Would this Aditya forget Zoya's birthday? - Page 2

Originally posted by: alanta

Similar thoughts used to hover my mind too. But after last week's episodes, especially the last episode, marks a significant turn in Adiya life. May be after a point of time when looked into Adiya's life and to understand the reason for the intensity in their relation, nothing but this single episode and that single scene (Adiya taking each other's pain of tortures in the jail cell and their cries for each other) would be enough to explain. So AdiYa and AdiJa differs in every means and walks. AdiJa just came with the flow and Adiya is on the contrary is rising against the flow. The inner soul lying in both Adityas is the same but he has come a lot from the initial Adi. This is a completely new version of him.

It is nothing but his life experiences which made him see everything in a new perspective. Remembering her birthday or not may not be a deal, but for once he comes to know her birthday, he would definitely go to his extents to make her birthday ever memorable, and why just birthday? For that case he would do all that he could to sustain the smile on her face. I always believe that AdiJa mistook their friendship to be love and went with the flow but whereas in AdiYa fate is turning events for them and none were their discussions .

Originally posted by: be_honest

Aditya will never forget Zoya's birthday but will make extra efforts beforehand to make it special...

see its not that he didnt love or care pooja. He was madly in love & cared for pooja. As we can seee where he was trying to fix her saree, going with her for camping even though he didnt liked it, preparing for her meals etc
the problem in adi pooja marriage was , Adi had hate for his parents in his heart. When you are living in a joint family syster & you live 24/hr with a grudge with them, it doesnt let you grow emotinally. Even he has tried to mature up with pooja, as soon as his parents appear in pic, he went into that angry spoilt bacha, throwing tantrums & being sarcastic. These things do effect marriages..

The other big factor which played a role is Sakashi. Adi took Sakshi as his own mother and since sakshi was pooja's mother , she living in the same house with her son in law made things complicared rather than letting them blossoming on their own. Adi knows whatever pooja needs or requirements are, Sakashi will be there to let him know !! Adi thought pooja is happy but she started drifting away. If sakshi wasnt there living in the same house, adi must have realised pooja's being getting distant but sakshi covered for her daughter's feeling for yash & what was going wrong. Even trusted sakshi that she will fill any shortcomings but she broke adi's trust or she felt scared that adi will react badly hence adi remained in the dark ... marriage fell without him even realising it..

With zoya equation is completely changed..
His family with whom he was carrying a gridge but living with them, that grudge is now gone. That hate space in his heart is now filled with love which was already there making him light weight..the enviroment of the house will be relaxed & adi will not be what he used to pretend , a spoilt brat.

Other thing i zoya being open hearted person, tell adi about his shortcoming immediately rather than keeping secrets. She doesnt ever shy away in telling ado what exactly she feels about his behaviou be it good or bad. ~like when adi snatched her phone to talk about rajveer, she remarked immediately aap kuch zaida hee batameez nahi ho gaye hain aaj kal😆

marriage doesnt apply just husband & wife. Your family members play an important role too.
The things which happened in their previous marriages will not be a factor in adi zoya relationship which will help them grow in personality & cherish eachother to their full extent.

Originally posted by: Dragonfly88

Watching few episodes from last two weeks, it kind of struck me- Would this Aditya forget Zoya's birthday?

The show started with a carefree Adi who forgot his wife's birthday and the wife without a fight said I expected this. We all know Aditya has grown as a character from the first episode.
Everyone in the family treated him like a child including Pooja. They never thought he would be able to act like a grownup. Which is why Adi may have taken Pooja for granted, hence forgetting her birthday..

With Jungle and Jail track, Zoya's trust and confidence in Aditya is immense. This is the first time someone has given Adi their own life in his hand to save.

So my question again would he forget her birthday?