Near death experiences have this impact on people

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Posted: 7 years ago
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When you face a near death experience or when a close one passes away- many people go through what I see kaira go through.

You basically want to suddenly hold on to love. The fear is that you haven't really worked on issues or have thought things through because all you care abt is that closeness in time of "everything" might come to an end tomorrow. That type of feeling can fade and again you fall back into a toxic relationship.

Today's precap where Manish looked really angry to see Kaira together, I'm not surprised.

Maybe he is looking at this objectively (I doubt it based on track record). But a third person can tell how stupid they are being. They need to think about things holistically- how will this work? What must they mend first? Really- who influenced their relationship and how do they avoid that in the future. This is the second time G fam has been able to pull them apart - Suwarna and k dadi JKG track.

Question- how do they live in a couple vs have their individual identities and goals. How to love each other but also foster mutual respect.

What a let down this track has been... Kaira are not maturing- they are still sooo young... maybe this time they don't get remarried so early. And just spend time together (a dating phase... big no no in this serial) but live in their respective houses becoming the people that they should be - strong careers, education, time to mature and then they eventually get married and live like adults.

If not, I'm sure the baby track will come soon and I can't imagine these two kiddos with a baby.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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They are impulsive as hell(act like teenagers). They broke up without giving a flying fig about anyone...
Their love was idealistic at first they make these tall promises yet break all of them at every turn...
m hoping they matured now

Did they mature after this? I wonder...Kartik did not scream and shout at suwarna
naira has developed a habit of telling kartik everything...

I duno i just feel there should have been a better realization sure kaira milan is always lovely to watch but...i felt a bit like all this angst for this???
For naira to apologize for things that dont make sense🤣she said she should have went to him how she was in hospital like she was almost saying sorry i fell

u supported me twice against kabeer and ragav so i should be ur door mat forever...

No...man 🤣
Woman self respect is important if u have none just because u love someone they can do anything to u but ul take it because u love dem? so it gives him a right to throw all the wrong u ever did in ur face and call u chee drag u around like a doll coz what its his haq?

U divorced him to cause him less pain but suddenly u forgot all of that...
Naira's apology makes me so mad on so many levels



If they had a baby i feel sorry for it i think it will have to be the parent in their relationship
coz theyr babies
Edited by AnyaRSingh - 7 years ago
Posted: 7 years ago
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i feel if she really wanted to say sorry she should have only said sorry i did not tell you about shubham right away but shubham wanted to tell everyone himself, and i wanted to support him in his decision... and also that she had given him 24 hrs to come clean to the family or she would tell everyone on her own (although we know if naira said anything the family would have yelled at her because we know shubham would have denied the whole thing)... anyways she needed to explain it all because there was more to her hiding that fact than what she made it seem like.. the way she apologized for it was like she had known for days and not just hours... and then when she apologized for the divorce.. like tell him why you got that idea... because you didnt want him to be stuck between choosing his mom and wife and that you heard him say there is nothing between you guys and never will be... i hope they still talk all that through and not just push it under the carpet with their new found love for each other... they still need to properly clear everything out and have a mature conversation... but with kartik being so eager to tell the famjam i wonder if they will have any conversation about anything because they seem to be back in this hormonal teenager phase
Edited by Henriette - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Them living separately would make sense like you said. It would be nice to see them "date before they get re-married and the family drama re-starts, however, it's unlikely to happen. They didn't bother about each other for two years, but now they won't be able to live separately for even two hours. Kartik would always want to romance because sadly that's all love is to him.
Ugh...these shows are so frustrating.
Where the heck is Naira's college and does Kartik no longer work?
Why hasn't his drinking issue been addressed more than once?
Don't Naksh and Keerti have their own lives to worry about? They apparently can't have kids, but there were only a few scenes after the leap of them thinking about her miscarriage and that was it.
Weren't Singhania's in financial trouble?
Is anyone ever gonna address mental illness in this show? Swarna needs medial help, but no one seems to care. Wasn't Naitik suffering from depression as well?
I wish they incorporate more stories pertaining to other characters after Kaira get reunited (of course with Kaira playing a part because at the end of the day they are the leads) rather than starting with the whole Naira is mahaan and can handle her studies and susraal single handedly, while rest of the Goenkas do nothing. Following this, dadi's constant nab of par poota will start.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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But with nayi soch concept they should do a dating marrying goal track. Isn't this a lot more realistic in today's world?

My issue with their Milan is that it's tooo end of the world - let's get together. Rather than an actual realization and growth of character.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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To be honest I feel that the reason that Naira's apology was so fact less was because in a way through Naira CVs were trying to justify Kartik's perspective or may be trying to make it not look that bad. Making him appear clean in front of the viewers or maybe it's actually just that CVs really believe that it's naira's fault only in giving up on the relationship which means they are regressive as hell.

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