Dwelling in Past, Present and Future

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Posted: 6 years ago
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We live in present, remember past, imagine future. This three consists our journey in life. Handling these three times together makes our life. All can't handle these three times carefully. This makes the difference in their lives.

Sameer and Naina when was telling their past of lovestory, then chachaji was dreading about their future. He decided to be with them at present however dreadful the future will be, if only his kids does not break his trust and stay in limit.

Sameer and Naina beamed in joy with the happiness of present acceptance of their love. At past Naina used to be worried about future, thinking that she won't be able to stand for her love in front of family. Now she got her chachaji by her side, so she happily started to dream her future with Sameer.

There Sameer though happy initially, he could not continue to dream about future, the reminder from Munna about the past break-ups and fear of dreadful future made him uncomfortable again. He could not enjoy the happiness of present. So, he shared this fear with Naina, while Naina looks at him shocked at this confession of fear.

All Naina need to do is to assure Sameer that, yes she will be there with Sameer too however difficult the future will be. Only chachaji's assurance will not work. Her dependence on chachaji only will not work. She needs to believe in herself first so that she can say that, yes she can stand the storm of life with Sameer ahead.

Same goes for our lives too. We need to believe in ourselves first, so that we can face the storm of life ahead. Dependency on others only will make us weak forever.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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100% agree with you and thats why it is said You will be unstoppable only if you believe in yourself. One should just follow their dreams and stop being concerned about how to achieve,just believe you could do wonders and all you need is self confidence and the entire universe will conspire to make you win.
Naina needs to hold on to her confidence all the while calming down Sameer's fears and then all would be good 😊
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Munna actually raised the perfect questions to sameer that she ever be take stand for him whenever needed in future and sameer fear too also genuinr as he already shown guts to fight for their love from the world but naina still bounded to be some restrictions and this kind of situation could be in future also where has to choose between family and sameer ..She needs to be assure herself and sameer that now onwards ,she is with him for fighting for their love.
Sameer alone can't do anything .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: smiley_lizi

We live in present, remember past, imagine future. This three consists our journey in life. Handling these three times together makes our life. All can't handle these three times carefully. This makes the difference in their lives.

Sameer and Naina when was telling their past of lovestory, then chachaji was dreading about their future. He decided to be with them at present however dreadful the future will be, if only his kids does not break his trust and stay in limit.

Sameer and Naina beamed in joy with the happiness of present acceptance of their love. At past Naina used to be worried about future, thinking that she won't be able to stand for her love in front of family. Now she got her chachaji by her side, so she happily started to dream her future with Sameer.

There Sameer though happy initially, he could not continue to dream about future, the reminder from Munna about the past break-ups and fear of dreadful future made him uncomfortable again. He could not enjoy the happiness of present. So, he shared this fear with Naina, while Naina looks at him shocked at this confession of fear.

All Naina need to do is to assure Sameer that, yes she will be there with Sameer too however difficult the future will be. Only chachaji's assurance will not work. Her dependence on chachaji only will not work. She needs to believe in herself first so that she can say that, yes she can stand the storm of life with Sameer ahead.

Same goes for our lives too. We need to believe in ourselves first, so that we can face the storm of life ahead. Dependency on others only will make us weak forever.


Very well written post and very valid points made.Our past and present indeed define our future.All Naina ever wanted for her love story was Chachaji's approval.When she got it she was elated thinking that it was roses ahead for her .She has not realized the extent of hurt and fear that her repeated rejections have caused to Sameer.

They say that the first love is magical and special because it is the only time we love completely and let go of ourselves.We give everything of ourselves and trust that our love story will have a happy ending.If the love story breaks or falls apart,it becomes very difficult for the person concerned to love so freely ever again.This is because once the heart is hurt,the head keeps cautioning it not to go down the same path again.This caution becomes an inherent part of life after that.This has happened to Sameer.After Naina's repeated rejections,his heart wants to trust her,but his head is constantly cautioning him.Hence the feeling of fear in him.Munna(like a good friend) is also warning him about possible future problems.

Naina has to really and truly assure Sameer that she will stand by him now,come hell or high water.This is easier said than done and in reality a person like Sameer will take very very long to trust Naina again.Naina also has to realize that this time if she leaves Sameer,he is quite likely to end up killing himself.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I completely agree with that. Its her battle for her life so she must be the captain. She have to stand for sameer infront of everyone not chachaji, he can certainly support. I want naina to assure sameer that she will never leave him or even think of it whatever happens. She is strong but now she have to show it infront of everyone especially her family.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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What a lovely post, Laizu.. These interconnected clashes is what I think will make story interesting given CVs handle it well...And if they do I will be very happy as thats what we also go through in our daily lives of holding ourselves and pull and push with various relationships that we share..
Hope you are enjoying your marital life!!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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A very well written post, Laizu...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hi smiley .Hope u are fine congrats again on your marriage.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Thank you all for comments and wishes. 🤗
My wedding day is on August 14th.
3 programs as on 13th, 14th and 15th for mehendi, wedding and reception.
So busy with those preparations.😳

The episodes lately are rocking. Can't miss to watch them. 😃
Edited by smiley_lizi - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: smiley_lizi

Thank you all for comments and wishes. 🤗

My wedding day is on August 14th.
3 programs as on 13th, 14th and 15th for mehendi, wedding and reception.
So busy with those preparations.😳

The episodes lately are rocking. Can't miss to watch them. 😃


Best wishes Laizu👍🏼

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