Would this Adi have attended poetry sessions for Zoya? - Page 4

Originally posted by: brishtii78

I will say a dialogue from Kabhi Alvida... "Kabhi kabhi dosti mohabbat ki jagah le leti hai ... aur phir mohabbat ke liye jagah hi nahin rehti. That is what happened to Adi and Pooja. They've known each other since childhood and to them that dosti was love. So they got married. Later on as they lived together Pooja realized that Dosti is not mohabbat. Adi on the other hand was childish and simple. Never really cared about their differences. He loved pooja and that was it for him. But they were different. With Zoya Adi is a different person. He just blows away with her like a fallen leaf. He is not bound to do anything with her. There are no obligations with her. What ever he does he does it with his own will. No one forces him. So he finds these things more interesting. He is learning her values, her lifestyle and her beliefs. And since it's different from his... he is fascinated by it. Hence he watches her with amazement and does it with her. When ur heart is not obligated to do something... you find it more fascinating. This Adi would do anything with snd for Zoya .

Originally posted by: SuzanneH

Adi and Pooja could have gotten married more because they had always been together and couldn't imagine the other person not being there.

However, there's a that it's easier to take each other for granted when they've known each other their whole lives. Even when Pooja asked him to join her a poetry reading, Adi just says, "You know I hate poetry. I'm not going." Things may have become stagnant but he was oblivious to it because he was self absorbed.

But with someone new who you haven't known your whole life, you see things through a different perspective. There's an excitement in getting to know someone new. I think at first he would have gone to the poetry reading if Zoya wanted him to because it's doing something with someone new and after time when he realized he hated poetry readings, the new Adi might have still continued going with her because it made her happy.