Originally posted by: Prozium
When Pragya moved to Mehta house dadi used to mix spine dissolving and mental control drug in her food to create a perfect puppy slave for her impulsive grandson. And see, now she has no spine and still gets mushy for abhi.
She does not think about herself, her self respect is almost zero and about Kiara well she can even throw her to dogs if abhi ordered her to do so. Going by Ann written updates, why they are showing Pragya as a puppy longing for her owner, the same owner who kicked her out from the gate.Hell, I would even watch a complete copy of Sony show where chachu and kid and mother and daughter story move on after 7 years but the lead female doesn't give a sh*t to male lead and at every corner ignore him, or move on with her own startup company keeping old relationships on hold. And then make lead didn't even throw her out but it was more or less a normal divorce. One do want to become like her or want her daughter to learn from female lead that how she always take a stand about "what is right" without giving to mushy romance.
Sample this dialogue from that show:
"Yes I love you, but I have a certain self respect and I tried to give my 100% effort to your three sisters and to your mother so that I can understand them better and they can understand me better. But there is a limit to everything and I can't put all my self respect and my identity on fire because I want to please them. Because once I do that, there would be no existence of me as a person but as your wife and there is no guarantee that they will continue demanding more out of me. I know you love your family and I love you but if every effort comes from side without them taking a single step and without them even reciprocating and you also not understanding me, I think it is better for us to move on. I already build up a 500 cr company and does not need a male name to raise my daughter to give her a valued well raised life". That family was not even making murder attempts on female lead!!!!!
Vs
Yes you treat me like puppy and your family make 10000s of murder attempts and 95% of time you either don't know me, hate me or voila lost your memory. But even then I protected you like a bodyguard. Hell I even prepare for you wedding, took .a bullet for you, and tried everything to make you happy. Then you threw me out like garbage. Now you are back. Well my owner is back. Let me go all mushy again. Because technically myself respect was already reset tomzero when I came to your house. I forgot I was a professor, I forgot I was sensible. I am just thirsty for owner attention. I again becomes someone secretary, need a male to give my daughter a father figure and I am just not able to take care of my daughter. Losing her in hotel lobby to everywhere.
So which out of the two we want to take as a role model?
TV is not education or for role modelling but at least show Pragya someone like you want to be in real life or you want your daughter to be. An independent, no nonsense taker, an clear thinker kind of lead.
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