why should zoya be forced to love adi

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Posted: 7 years ago
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yes I know the way zoya acts that she should know that she is in love with adi or even know that he likes her.

no friend/ enemies behaves the way she and adi do whether it was before the leap or afterwards.

yes adi is awesome. fun, challenging, hot and has helped her a lot. and wat is not to like about him.

but is this enough for a person to think think they in love with someone?

when a person has a certain type and has an ideal in their mind as to wat sort of person they like or Wat in their lives.

u going to need something major to make u see them more than just a friend.

arshad is the type that zo normally likes not adi.

and I honestly dnt understand the over exaggeration or the annoyance with zoya for not realizing that adi likes her or that she should have realized by now that she is in love with him.

quite frankly it seems as if fans of adiya want zoya to be forced to be in love with adi and I just dnt think it is the right time for that.

the only thing that would happen if adi was to admit his feelings to Zoya would be her turning him down. coz she does not see him in that light at the moment.

I have to say that she was impressed with arshad coz he seems calm, composed and nice and sane.
besides being 'nice' sometimes adi comes across as crazy and mean and not together.

he is not in the right place to be in love

let him be hurt and put himself together he does not need any1 to find peace his peace is within him. and he needs to realize that

as for zoya let her yearn to be with the person she loves not as a friend but as a man.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well summed up. Zoya is not naive or foolish or just behaving as if she cannot see Aditya's love. She may not even think of love , also as for Arshad it just coming across as an arranged allience where the person seems to be simply happy and glad to be with Zoya & also somewhere looking to settle down with her quite a natuarl way of coming in life for looking for a partner companion wife etc.

The love friendship balance needs its space time and reasons. Zoya was always keeping her love strenght ahead and then she has now seen friendhip in Aditya, she may be interested in Arshad as any normal person who would see a future of settling with a second chance to companion & marriage her mind is still just taking it calmly without any force as she wants to give this new allience a chance a chance to see whether she wants to even settle down.

She is mature sensible & living her life Personally people who love her should be happy for her give time and not force that love . If it has to happen it will else Zoya may not be interested in anyone period.

The CV's are showing a realistic side to Zoya's character and they know what she will see in her own self.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I literally wrote something like this in another post!

Aditya and Zoya love story is not being portrayed in a organic progression of love. Its completely one sided and being forced. I want them together but this shouldnt be the story end of. Their love to develop needs to progress slowly. I also didn't agree with a 3rd person entry as she sees him as a friend also. She's not ready to love so why force it.

CVs have left so many storylines open that showing their love progression or heartbreak as the main storyline now is whats making it boring and cliched!

BP was unique from the beginning, now its just become like every other love story, cat and mouse chase!! Let their love develop naturally, let it be organic, bit like Jab We Met. But these storylines are showing Adi's desperation! He's a Pilot, stop making him look like some love sick puppy CVs!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandiab

yes I know the way zoya acts that she should know that she is in love with adi or even know that he likes her.

no friend/ enemies behaves the way she and adi do whether it was before the leap or afterwards.

yes adi is awesome. fun, challenging, hot and has helped her a lot. and wat is not to like about him.

but is this enough for a person to think think they in love with someone?

when a person has a certain type and has an ideal in their mind as to wat sort of person they like or Wat in their lives.

u going to need something major to make u see them more than just a friend.

arshad is the type that zo normally likes not adi.

and I honestly dnt understand the over exaggeration or the annoyance with zoya for not realizing that adi likes her or that she should have realized by now that she is in love with him.

quite frankly it seems as if fans of adiya want zoya to be forced to be in love with adi and I just dnt think it is the right time for that.

the only thing that would happen if adi was to admit his feelings to Zoya would be her turning him down. coz she does not see him in that light at the moment.

I have to say that she was impressed with arshad coz he seems calm, composed and nice and sane.
besides being 'nice' sometimes adi comes across as crazy and mean and not together.

he is not in the right place to be in love

let him be hurt and put himself together he does not need any1 to find peace his peace is within him. and he needs to realize that

as for zoya let her yearn to be with the person she loves not as a friend but as a man.




You have a valid point there.And may be you are first to present Zoya's point of view. Possibily that is what the creatives too are trying to convey. Zoya sees Adi as her friend who has come to her aid over and over again and honestly wants him with her all the time.She sees him as her best friend but at the same time realizes his maverick ways and wants to help him as well just as he has helped her. We have been on a Adi track and not realised how worried Zoya has been with his erratic behaviour...she mentions it to Noor...his standing on the terrace parapet ready to jump off,his drunken scene where he almost would have killed the poor guy if Zoya had not intervened.Clearly she is worried sick with her friends erratic behaviour and as yet no more thaan that. She wants to help him as she thinks he has not come out of his angst with his past.
Meanwhile Aditya has moved to a different level and is totally head over heels in love with Zoya ...a love as he has never felt before. Over confident as he has always been he cannot believe Zoya feels differently and there lies the confusion.
Maybe Zoya has understood Adi's truth but does not have the same feelings towards him ...or she does not yet realise the truth of her feelings.
The fact is that both lost their partners for different reasons...Aditya because he was more friend than lover and Zoya because she was always the lover and not an understanding friend.

It is as simple as that. The narrative is now playing out the reverse for both of them. Aditya is now the unrestrained lover and Zoya in a best friend mode.

Something drastic has to happen for both to wake up to the biggest truth of their lives. That they cannot live without each other and that bepanah pyar is a blend of love above all but held firm on a foundation of friendship.

It is as simple as that.

We just have to wait for the earthquake.Arshad may be the trigger but I think not.I feel Zoya is using Arshad as a shield to keep Aditya in his Majnu avatar at bay. She may be playing with fire but we just have to wait and watch. Aditya will obviously now recede and move onto a Devdas avatar ( HC will nail that brilliantly)

The actual trigger will be Aditya discovering Anjana's truth. He will be shattered and in pieces ...that is the earthquake that will get Zoya to run to him to embrace him and protect him. That is the moment of her realization.

Together they will face the biggest battle of their lives bound by a bepanah pyar.

Fingers crossed.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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TM, u actually made a valid point. Everybody wants to see Zoya's POV. Well, Zoya's POV is she treats Adi as her best friend and she has made it clear to him number of times.
She was so busy with her career that she has actually no place for love in her life. She has suffered a heartbreak so she doesn't want to go into the path of love again. Yes, Zoya is subconsciously in love with Adi but she doesn't have the time to realize it because she's so busy with her personal life and her career.

She did tell Waseem that she's not ready for marriage but at the same time, she doesn't want to hurt him again. She saw Arshad's good side in the hospital when he was playing with the sick kids. She knows he is a good guy so she gave him a chance.

But I do agree sometimes the dialogues given to her are confusing. In one scene she said if Arshad proves himself to be worthy of her within 2 weeks, she'll think about marriage. In the next episode, she tells she has already decided that she's not going to marry Arshad so after 2 weeks she will reject him. That's why people feel her character is inconsistent.

Frankly speaking, I don't have any problem with Zoya being nice and cordial with Arshad. I agree it's not the right time for Aditya to propose to Zoya because she's not in the position to think about love. She will be in huge dilemma whether to accept his love or reject it and that's going to affect their friendship.

Anyways, after watching the new promo, I feel the cvs are bringing a new twist in the show. I seriously hope Adi backs off now because nor just Zoya's but even Adi's character is being butchered by showing him as a jobless majnu. Hope they show Adi misunderstanding Zoya's concern for Arshad as love and he backs off. It would be a much needed twist.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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The problem is that zoya's POV is a mystery...she is single, independent and is free to take decisions of her life...there is no compulsion that she should love adi and it is completely ok if she rejects his love and want to marry arshad...but we know nothing much about her thought progress or what she wants...if CVs have made her views more clear then all this mayhem would never have happened...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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That is because the show is narrated from Adi's PoV by keeping his character intact and Zoya inconsistent. So it's obvious the majority wants HER to fall in love come what may.😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I mentioned in another thread that the problem with the current track is the way it's being executed otherwise I do find Aditya and Zoya behaving in character. cvs should have highlighted Adi's insecurities and for sure the focus should be more on zoya's inner turmoil. But instead it's looking like competition between 2 guys to get the girl as a prize.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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There's absolutely no pressure that Zoya has to love Adi. Right now Zoya isn't in a position to love or even think of falling in love. She has been betrayed by her husband whom she had loved so crazily. Those wounds will take time to heal. She may look happy outside and has forgiven Yash and moved on, but is she ready to give love another chance , I don't think so. At least not yet. Which is why she's shown to be clueless towards Adi's advances,imo...


Why the frustration is getting worse among fans is coz of the way Adi is shown eager to confess his feelings and his pov isimore clearer & relatable, thus viewers empathize more withhim right now as he's madly in love. If at all they'd shown him to back off a bit and let destiny plays it's role, it'd have been more tolerable. Since its a love story peple expect the feelings to be mutual or develop along the same course of time. Unfortunately the past two three weeks have been a torture as the story has come to a phase where the feelings are one sided and other side seems to be blank. Fans are tend to feel disappointment, as they signed for a Bepanah love story of Adiya for one other and not just one sided love of Adi, I think,! Still that doesn't mean there's pressure that Zoya has to fall for Adi...


The way it's shown is what is making the fans disappointed and not characters exactly, like other members have mentioned already.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree with TM. Many people criticizing on social media are not doing it due to POV of Zoya but that Zoya does not realize Adi loves her and doesn't love him back therefore she doesn't deserve Adi.
My issue with this storyline is, to me personally Zoya is being treated as a doll who is simply smiling. It would be good to have an insight on her mind and internalization about Arshad or Adi for that matter. For me it is out of character that after what happened in the past and how morose Adi was that he suddenly loves Zoya and is chasing after her like mad, expecting her to say yes. Actually I do not even blame Adi when Arjun and Noor are spurring him on with their childish BS.

From a writer's POV, someone consistently friendzoning the lead puts me off a bit. Ofcourse everyone has their preference and some people may not care but in a romantic show maybe I would like to see attraction from both sides EVEN if one of them do not necessarily love the person.

Lmao Arjun low key yells whenever Adi does not agree with what he is saying - that character has grated on me from the start. I do not like the way he speaks to his brother and is self righteous AF.

Edited by Deviant_Pixel - 7 years ago

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