Adi will force her or go behind her, whatever the term everyone calls it. Aditya just wants Zoya's happiness, Zoya to be honest with her feelings & she's definitely ignoring her feelings for him & that's what what doesn't sit well with Adi. Knowing she has feelings for him, he doesn't want Zoya to lead an unhappy life

And, Aditya is doing all these things with his self respect and dignity. His love is his dignity. If the love of your life is about to take a wrong decision and is confused about life.. I am sure as hell that you all won't sit back thinking.. oh, she will realize on her own that she/ he is wrong. Either you love or you don't . Love doesn't comes with conditions that I will only do certain things for a person or won't do a thing cause it goes against my self respect. When you love you just care about the well being of the other person often at the cost of your own life. That's what Aditya is doing. It's another thing as Arjun said " Logo ki Zidd unki marzi hoti hai" but you try till your last breathe to save the person you love.

And, people saying that Aditya is purposely hurting Zoya in the upcoming scenes ( the Ring scene ), I can bet they have never loved a person till the point of desperation and stood on the verge of loosing a person and that too the point of no return. You do what you can.

Geez, the last line I admit to the times of infinity 😆 Love is such a beautiful feeling & if that love is so pure & strong, you'd even go to the extent of sacrificing that love because of where other person's happiness lies. If that person isn't in love with you, then it's fine to back off. It can't be forced neither can be snatched, it can only be felt by the heart & if that feeling is mutual, nothing can stop love from succeeding.

Yesterday's episode and Aditya's POV was beautiful 😭

PS - Since, I am a very straight forward and independent person.. I don't relate to Zoya at all but BP's story is so emotionally beautiful that it actually convinced me to change my mind.. Zoya is a shattered person and she needs a friend that loves her and will reason out with her to take correct decision.

High five 😆 I'm more blunt sometimes that I end up aplogozing to whoever I spoke to harshly with LOL Independent, hell yeah 😃 Zoya has been dependent on people for long that even after being successfully independent in her career, she's still ready to sacrifice that independence for the sake of her fathers happiness. Something I totally deny & can't understand nor relate to.. 😕 Where does her happiness lies then? Thrown out of the window?? 🤪

Never have I related ti her POV's for many issues dealt in the show. I'm ok with that tbh because there's a person I can totally relate to without hesitation & that's Adi 😆 He most of the time speaks what I would wanna say to a person, whether it was regarding the term 'Paak rishta' 🤢 or when he gave a piece of his mind to those kitty party aunties who saw him & Zoya in the shower 😆

Bepannaah has perhaps changed my perspective on Love for good.

Aditya loves Zoya beyond his pain.. now Zoya has to look beyond the pain and betrayal and accept the fact that.. yes she can love again and she deserves love.

At this point I understand why Zoya's POV was never shown. It's tragically beautiful.

Zoya accepted yash's betrayal but could never come out of it. Yes, she succeeded professionally and personally she became more open and interactive but her broken heart was always locked inside a cage. And, Aditya is the key.

Originally posted by: SewwiVB

My replies in maroon

When they showed Zoya being a happy woman, dancing with kids when it was raining before the leap, I felt she has come off the chapter of her cheater husband 😆, the trauma she received & the sorrow real soon because minutes before she was crying along with Adi 🤣 But now all those moments seems blurry because it's actually Aditya who has accepted the new fate in his life, forgetting the chapter of Pooja. She was his bestie but never his love. Her commitment for him, dedication made him feel he loves her but not at all. Zoya is currently his main priority & he'll make her realize the feelings she's running away from 😳

To end my note, a beautiful analysis I could totally relate to.. 😊