It's the battle of head and heart

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Uff my favorite topic. The battle of head and heart. What to do if u face this battle. Follow the heart to give proof to the head. See in many important decision don't blindly follow heart. Especially marriage. It is always better to get support of your parents. Zoya had listened to heart first. It failed. Now she is going to listen to head. Logic. If I had married after discussing with elders things would have been fine. A normal life. A compromise for her father. She will fail. The choice of her heart will give proof to the world why she is right in choosing him. Yes he will deliver on her trust. Because in her heart there is only one man. Let her deny it million times. The image stops at the smiling face of aditya hooda. It is not that she doesn't love him.It is just that his love reminds her of broken trust. Her fall of grace. Aditya is equally affected. The pain is visible. I always hurt the people I love. He is hurt that zoya doesn't trust him. He curses himself for the prank call. I knew it. He realized that was not needed. Now when children are in pain who provides the balm. Of course mummy dear. Roshna didn't tell anything but she understood who is in her daughter's heart. The boy she calls beta. The boy for whom she has a soft corner. And she said she is with her daughter's decision. She knows her daughter want something else and is doing something else. She told allah will show zoya the way. Aditya had anyway surrendered to Krishna. Arshad miyya pack ur bags. Elders doesn't mean father alone it also means mother. The choice of mother is clear and which side she is also clear. If ur just worshipping Shiva u can't lift the shivdhanush. It can be lifted only by the man whom the mother has approved for her daughter as per her heart's desire. What is seen doesn't happen, what happens is not seen. I was jumping seeing zoya roshna scene.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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good episode.. last part made my day
let's see what CVS are gonna go with arshad

what do u think shruti will thy make him negative for more dtama

cause in Indian soaps no wedding without drama
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Posted: 7 years ago
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yes Zoya and her mom scene was really nice ..for a change it was heartwarming for Zoya's mom to take action on her feelings and convey them to zoya ..she usually just feels the right things but goes with Waseem's decision ..today it was nice to see her realize that for the better of her daughter, she needs to stand up for her first! ..

this was similar to the zoya-adi noodles scene where zoya asks adi to close his eyes and think of his sukoon and he sees zoya ..likewise she has seen adi ..but lets see what she makes of it !!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is the battle I had constantly struggled with in my school days. Obviously it seems so silly now but at that time even making someone friend seemed like a huge task. Your society asked you to behave in certain manner at certain age.Had learned now a balance between heart and head.. emotion and practicality can only lead you to your happiness. Totally going off topic i guess.

Yeah so we all have this constant battle with ourselves. I loved how Zoya's struggle was presented today. She had chosen her heart before.. for her she had done that twice.. once with Yash ,which def didn't turn out be right but was she wrong in choosing Yash?? She was happy with him and totally in love.. So i don't think her decision was wrong just the person she trusted. Second time she choose her heart's path for Aditya's friendship.. not love.. again her decision wasn't wrong just the destiny has other beautiful plans for them. When finally she will choose her hearth's path for Aditya's love she will conquer the fear of this battle as this path will be the rightest path for her. This time Aditya will be the right person for her.. destiny will be with her and a support of selfless love of a mother. It is not always that your head is right but it is also not always that your heart take you on the easiest paths. Handling the situations with practicalities but choosing the path with heart can give someone immense pleasure. Tough road it is to maintain the balance!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Today's episode gave me mixed feelings. I kinda liked it as well as disliked it. This is probably the first episode of the show where the supporting characters rocked more than the leads.

Talking about the positive things:
1. Arjun- After a long long time, he finally gave a very good advice to Adi. One day away from Noor and Arjun's brain is back. Yes Mr. Aditya Majnu Hooda, listen to ur bro and give Zoya a break. Take up some job and get urself busy instead of getting hit by Arshad and hurting the gal u love more. Zoya will automatically come back to u because Lord Krishna have already blessed both of u and he is making sure Zoya realizes ur worth in some way or the other.

2. Arshad- Today it's confirmed that this guy is not a negative character. He too give a very good advice to Zoya. She made this decision of marrying him in a hurry only due to her anger for Adi and the guilt of disappointing her Abbu. He gave her time to think about it and I wish Zoya had listened to him. She says she is listening to her head but no, if she had listened to her head, she would have realized that first she needs to mentally prepare herself to get married. Marriage is not a joke. Just yesterday, she said she is not ready for marriage and today, she is asking Arshad to marry her to fulfill her father's wishes. She should have instead told Waseem that she needs time to get herself ready for another responsibility and another life. The mental condition that she is in, neither will she be happy nor Arshad will be happy.

3. Roshna- The star of the episode today. She is sandwiched between her husband and her daughter. She knows Waseem's intentions are good but his method is wrong. Today, she neither supported Aditya nor Arshad. She gave Zoya the perfect advice to think rationally and then take a decision.

Talking about the negative things, the precap was stupid and I will reserve my bashings for Aditya for tomorrow.

I can understand Zoya is hurt, Aditya broke her trust but her decision to marry Arshad to fulfill her father's wishes still make no sense to me. Waseem said that Arshad will never hurt and betray her, fine but looks like the cvs are in a hurry to end Arshad track that's why her decision to get Arshad marry looks silly and weird to me.

Noor should have been given better dialogues. She once again failed in convincing her Appi that her decision was wrong. Sometimes I feel she is neglected by her family because she doesn't make herself clear and understandable.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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After seeing the sneak peek on twitter dared to catch the last few mins n saw Zoya Roshana scene. It was really heartwarming to see a mother understand the plight of her daughter n no wonder they say mother knows best ⭐️ precap was typical filmy types 😆 but wasn't this epi supposed to air on Friday as per TOI spoiler?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@meera Arshad doesnt have to be negative. He just needs to be typical man that's it. 😆😆 if my guess is right.
@vandana roshna will have to stand up. She has been always silent. Caught between her husband and daughter. Supporting none. Trying to be the go between. But today she spoke to her daughter the way a mother should.

@alizia ask me what it means to battle that head and heart. But over a period of time I have learned to manage it. But still at times it does makes you crazy. The path of the heart if walked through the path of thorns where some pain is there always takes you to a garden that can give peace. It is said before nectar poison comes. Yes the proof will take time and you have to heed to the time

@subha let me see tomorrow episode and then decide what to do with Aditya majnu avatar. Someone has to put full stop to it. It is just that he is not being himself. He was really himself in yesterday and today episode. Noor should have never mixed alchohol in Zoya's drink. She is really childish at times. But I guess she might go through something major which will change her for better. Now she is taking everything lightly. Roshna gave one of the best advice. A marriage of compromise doesnt give anyone happiness. But Zoya has decided. She doesnt have to think anything. See what she spoke to Arshad was the truth. She cant trust her decisions and she will go with her father's decision as that is in her best interest. Coming to Arshad. He should have told Wasim or atleast his parents that Zoya needs some time than tell Zoya, if he was really geniune. He is not negative, but he makes use of the oppourtunity that's it. Because he has fallen for Zoya.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yes Mandy mama knows the best and to be frank the only sane mother of the show is Roshna. Anjana is psycho and Sakshi hypocrite.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shruti, when I saw Arshad packing his bags, I felt like this guy has come to India only to get married so he is in a hurry to marry Zoya. He told Zoya that she is taking a wrong decision of marrying him because she is too heartbroken to get into a new relationship but when Zoya said her decision to fulfill her dad's wish is firm, he decided to get married to her. I think Arshad will tell Zoya to shift to UK with him after marriage. So Zoya will realize she is not just losing Adi but also her family and her identity which she gained due to Aditya.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yaa Subha it will become like Niram. I also thought that where FL realizes she is not just marrying but she is going away from her BFF to another country. And yes shifting to UK means losing everything she has gained here.

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