If this wasn't a show!!!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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So, I saw a small clip where Adi has been beaten & Zoya immediately tends to him all messed up. For some reasons, the whole scene is a little disturbing not because Arshad is beating Adi but because Adi going all this way only to force realization on Zoya.
Let's consider what would you have done if you were in place of Zoya in real life.

In my opinion, what Adi is doing to Zoya is actually some sort of harassment where he is forcing her to accept? And in reality it can be really frustrating experience & somewhat disturbing too.

If someone comes up to propose & is refused or turned down, then it's expected to be stopped right there, atleast for me. Sometimes, one needs a little push but Adi himself being beaten up in front of Zoya only to force some realization on her is a little disturbing for me. I know he is shown to be desperate but it still disturbs me on some level. In reality, this could lead to some friendships end forever or for a really long time.


Does anyone else agrees to it?

It's strange how for a show we all root for characters to come together in this way. I would have loved it Adi didn't have to do all this & Zoya herself realized certain things gradually just like Sonakshi-Dev did in KRPKAB. I don't appreciate Zoya for her decision of marriage like that too, especially when she didn't want to get married until last few days.



P.S- No bashing. I know it's a show. But I wanted to know if I am the only one with this mindset or anyone else is on the same boat?


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Count me in!!
Tho I liked the epi today,but can't deny the fact that Aditya now is forcing Zoya,I mean c'mon let her realize her feelings on her own!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree.. This amounts to harassment. .She loves him n needs to realise on her own.. This kind of violent behaviour is uncalled for.. If I were Zoya,frankly I wouldn't marry Aditya or Arshad after this incident. .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yameenaaa

Count me in!!

Tho I liked the epi today,but can't deny the fact that Aditya now is forcing Zoya,I mean c'mon let her realize her feelings on her own!!


Even after all this, she is stuck to her decision of marriage. So, I don't understand why Adi was shown to be getting beaten up.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Happy_hippy

I agree.. This amounts to harassment. .She loves him n needs to realise on her own.. This kind of violent behaviour is uncalled for.. If I were Zoya,frankly I wouldn't marry Aditya or Arshad after this incident. .


Forget marrying, I would end all ties with them. This is harassment & on some level it's mental abuse in my opinion.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree Adi took it too far by getting beaten up but I can't really blame him. Aditya and Zoya have been through a lot in their past, in terms of love and marriage and it's not easy to accept love after such traumatic experiences. Here, Aditya means no harm, he is just trying to make Zoya realise her actual feelings which she has been conveniently hiding under the tag of friendship. I loved how he told her that he was in denial too and it was unbelievable for him too that he was in love with Zoya.
I agree Aditya shouldn't have let Arshad hit him but he's desperate and in love 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

I agree Adi took it too far by getting beaten up but I can't really blame him. Aditya and Zoya have been through a lot in their past, in terms of love and marriage and it's not easy to accept love after such traumatic experiences. Here, Aditya means no harm, he is just trying to make Zoya realise her actual feelings which she has been conveniently hiding under the tag of friendship. I loved how he told her that he was in denial too and it was unbelievable for him too that he was in love with Zoya.

I agree Aditya shouldn't have let Arshad hit him but he's desperate and in love 😆


I agree & it looked good in a show.

But if someone had done this to me in reality, I would legit break all ties with that person because on some level this amounts to mental harassment for me.

My only question is if such kind of behavior can be approved in real life?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If this wasn't a show if I we're zoya I would say I love you adi ( before adi starts his farak nahi padta dialogue ) .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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i think he only got beaten up cz he saw concern in zoya's eyes
he probably wud have hitted arshad black n blue if he would not hv seen concern in zoyas eyes
she was pleading adi not arshad
she was standing their and was like plz don't do this and adi was like look you care

and coming up to your point yes its a harrasment and me being a girl would not hv tolerated this bt condition applied
if i don't care tgen I'll probably leave after someone saves me from harrasment and if i care then i will stop
thats wht happened
adi saw she cares and he was waiting for her to stop arshad bt she was denying her feeling bt at the end she lost
i think tommorow they'll show tht zoya will again say tgat she don't care
bt today concern was clearly visible though her eyes
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree... I don't like it when TV shows use these tropes to get the FLs to realise their love. But unfortunately, this is so commonly done that I don't know what to make out of it. In real life, something like this won't be romantic.

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