Cheating is a choice not an option

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love_again

@love_again

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Posted: 7 years ago

Hi, new here reading all the discussions and though I'm a Jeni fan, I'm not able to digest the character of Zoya here ...The lady called her husband's affair as Pak ...I don't know who is more stupid in the show the character or the makers...who term an ema is pak like seriously that was atrocious

Now coming to the fact of a happy marriage...I think many of us can be married here and I think there is nothing like a perfect marriage be it a love marriage like here it was Yash and Zoya or an arranged one like Pooja and Adi. If you have any problem with your partner go and discuss with them ...if Zoya can elope with Yash, I'm sure he could have discussed her shortcomings with her and being so much in love with him I'm sure she would have understood same goes with Pooja and Adi ...but no, instead of discussing they chose to CHEAT which is in no sense justified as cheating is never an option but a person's choice and here the great makers show that right ...and calling it pakh like really have they lost it...Zoya is too much blinded and can not see the reality that her husband betrayed her ...betrayal should not be forgiven at any cost...

And really this Yash and Pooja being victims like really as for Mr Yash that girl eloped with you to get married and you say you are in a loveless marriage ...And then Pooja, that man gave you a huge sum without even questioning for what you need that huge sum he trusted you and what she did ...those cheaters shouldn't be forgiven is my pov

I hope I did not offend anyone sorry if I did but wanted to say all this after watching yesterday's episode

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Maryam

@Maryam2

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Posted: 7 years ago

Heyyy

first of all.. welcome to the best forum😃

nice post there.. i mean i agree that cheating is never an option specially after watching the flashbacks it seemed that they never tried to fix the problems with their partners.. specially yash

and that 'paak rishta' is just too weird to digest atm

but i am hoping for some really good stuff in future.. loving the track!

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love_again

@love_again

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Maryam2
Heyyy
first of all.. welcome to the best forum😃
nice post there.. i mean i agree that cheating is never an option specially after watching the flashbacks it seemed that they never tried to fix the problems with their partners.. specially yash
and that 'paak rishta' is just too weird to digest atm
but i am hoping for some really good stuff in future.. loving the track!

Thank you 😃

Hoping for the same

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Joy

@_Joy_

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Posted: 7 years ago

Welcome to the amazing forum dea 🤗

Exactlyyy...

They wr truly aware that they wr cheating... n wrong is wrong no matter wht!

They claim to hide the truth coz they didnt want to hurt AdiYa... but still had the guts to doo all this behind their back n also lie to them that they love AdiYa(Yash bfor dying)... how fair is that??! Their love may not be in their hands but relationship truly was!!!

They just gave up on their spouses n their relationship! The moment they fell in love... they started finding reasons n strted assuring themselves that its all coz of AdiYa n halath... rather than making them realise whats gng wrong or sharing what they really expect!! They didnt consider AdiYa mature to understand them... but its actually their immaturity to find reasons n justify their guilt... rather than putting lil effort or atleast to walk away gracefully!!

P.s Adi-Pooja was a love marriage too

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love_again

@love_again

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: _Joy_
Welcome to the amazing forum dea 🤗

Exactlyyy...
They wr truly aware that they wr cheating... n wrong is wrong no matter wht!

They claim to hide the truth coz they didnt want to hurt AdiYa... but still had the guts to doo all this behind their back n also lie to them that they love AdiYa(Yash bfor dying)... how fair is that??! Their love may not be in their hands but relationship truly was!!!
They just gave up on their spouses n their relationship! The moment they fell in love... they started finding reasons n strted assuring themselves that its all coz of AdiYa n halath... rather than making them realise whats gng wrong or sharing what they really expect!! They didnt consider AdiYa mature to understand them... but its actually their immaturity to find reasons n justify their guilt... rather than putting lil effort or atleast to walk away gracefully!!

P.s Adi-Pooja was a love marriage too

Thank you😃

Hehe I forgot that theirs was also was love mrrg😆

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Esha Singh

@eshasrk

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Posted: 7 years ago

I totally agree that Cheating is a choice that ppl make, its not an option.

Becoz the people who cheat their spouses know very well that what they are doing is so damn wrong and can hurt so badly, still they do it and continue doing so keeping their partners in the dark.

Both couples had a love marriage and the ones who cheated knew exactly what they were getting into when they decided to get married.

Still if things didnt work out the way they expected , there is something called COMMUNICATION...

Talk abt all those problems with your partner, its not like the partner is a sniffer that he or she will snif when something is amiss

And if communication still doesnt help than QUIT !!!

Walk out of the marriage, but don't cheat behind the back and think tht its justified

Also the reasons which are given by PooSh for the EMA are so lame and pathetic tht I don't have words

One wanted passion, the other wanted a friend...

Now on which one of these 2 was their relationship based ????

I would really like to know that