Adiya's previous marriages: what was missing ?! Update on page 2 - Page 2

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Cool topic

I feel they missed on communication that's all .

I feel to have EMA (affair) ppl don't need a reason it's just an excuse to blame others
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If my husband forgets my bday each year, whereas I spend days planning for his special day...
If my husband expects me to come everytime with him to see football match or Whatever in which m not interested, And in return doesn't come with me when I want to go somewhere else...
He expects me to entertain his every small necessity and in return takes me for granted...

Mm... I don't think I want to change this gem of a person. He may be a good person but not a good husband. Marraige is two sided commitment. If u keep taking and giving nothing, then sorry it wil exhaust soon.

I love Aditya Hooda but that doesn't mean I will support when he was wrong. Falling out of love is ok but cheating your husband and having Extra marital affair is Gross , Hence Can't support Pooja ever but that doesn't mean Adi is not wrong.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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UPDATE
About their partners not happy with them & ema :


see its not that he didnt love or care pooja. He was madly in love & cared for pooja. As we can seee where he was trying to fix her saree, going with her for camping even though he didnt liked it, preparing for her meals etc
the problem in adi pooja marriage was , Adi had hate for his parents in his heart. When you are living in a joint family syster & you live 24/hr with a grudge with them, it doesnt let you grow emotinally. Even he has tried to mature up with pooja, as soon as his parents appear in pic, he went into that angry spoilt bacha, throwing tantrums & being sarcastic. These things do effect marriages..
The other big factor which played a role is Sakashi. Adi took Sakshi as his own mother and since sakshi was pooja's mother , she living in the same house with her son in law made things complicared rather than letting them blossoming on their own. Adi knows whatever pooja needs or requirements are, Sakashi will be there to let him know !! Adi thought pooja is happy but she started drifting away. If sakshi wasnt there living in the same house, adi must have realised pooja's being getting distant but sakshi covered for her daughter's feeling for yash & what was going wrong. Even trusted sakshi that she will fill any shortcomings but she broke adi's trust or she felt scared that adi will react badly hence adi remained in the dark ... marriage fell without him even realising it..

With zoya equation is completely changed..
His family with whom he was carrying a gridge but living with them, that grudge is now gone. That hate space in his heart is now filled with love which was already there making him light weight..the enviroment of the house will be relaxed & adi will not be what he used to pretend , a spoilt brat.

Other thing i zoya being open hearted person, tell adi about his shortcoming immediately rather than keeping secrets. She doesnt ever shy away in telling ado what exactly she feels about his behaviou be it good or bad. ~like when adi snatched her phone to talk about rajveer, she remarked immediately aap kuch zaida hee batameez nahi ho gaye hain aaj kal😆 They communicate with each other how they exactly feel rather than keeping it in heart.

marriage doesnt apply just husband & wife. Your family members play an important role too.
The things which happened in their previous marriages will not be a factor in adi zoya relationship which will help them grow in personality & cherish eachother to their full extent.
Edited by be_honest - 7 years ago

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