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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandiab

yes I know the way zoya acts that she should know that she is in love with adi or even know that he likes her.

no friend/ enemies behaves the way she and adi do whether it was before the leap or afterwards.

yes adi is awesome. fun, challenging, hot and has helped her a lot. and wat is not to like about him.

but is this enough for a person to think think they in love with someone?

when a person has a certain type and has an ideal in their mind as to wat sort of person they like or Wat in their lives.

u going to need something major to make u see them more than just a friend.

arshad is the type that zo normally likes not adi.

and I honestly dnt understand the over exaggeration or the annoyance with zoya for not realizing that adi likes her or that she should have realized by now that she is in love with him.

quite frankly it seems as if fans of adiya want zoya to be forced to be in love with adi and I just dnt think it is the right time for that.

the only thing that would happen if adi was to admit his feelings to Zoya would be her turning him down. coz she does not see him in that light at the moment.

I have to say that she was impressed with arshad coz he seems calm, composed and nice and sane.
besides being 'nice' sometimes adi comes across as crazy and mean and not together.

he is not in the right place to be in love

let him be hurt and put himself together he does not need any1 to find peace his peace is within him. and he needs to realize that

as for zoya let her yearn to be with the person she loves not as a friend but as a man.


Perfect post... Loved it...

Exactly .. Why should she even be forced? Can't she just have her space and choose the best ... Literally getting on my nerves when i see both adi and Arshad taking turns to impress her ... Arshad am not bothered...

But Aditya... I just want him to walk away and give Zoya her space... That's when she is going to realise and come back to him...
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Posted: 7 years ago
#22
Can a guy and a gal really be friends?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: romancefan

Can a guy and a gal really be friends?


Yes and I can say this coz my best friend is a guy n he will only be a friend 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
#24
As they say...Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world. Zoya is naive who is still searching the answer of what's love and how it happens. Her heart has not yet felt the beautiful feeling of love yet. She doesn't know that she is already in love because she doesn't know what love feels like...this is the only reason she is not going beyond friendship.
I agree its a slow process but she is not getting the right moment with him, as she used to before Arshad came in between. She needs big time to understand his feelings, his love, which Adi and Zoya are not getting because of Arshad's arrival before time.
Yep all of Arshad's abilities, like matureness, confidence..success is unique. This is pulling Zoya towards him and she is being forced towards him and forced to understand him because he is showing himself in that light. Showing that he has good traits of a life partner. Its only Adi who can break those traits and bring her to life...and capture her heart in the end.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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the problem with the current tracks or previous tracks is that nothing has been executed properly.
post leap atleast the anniversary bash wasn't a disaster .. atleast one event of Zosh which went very smoothly

if you see from the start , they have always potrayed Zoya as a control freak who is clueless about the ways of the world. she isn't dominating or the unleashes her opinion over everyone one.. She wants things to be in decorum, she is unable to relate how the other person feels. This is very evident when she left her house for Yash or while she was his wife, neither did she make any attempt to look through him or inside him.. She is a one track women with certain believes , number one the world is a good place to live In, she looks at everyone with positivity. She doesn't like to fight or to clash, getting irritated or raising her voice isn't her cup of tea.

Aditya Hooda is the opposite of Zoya Siddiqui, he has the ability to drive a person mad. He did that to Zoya, she went ballistic when both of them were in Zosh. She got a reality check only because him. He doesn't know how to handle situations but has the sixth sense to judge people.

He is impulsive raised to the power of N and since his parents always did what he wanted, he tries to influence his pov or makes sure that he is heard first

For Zoya now, everything is okay , Aditya is in front of her, her parents are with her, business is good. her purpose to live life again is served. She isn't thinking anything beyond this.

She is obliged to her dad and doesn't want him to create scenes and is the type that I'll see things later, Arshads proposal isn't a dagger over neck , she can always say no. That the way she is , not dramatic and doesn't get hyper.
Aditya wants everything his way, he can't get the fact that after giving so much of clueless his best friend hasn't even asked if he is in love with someone. For her, Adi is just like that from day one , highly unpredictable, today he is good, tomorrow is another story.


Her point of view will not come on it's own, unless Adi speaks out about his

She looks at Arshad as a stable character just like she is and someone whom.she can relate to, that is why she is good to him. For her being good doesn't necessarily relate into marriage.

Speaking out in loud and clear terms is not what she is doing at the moment which all of us are waiting in anticipation that it will be done.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't want Zoya to be forced to love Aditya and neither do I want her to be forced for marriage. Because now its cent percent clear that she doesn't want to get married the way she not even feeling comfortable with Arshad's compliments, initially she was fine with him, but now when his advances was akin a lover then she is not comfortable. But with Aditya she is fine because she considers him her friend and she definitely wants to keep it that way.

Its that I want to know what's going on inside that little pretty head of Zoya with so many men breathing down her neck starting from Wasim, Arshad and the latest addition is Aditya. While Aditya continues to give signals of being more than friends we just want to know what she feels about it is she is completely oblivious to his advances or she is purposely ignoring the tell tale signs because she doesn't want to complicate their friendship that she treasures.

About Aditya I completely agree he does need to give Zoya some time and space. But, had he always done what was the right thing to do. He had always been like this isn't it impatient and childish be it friendship or love the only way to ensure lifetime of companionship is through marriage for Aditya. If we have signed for Bepannaah then we have signed up for this Aditya. I wont have it any other way. Its okay if Zoya comes down and bursts his happy bubble that would be her call.

Now with all this best friend and bepannaah love drama I'm missing the transparency which was initially their in Adiya's relationship. But then relationships are never absolute they are always dynamic.
Edited by enlightenme - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#27

At last a sane post.
I agree with all your points. Zoya is not entitled to love the person just because the person wants her. It's her choice and it's better if we let her decide. There is still time. Let her have her piece of mind and realize her feelings gradually. There's no need to rush. And it's also better if Adi gives her space and stops behaving like a romantic fool. Only then Zoya will be able to decide her own feelings. Until then to expect anything from her is too much.

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