Was Adi right in raising his hand to slap Zoya?

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Joy

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Posted: 7 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll
Well m conflicted actually. 50-50 actually!!
Raising hands on children and women is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Some men think it's machoness to keep women and physically weaker people under control by abusing and hitting. So I m a feminist and m totally against violence and people hitting each other.

But here this is Not the case. We all know Aditya Hooda respects women and really cares for Zo!
Zoya said something like - how wud u feel if it was proved that Chand paiso k liye pooja slept with others...
And then That's y Adi raised his hand. Lifted his hand but Controlled himself. We all know how impulsive he is. Please Do not think m justifying his actions but just try to think what led to it.

I will reserve my judgement till I see the episode bcz In the spoiler when zo blamed Adi, I was really angry on her but after seeing the episode, I fully understand and m on her side now.
So let's Not jump to conclusions

Agree agree

I gs we shdnt judge him just by this impulsive on the spot action!!

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@AuthorSneha

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Posted: 7 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: SQ.com
Raising hands on someone whether is not at all right.
But see here Zo said "Pooja chand paiso ke liye..." which angered Adi considering the fact that he still loves Pooja.
He was not into any domestic violence or doesnt even believe in hurting women.It was a reflex reaction just like Zoya has slapped Adi so many times.

+1 well said

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mahi_gurmeet

@mahi_gurmeet

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Posted: 7 years ago

#33

we first need to clear that proving sm1 mental &out of control of own... & being called sm1 characterless, sm extent prostitute (chand paiso keliye kisi ke v saath) 2 different things!!!!!!!!

for a woman her character is upon everything. nnothing can b compared wid this insult. such wrds can anger any1 specially ur loved ones & they hv d ri8 to react too.

Yash wasn't called a characterless ofcourse then hw can Zoya call pooja a characterless here?

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tvdluverr

@tvdluverr

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Posted: 7 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: mahi_gurmeet
we first need to clear that proving sm1 mental &out of control of own... & being called sm1 characterless, sm extent prostitute (chand paiso keliye kisi ke v saath) 2 different things!!!!!!!!
for a woman her character is upon everything. nnothing can b compared wid this insult. such wrds can anger any1 specially ur loved ones & they hv d ri8 to react too.
Yash wasn't called a characterless ofcourse then hw can Zoya call pooja a characterless here?

That's exactly what I find strange. Proving someone was depressed and may have taken his own life is not the same as calling someone a prostitute (which is what she implied about Pooja).

Why is there such a stigma around depression and mental health in Indian society? I personally don't condone suicide at all but this wouldn't have been such an issue elsewhere - why is it considered as 'badnaam' for Yash's family?

The guy was not a good husband or businessman, those are facts. It is a court and that's where these things are told, especially when 2 innocent people were being framed. Being depressed and committing suicide may or may not have been true, it could very well be a story cooked up by Papa Hooda, but why is it so offensive to someone's family and reputation? People having a mental health illness is a sad fact but it is nothing to be ashamed of so why does Zoya think this defamed Madhu and her family? These type of stigmas in Indian society should be dealt with. People need to adapt to society as it is now. In Madhu's place, I would be more concerned that I hadn't known what my son was feeling, rather than caring about what people would think.

Zoya may be overreacting if this is what she is angry about. Now on the other hand, I completely understand her anger for making it seem like she was an imcompetent wife, Papa Hooda had no need to do that and involve her. Her anger is justified here. But knowing Zoya, that's not what she's angry about.