I love you. But, not in love with you.

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Prriyam

@Prriyam

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Hello people

Off YPNTKH topic! A query that has stayed with me with no clarity on what this means in-depth: I love you, but I am not in love with you. This I get to see being used at many places recently. I have my own interpretations but mostly I draw a hazy picture. And this comes from me, who has gone for a love marriage myself! 😕 weird, aint it.

So, to you, what does this mean? Help me get this correct in my head!

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noexcuse

@noexcuse

Sparkler

Posted: 7 years ago

I have a cut throat arrange marriage...I don't think I am qualified to answer your query 😭

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Paridhi

@heart321

Explorer

Posted: 7 years ago

That's an interesting phrase! Though this is the first time i am reading this, here is my interepretation of it.

You know if you have loved someone once, a part of them stays with you forever. For this phrase, it's ike a person has moved on in life but a part of that other person stays. So when it is said that '' I love you' , it's the part in you that you love and not that other person. The other person might have changed or moved on for good and you dont seem to love him/her the way they are now.

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war_is_peace

@war_is_peace

Sparkler

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Posted: 7 years ago

priyamm i believe its just a way of saying that its not a couple wala love.

u c love is love...be it love for friends or love for your parents or love for your child or love for your siblings. its still love. many a times a friendship wala love or sibling love is purer than the couple love or parents or mother child love because it doesnt depend on greed or lust.

coming to the point of love you but not in love...can mean 3 things...

1) i dont love u but i dont want to hurt u

2) you aren't the top priority in my life coz i seek for more.

3) its the other kind of love.

i hope i made sense 😆

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war_is_peace

@war_is_peace

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: noexcuse
I have a cut throat arrange marriage...I don't think I am qualified to answer your query 😭

ofcourse u r qualified...u exist on the planet is the only qualification required i believe 😳

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noexcuse

@noexcuse

Sparkler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: war_is_peace
priyamm i believe its just a way of saying that its not a couple wala love.
u c love is love...be it love for friends or love for your parents or love for your child or love for your siblings. its still love. many a times a friendship wala love or sibling love is purer than the couple love or parents or mother child love because it doesnt depend on greed or lust.
coming to the point of love you but not in love...can mean 3 things...
1) i dont love u but i dont want to hurt u
2) you aren't the top priority in my life coz i seek for more.
3) its the other kind of love.

i hope i made sense😆

I was going to write this family and friends wala love then typed some and didn't make sense so gave up. Thank you Hiya. Were you missing last night? Or is it me missing out ?