What is Naina's fear???

Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb

I have read a lot of posts in the forum stating Naina is being selfish. Why did she fell in love when she could not stand up for her love? Didn't she know all these years that Sameer is Maheshwari??

My take on this... When she fell in love with Sameer at first sight, she didn't even know if he would love her back. When he did, it was like a dream come true for her and unbelievable. With Shefali's support, guidance or influence, she kept on progressing towards a making her dream a reality.

When she got to know about bet, she was upset with herself that she liked to her family and teachers for a boy like Sameer and she could not understand Sameer's true intentions. At the same time, when she was going through this heartbreak she saw an example of Megha ben who also trusted a wrong person and made her family and herself suffer.

That probably was an eye opener for her where she would have realized that if she would have done the same thing, how much she would hurt her family. I think that was also a reason due to which she took longer to forgive and accept Sameer's love. But at that time also she would have not thought that anyone from her family would take a step to harm themselves. She always knew that whenever her family finds out, she will be slapped right left and center by Taiji and Rakesh. But she wouldn't have thought that someone could also harm themselves. This she only realized when Shefjun kaand happend.

I think apart from Chachaji's trust breaking, her biggest fear is that someone from her family could harm themselves. Agreed that she is wrong in taking a one sided decision but it is not right to term her selfish for doing this cause she is not doing this for herself.

Originally posted by: asmita21180

First of all Love knows no roads..It can happen to anyone ,anytime, anywhere... And falling in love can never be planned... This is one thing that's pure natural feeling...

Although you can plan which way to go in your love. But that too after the seriousness of your decisions , you can definitely plan a future but falling in love can never be planned ...

For Naina it was every way love at first sight... Even in anger also it was love and trust for the boy that was broken... But not lost... She always loved sameer no matter what... She had given her heart to him...And it thereafter belonged to sameer...

For Sameer , Although it took time for him to realise ... But it was his first love...And then and there his heart belonged to Naina ... May be Due to Nana Jo's interference in his love life...He never ever thought of all the social issues... He was raised by Nana ji...And he had different perception on life and love...

So now with the change in relationships brought them to reality of life...Both of them , never looked to this phase... As any lovers could..but now facing it themselves ...They will have to fight it out.. and face whatever comes there way...

So no one is selfish or fool here... They are just kids...And now being adult they have to realise their dreams and fight for it..

Originally posted by: asmita21180

First of all Love knows no roads..It can happen to anyone ,anytime, anywhere... And falling in love can never be planned... This is one thing that's pure natural feeling...

Although you can plan which way to go in your love. But that too after the seriousness of your decisions , you can definitely plan a future but falling in love can never be planned ...

For Naina it was every way love at first sight... Even in anger also it was love and trust for the boy that was broken... But not lost... She always loved sameer no matter what... She had given her heart to him...And it thereafter belonged to sameer...

For Sameer , Although it took time for him to realise ... But it was his first love...And then and there his heart belonged to Naina ... May be Due to Nana Jo's interference in his love life...He never ever thought of all the social issues... He was raised by Nana ji...And he had different perception on life and love...

So now with the change in relationships brought them to reality of life...Both of them , never looked to this phase... As any lovers could..but now facing it themselves ...They will have to fight it out.. and face whatever comes there way...

So no one is selfish or fool here... They are just kids...And now being adult they have to realise their dreams and fight for it..