Split personality disorder ????

1st episode post leap he said a bunch of things , like :

1. He hates Pragya with all his heart .

Now he claims Pragya is his love . He has right to ask her questions because he loves her and he's broken hearted because of her .. " Mere dil ko tod ne ke baad tum mujhe kehe rahi ho.. " 😲

2. He had said , he's completely moved on and is happy and his family is happy too.

Now , he claims he was never happy. 😕

3 . He had said , he doesn't even want to hear her name , let alone remember her .

Now he claims he always remembered her and has been cheated . 😕

Plus, he kept asking her whether she still misses him and she still has feeling for him.😕

4. He had said to Tanu that she's the best thing to happen to him .

Now he's saying his marriage was a majbudi and he's unhappy in that marriage. 😕

5. He was happily celebrating marriage anniversary with Tanu , in a big party , dancing romantically. Then giving her gifts and romancing with her full on in the privacy of their bed room.

Now he's giving Prags bhasaan on "ehsaas" n "pakka wala wada." and "Tum kisi se shadi kaise kar sakti ho" and basically about the importance of loyalty and fidelity ! 😕

Moreover , he told her , quite violently so, how dare she dance with King and give him her hand ( err? Umm... 😕 😕 😕 ) and only he's the right to hold her hand.

To top it all , when her current husband ( so far as Abhi knows ) is standing outside the door , he's basically threatening her to render her infidel in the eyes of her current husband and claiming to be her husband ! Mental hai kya! 😕

6. He told Pragya , " Tab kaha thi tum jab mujhe tumhari zaroorat thi ?? " Zaroorat for what exactly ?? To be his mistress , since the official wife status now goes to Tanu ??

7. After humiliating her to no end , and kicking her mercilessly out of his life , Abhi is now saying , " Dhokebaaz ho tum , dil toda hai tumne mere , are dil to kya , tumne to mujhe hi tod diya. " W*F ! !!!😕 I thought it's the other way round ??? Each of these things apply to her from Abhi's side only.

8. He now claims that he used to berate himself for doubting on her and calling her ill omen on that fateful day 😕 . When did that happen exactly ?? He continue to hold her responsible only for every thing.

So , for such a claim , either he's really schizophrenic or he's lying through his teeth , because never once he blamed himself . Pure black lie. Never did he regret or even had any realization of his mistakes.

Both of them are flawed characters. Pragya still loves Abhi even though she's with King. She still cares for Abhi. Is she split personality too??😆 That's what love does to people.

Easiest to show would be 'short term memory loss'. Below was my earlier post explaining how KKB makers/writers/cvs/directors and actors themselves can take it easy and also show some mercy on viewers as Abhi's character fits into this case study... and they can continue to err, make incoherent scenes/episodes, make some interns/assistants write disconnected senseless dialogues randomly.. still they have an excuse to escape...😆

Today sunny was saying tanu mistreats Everyone in the house. A kid noticed this, still abhi didn't do anything. But he accuse pragya for tabhi marriage too. Why can't he own his mistakes instead of blaming people around him? Let wrong things happen around you and still complain about them.

He gave his business to the Aliya who wanted to loot him and he gave wife status to tanu who wanted to break his marriage.

Does he even have rights to blame others when he himself kept villains around him?

I hope at least he keeps Kiara away from villains. Pragya also better keep Kiara away from all these villains.

First of all, thanks for taking part in the discussion. Opposite views are welcome always.

@Bold, nope , no body is as confused as Abhi all the time .

Yes , we don't say and do all the right things all the time . I'll give you that . After all , we are human beings and prone to follies . To err is human. But , no one says and does the exact opposite things all the time like Abhi does. Therein , lies the problem. 😆

In this topic , we are NOT talking about the moral right and wrong aspect of things. That is not the TOD. Please point me out where did I say that Abhi did wrong my marrying Tanu and giving him wife status and not looking for Pragya for last 7 years ?? Nope , I didn't . He did what he did.

However , why take a double somersault and claim bull shit and talk about " Loyalty" , and " feelings" , and "Kumkum" and Love for eternity etc. etc. Why be agitated and demand answers , not once but keep doing it for the length of 3 episodes ( giving me a lengthy headache by his nonsense ) while lying between his teeth ??

There's HUGE difference between what Abhi is doing and what Pragya is doing . So much that tehy can not be compared in any whatsoever way. : -

1. Pragya is NOT a confused soul like Abhi. She has coherency in her thoughts and actions. There's absolutely not a single instance where her words , thoughts and actions go against each other. She's clear in her mind from the 1st episode post leap that she still remembers and cares about Abhi , so how can her tending to his wounds made her a confused soul , could you explain ?? ( It's different matter that she'd have done it for Taaliya even. )

2. Pragya has every right to fake her marriage with King if she thinks it is for the welfare of her daughter and her future . In her own words , " To kya galad kiya agar mein apni future ke ware mein socha to .. " Completely agree.

For Kiara , King is her entire world . And King loves for just like his own daughter . It's a vast difference of emotional attachemnt with a child when she grows up calling you "dada" and knowing you as her father , as opposed to calling him uncle and grow up knowing he's a friend of her mother.

Even in the West , many marriages sustain for the kids . Many more wait for kids to grow up and then go separate ways. It is proven by almost all researches and statistics on this topic ( well available on different reputed medical sites . ) that kids growing up in broken homes develop many more issues , especially psychological ones , starting from tantrums , depression , attention deficit , poor school performance , less development of social skills , poor leadership skills , flair of autism , bullying behavior later on and so many more , than kids growing up with both parents.

So , I applaud Pragya for taking this bold step for her daughter 👏 and I bow to King to agree to such a proposal selflessly. 👏

So, basically it's the difference between knowing clearly what you're doing , why you're doing , weighing your available options and going forward boldly with the best one.

And it doesn't make Pragya confused soul like Abhi, In fact , it shows amazing strength of a mother , and clarity of thoughts. 😃

3. Pragya is not a confused soul like Abhi , because , unlike him, she's not bad mouthing her marriage in front of him. Abhi is such a palti baaz , how come suddenly the best thing in his life turned into a "unhappy forced marriage . " the moment he saw Pragya. ?? 😆 😆

Some one please record his conversation and badi badi baatein and send a copy to Tanu. 😆 😆

Whereas even in the privacy , Prags would not hear a single word against King and fiercely protective of his name and reputation and quite openly proud of him. 😃

Hope all of you are doing well. Just came back from one of the trips for this summer of never ending trips. Am I glad😊 that I watched all of the 5 episodes in one go. Otherwise, Abhi would have made me a paagal in no time😡. I think all of you said what I wanted to say already, so I will just highlight what I felt as I watched the episodes, just some random ramblings.

Carmilla, my friend, can I just say I LOVE YOU❤️ ( not Abhiwala love, but a real one ) for saying everything, EVERYTHING I would have said. And I hope I am not overstepping your post with the things I want to say, just too lazy to make a new one😕

Huts, thanks for thinking about me, my friend🤗. I am traveling a lot this summer. See, friends or acquaintances always look out for each other, when one is missing, we try to find out our whereabouts. I guess, true love doesn't even deserve that in Abhi's world. If you come back, well and good, if you didn't that is fine too, I will live in my sxxx life happily ever after with hatred filled in my mind and heart. But if you are happy without me, that would spurn me like nothing else would💔and will threaten to destroy you. Yeh, kya hain? Love ? Not my definition in a million years👎🏼.

Here we go :

1. First off, let me get this out of the way. Appearances King had a mirror or a reflective surface on his jacket. Exactly what is the purpose of this embellishment? He had suspenders hanging off his pants????👎🏼 No words for Abhi's outfit, it is a waste of my time. But what are those studs guys???? They are like those my daughter would pick in airports when we travel, a guitar, AXE? Is that what that is? Pretty soon, he will be sharing Kiara's ear studs.

2. Phenomenal acting by Shabir, Sriti as Abhi, Pragya👍🏼👏 Their eyes spoke volumes, be it him requesting her to go to the dance floor with him or her eyes as she remembers the words of that fateful day. That GET OUT, I am sorry, I can't get that out of my mind even if I tried to😭. Guys, I am going to say this, love and anger, disappointment, disillusoment can coexist, but love and contempt, hatred, doubts of infidelity💔?? I am not sure, those words are forever heart breakers👎🏼. His voice breaking as he says " mujhe bhi" as she complains of her hurting. THEIR TEARS😭🤗

3. Am so glad that I am able to completely able to block out all of Abhi's bakwas, entitlements, self righteousness, his bhashan about kumkum, saath janamon ka rishta, their bhagya yada, yada, yada. This happened because I got to watch all 5 days at one time. I am so sorry for all of you guys who had to bear with this nonsense😲😲. How he is the only one who had the right on her, how she broke the promise of leaving the kumkum , saath janam ka vaada etc. etc. etc. Guys, is the writer who wrote this also drunk when he wrote these lines for him? I must say, he reminisced a hundred times at least how Pragya and King were together. Mr. RS, what about the last 4 years of constantly keeping the vomit in your life, in your house😡. Do you think having to see your husband with the vomit in some capacity or the other, worse than having to bear with seeing your wife whom you threw away as a piece of unwanted trash with somebody else, for an hour? NO, I DIDN'T THINK SO😡💔, obviously YOUR pain is worse👎🏼🤔

4. His questions, do you still feel my pain, do you feel for me, do you love me? Question is, Abhi baabu, have you ever felt her pain, her feelings EVER?

5. Loved, loved Pragya's counter❤️👍🏼🤗. She kept quiet for as long as she could, but couldn't when he questioned her love, her very intention, when he questioned her integrity😡. She became the wounded lioness that she is, should have been all along👍🏼. It is very obvious she loves and cares for him, even after suffering all the hurt, humiliation he inflicted on her, so I felt tending to his wound or stopping him from hurting himself or supporting him as he stumbled, all are very natural second nature to her. That is her reality whether I like it or not.

6. Abhi looked very surprised when she questioned him about his mxxx or when she asked what is wrong if she looked out for her future. It is a verbal slap for him when she said " I didn't feel bad you called me manhoos". He just couldn't believe his ears as she said she doens't care or feel for him anymore, or whatever he thinks doesn't make any difference to her. Guys, this is a girl who is utterly, emotionally spent having to bear with all kinds of insults, expectations, responsibilities, humiliations, physical and emotional abuse from him and his acquaintances and finally thrown away as unwanted trash💔. She told him that the relationship can't be one sided anymore, which is like a NEVER IN A LIFETIME for him who is used to her being there every step of the way whether he hated her, treated her wrong, misunderstood her or did whatever he wanted to do with flair with not a care for her feelings. She finally told him he is the one who changed her, not the circumstances. OH MY WORD, am I glad she verbalized it . Her mentioning " where would I have gone when you are my whole world" should hint at something, he was totally devastated at that. I wonder if it is just Shabir's nuanced acting but not Abhi realizing anything from that truth she shared😳

7. I felt her statement about understanding her and interpreting her words and actions are two totally different things is BRILLIANT👏 Thank you for that writer who wrote this for her👍🏼. Understanding is empathizing which is totally alien to him. Interpretation comes from whatever he is thinking or feeling or getting fed at the moment and is so subjective, which is what he did with her all the time. Abhi's realization of all this as she is stating this all with fire in her eyes is PHENOMENAL. Shabir is simply out of this world emoting Abhi's surprise/realization👏👍🏼 .

8. Her warning to him about thinking twice before saying or doing what he wants to say or do, as when you are in a relationship whatever happens to you also affects the other person. A simple fact of life which he never understood. He always minded about his hurt, his feelings, his emotions, his life, his pain, his family, his love and NOT our feelings, our emotions, our life, our love, our family, our future👍🏼

9. She wouldn't stand back and take crap about her friend who had done so much for her. Loved, loved it when she exactly pointed out what she expected from a husband which Abhi couldn't provide for her. Support and understanding❤️ The guy is totally taken aback as she said this, is too dense to even understand any of this. That zaroorat wali line should have been totally Pragya's😡

10. King's " I don't get good vibes from him " or " moody people can't be depended upon" are so on point.

Finally, I have to say, how much ever I wanted Abhi to suffer having to see his beloved by the side of his arch nemesis, my heart was breaking for Shabir's Abhi😭💔. It is all because of his acting and nothing else, not because Abhi had even one valid point from my vantage point. The emptiness which he so superbly emoted is heart breaking💔. So now, I want to find excuses for his sxxx mxxx he is bearing with despite the vomit's ill treatment of the family. He says he is bearing it for Pragya. Is it just another blame game or for real? I want to say it is for real. For those of you who know me, I don't cut much slack for Abhi, but for Shabir's Abhi, I really want to❤️. So what could be the reason? They haven't concluded Simonica or Munni's track neatly as they did with the past tracks, as in Abhi didn't get to learn the whole truth. Did the vomit do something with Simonica ( like kill, murder or hold her hostage ) and implicated Pragya in that ( using Munni ) with some stupid proofs? And they are blackmailing Abhi with release of these proofs and threatening harm or imprisonment for Pragya if he didn't do their bidding? I don't know, I am holding on to any straw here😲😲 Why is the vomit shaking in her shoes as she heard about Pragya being in the city? Who is Raj bhayya referring to when he said " usse dekhne/milne gaya tha"? Whatever be the cause, I CAN'T FORGIVE ABHI FOR KEEPING THE VOMIT in his life and upgrading it😡💔👎🏼 I felt sorry having to see Abhi walk out defeated, empty handed ,the same way I had felt as I had to watch my girl walking away umpteen number of times, defeated, empty handed, hurt to the core with no hope whatsoever😭

Anyway guys, another one of my long ramblings even though I felt like I don't have much to say🤔. Carmilla, please excuse me if I have gone waaay overboard with this post😲 Writers of Pragya's lines, PLEASE TAKE A BOW