Perfect! Absolutely true! You echoed what I feel!
Though I'm not supporting Anjana murdering people, I still say I've stronger points to empathize with her than Sakshi and Pooja. Both of them are really disgusting people. Sakshi is a murderer too who killed the happy child in Adi like you said. It's just that it's not visible.
Today Parineeta really nailed the episode. And I felt so bad for her when she said she didn't want her son to undergo the kind of pain she went through because of Harsh. I could understand what she must've gone through during the time when she got to know of PooSh and was worried for Adi. She is wrong in killing. Agreed. But at least she has a very reasonable explanation for it unlike Sakshi or her daughter who only manipulate things as per their convenience and present every single incident in a biased way. Anjana killed two cheaters. It's a sin. And PooSh and Sakshi invisibly killed two innocent and pure people. How's that any less sin?
Sakshi was saying Pooja did a mistake and Anjana did a sin? Really? Based on what did she decide that? Is getting pregnant outside marriage and simultaneously sleeping with your husband just a simple mistake? Only physically harming someone comes under sin? Now that someday you'll go near your daughter and daamaad whom you actually deserve, someone must be waiting up there to tell you what actually a 'sin' is. Like mother like daughter. I hate these both selfish self obsessed women.
Sakshi, You keep saying Hoodas think they're perfect and don't realize their mistakes. But the reality is that it's you both mother and daughter who are blind to your own mistakes and keep blaming others. You complained that Adi thinks he's perfect. Great. Thanks for your favor and because of you, he no more thinks he's even correct. Leave being perfect.
Honestly, if we talk from Anjana side, a person doesn't suddenly get up a morning and turn into a psycho. It's a thing that gradually develops out of insecurities, mental weakness and various other factors. When Harsh cheated her and she was desperately trying to get back her husband, then her son, her ray of hope, her life, started hating her and considering someone else as his mother. Just like her husband started treating someone else as his wife. She was left with none. And this wasn't for a day or two. For years. We saw the kind of pain Adi and Zoya faced for many months after they came to know about their partner's infedility. We saw how heart wrenching it is. But at least AdiYa had their families by their side. Here Anjana battled this for several years, all alone, with an extra dard of being hated by her dearest son. Being a mentally weak person, she gave in and turned psychotic. In such a state, Sakshi instead of making Adi understand how much his mother loves him and needs him, enjoyed being called a mom by Adi and enjoyed all the importance being given to her and her beti. A person who could influence Adi always choose to keep mum when he shouted on his parents and did not give them a shit.
I feel that, in every sin this Psychotic Anjana commits (be it murdering or hating Zoya for no reason or anything she might do out of her psychotic insecurities in future), Harsh and Sakshi do have an indirect hand. Because they're also the factors which turned Anjana like this in the first place. But ultimately Anjana will be the only person who'll receive punishment. I know.
I really hope to see a day when Emotional atyaachar is not so undermined when compared to physical torture. Emotional atyaachar has the capability to make a living being a walking laash, a psycho, a murderer, a suicidal and many more. Our laws can never understand or consider this. Unfortunately.