What would you do if you were in Adi's place?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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1) Distance yourself from Zoya and go back to Paris?
2) Pursue Zoya?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Def pursue Zoya. We def have so many things in common and a connection. I feel an emotional, mental, and physical connection to her thats hard to find/come.
I def would tell her my feelings ...its hard to convey feelings and hard to face rejection but if we are good friends...we should be able to talk about anything without judgement ...

(Im speaking as if Im adi ...or if I were Adi)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I would tell her the truth about my feelings and distance myself, only because that way there are no regrets :)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If I were Aditya, I would have tried to know what Zoya wants and if she wants to give Arshad a chance than, I would have walked out of her life cause I have a life too and won't waste that on pursuing her.
If I were Aditya, I wouldn't have relentlessly pursued Zoya after knowing that she only regards me as her friend and that she values me but has a life of her own. I would have distanced myself from her.

Par I am not Aditya aur aisa series mein kuch hone wala nai hai.. Par bhi I will watch.😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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as here he is pursuing zo i will do the same
but i want to hc by my side 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I would give her space and let her decide if she wants to marry Arshad or not. I can't force her to accept my love even after knowing that she only treats me as her best friend. If she accepts Arshad's proposal, she will still remain my best friend and I will try to move on. If she refuses to marry Arshad, I will still give her some time and slowly make her understand my feelings for her.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ishana-

I would tell her the truth about my feelings and distance myself, only because that way there are no regrets :)


Agreed, she has a life too, i f i were Adi and truly love her, her happiness matters to me more thn my own :)
Posted: 7 years ago
#8
I'd let her know I love her but she has her own say whether she wants to accept love or she's happy with the friendship. If I position myself in Adi's place, my heart would shatter into pieces surely because I wanted more than friendship & I'm fed of being called her best friend & from there onwards, I'll think of my career & keeping my loved one's happy. I don't wanna force a relationship unnecessarily. From saying this I mean, though I will be loving her that doesn't mean she's gonna reciprocate the feelings in the same way. Love isn't about snatching people, it's giving in to someone honestly, happily & willingly. A/c to the current plot, Zoya will feel for Adi if he shows some difference in his behavior for her. Idk how else will it make sense because atm she's having nil feelings about love, let alone for Adi 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Its better to tell her my feelings and leave the decision up to her. Its not a good idea to keep my feeling's to myself,, in that way there will be no regrets. No way would I force things upon her.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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let her know how i feel and then space out .. let her decide on her own ..

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