What was the point of showing Zoya independent?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Can somebody please explain the reason behind showing Zoya as a successful entrepreneur who is an independent woman when they had to bring her back to square one i.e. being dependent on the men around her?
Initially she was shown as a weak woman who was pampered and spoilt rotten by the men in her life (Yash and Abbu). The slow transition from a timid and dependent woman to an independent and strong woman was so beautifully portrayed, it warmed my heart but what was the point? She has been made to be a puppet between two men i.e. Aditya and Arshad. Why does she have to choose between them at all? Why is it obligatory for her to have a man to depend upon? Why cantcshe be friends with Aditya and reject Arshad's proposal and live her life the way she wants to? Why should men (Waseem included) dictate her life?

It makes no sense, all the episodes that built up to this sequence went down the drain.

I don't want Zoya to fall in love with Aditya that easily, let her take it slow. Why is she obligated to fall in love with him? Just because he is in love with her? It'll be amazing if Aditya gives her space rather than clinging to her. Let her be, let her crave for him, let her miss him, let her feel his absence, let her realise gradually. This show was beautiful, why are they ruining it with stupid storylines which do not fit the plot and look half baked 😕

P.S.- The way the show is going, I have a feeling that there's going to be a dulha swapping drama or Zoya's realisation at the altar and I do not like both the options. Do you?


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Exactly,not at all satisfied with the way the story is progressing!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Pta ni yaar Kya krke chhodenge ye log show ka...!!!!
Pta Pta nhi kiis baat ki jaldi h inhe...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wait for another 24 hours.
Dood ka dood pani ka pani ho jaayega😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Exactly my questions.. Why Zoya should say yes to anyone? If she doesn't want to marry then how Aditya's prank.. Anjana's words.. Abbu's pressure.. Arshad's Handi mishap..Romantic letter.. can change that decision?? Why can't she stay away from Aditya , if she want to due to his immaturity, without bringing Arshad's proposal in between. They have just destroyed Zoya so badly in the show.

And what is this Aditya being Creepy. Man give her some space.. why be a stalker??

If she said yes to Arshad due to some senseless reason.. then 🤢. BP has lost it's charm completely and turning into other illogical shows. Heartless Zoya and Sympathized Aditya. Waseem and Arshad the main lead.🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Same here. I can understand her anger towards Aditya because of that prank call and Arshad getting injured during the dahi handi celebration. But then Zoya agreeing to marry Arshad only because of her fight with Adi or even due to the letter doesn't make sense at all. Just like she's not obliged to love Adi because he loves her, she's not obliged to marry Arshad too just because he loves her.
Anyways, the promos are misleading so I am sure something else might happen due to which she will take this decision.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'm starting to think Zoya wasn't wrong to run away with Yash. Hear me out...

If Waseem was always this controlling and Yash was her first chance at leaving then do you really blame the girl? Even Noor escaped to come to Mumbai.

As an Indian girl, it's virtually impossible to leave your parents house before marriage. And when in their house, it's under their rules. But here's the thing, your parents are supposed to give you your space. You're supposed to take decisions on your own, your parents shouldn't be pressuring you.

I'm starting to think so many of Zoya's bad qualities comes from the sheltered/borderline sexist parenting Waseem gave her. (Roshanaq is clearly just there, the woman doesn't have a say in anything)
Firstly, Waseem took all the decisions on her behalf, then he never let her be independent (the man made his own daughter promise to meet a guy for her rishta in order to continue her work as an independent business owner WTH?)

Every parent wants their child to settle down,yes.
But at the cost of forsaking their happiness? I highly doubt it
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Exactly what kind of parenting is this? And them justifying that it is Father love is such a bullsh*t. I don't believe in this kind of father love where you think you are the only boss and cut all the connections if your child try to take some decision for themselves. He didn't even talk to her for 5 yrs and after mumbai staying decision. And suddenly he is that much involved and caring for her. What about that time.. he didn't care whether she is dead or alive. Roshnaq is just a statue in this family nothing else. I hate Waseem to the core. Now lead pair is also getting destroyed for Waseem and Arshad
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't understand this why does Zoya have to marry Arshad if Aditya has put a black dot of shame on their prestine friendship by putting Arshad's life in danger. What for so that Aditya murders him? Where is the logic? Looks like Zoya logic. It would have made sense if she would have broken their friendship. But why this stupidity.

Looks like with the burden of responsibility on Zoya's shoulders she has lost her sense of reasoning and rationality. If she is doing this to provoke Aditya then Arshad will have to bear the consequences and if she is doing this to hurt Aditya then I would anyday prefer the previous Zoya over this one.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: alizia_malik

Exactly my questions.. Why Zoya should say yes to anyone? If she doesn't want to marry then how Aditya's prank.. Anjana's words.. Abbu's pressure.. Arshad's Handi mishap..Romantic letter.. can change that decision?? Why can't she stay away from Aditya , if she want to due to his immaturity, without bringing Arshad's proposal in between. They have just destroyed Zoya so badly in the show.

And what is this Aditya being Creepy. Man give her some space.. why be a stalker??

If she said yes to Arshad due to some senseless reason.. then 🤢. BP has lost it's charm completely and turning into other illogical shows. Heartless Zoya and Sympathized Aditya. Waseem and Arshad the main lead.🤢


@ bold : this question is wat haunting me for the past 3 hrs.Already her Pov has not been shown nd on top of this if they show tht she agrees to marriage then i dnt knw what 2 say. But i hav a feeling tht, what if zo finds out tht adi is the one who wrote tht letter but purposely hurting him cuz anjana tld her to stay away frm adi. I knw tht tis is almost impossible angle 😆still thnkng.

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