Look at the bigger picture here...

Hey all! 😛 we got a 1 hr episode yesterday 😉 and not just rich in quantity but also in quality

Ohk so we finally got sakshi and adi drama adi saw her pic with pooSh and got to know she knew about the affair from before, still didnt tell him. Now i read a lot of posts about sakshi being wrong for taking pooja's side, or adi being wrong for not listening to sakshi's side...but i wanna say...who are we to judge who is right or who is wrong? In every case, even the person who is wrong often feels he/she is right from their own point of view...right or wrong is more of a perception, rather than universal truth...😊

So sakshi knew about the affair...what did she do? she decided to talk yash and pooja out of it...make them understand they are doing wrong...here, she decided that this was wrong...though she didnt tell adi about it, so that would make her what? partly right? 😆

Coming to her saying adi was responsible...their relation lacked something which forced pooja to look outside...like anjana said blood is blood...pooja is sakshi's blood...just like anjana puts adi in front of everything else, even resorting to spy on sakshi like thieves for adi, sakshi hid the affair from adi for pooja...to each their own child matters more than anything else, any right or wrong...so is it right to do so? or is it flawed?

Pooja believed adi's neglect to her interests and hobbies were creating friction between them...so she found solace in yash...who had time for her, had common interests with her...so she cheated on adi with yash. She went like "Pyar kiya to darna kya" or "Everything is fair in love". There are so many sayings from so many sides, that it becomes difficult for one to understand which to follow. In her mind, she was right...maybe there was a bit of guilt, or self awareness...as she didnt sign divorce papers, i leave that to chance..."maybe" will always remain there.

Point is, no one is perfect. No one is always right, no one always follows the path of righteousness or truth...people make mistakes, people cheat, people give in to their desires even at the cost of someone else's happiness sometimes...bcz in their mind, they only think of themselves. Does that make them selfish? sometimes yes. What pooja did here was she chose her happiness for the 1st time...all her life she has been caring for adi...taking care of his small petty needs...but in return, she never got the partner she wanted...so why did she marry adi? like adi says she loved him the way he was...but maybe not. she did love adi, but as a life partner, she must have had her perception of adi...a caring husband who gives time to her needs, takes care of her, instead of it being the other way round...so her expectations of adi being her dream husband were not met by the actual reality of adi being her husband...thus, she got frustrated and resorted to cheating...

Now we all know cheating is bad...should never be done...pooja must have known that too...she knew papa hooda cheated and what effect it had on adi...in spite of it, she cheated. so imagine the state she was in...im not justifying pooja or sakshi...not even cheating...im just saying, like adi, do not just make up ur mind by one POV...keep ur mindset broad, understand both sides...then arrive at an unbiased decision...which decision u ask? side adi or side pooja? No...the decision as to what went wrong...and what we should learn from it...

i hope the philosophy lesson got to u 😆 once again, im not taking anyone's side...im just analyzing everyone's point of views...how everyone thinks they're right in their own place...and as a mature audience, who doesnt love such characters? 😉

overall it was a powerful episode...⭐️👏 intense...

PS: didnt like zo slapping noor...she never slapped mahi for all the things she has done before, and now she gets the strength to slap noor...

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Dear I agree to your post partially, but not fully. Reason it is not always two, but it is three when it comes to truth. One your truth, one my truth and the other the real truth which lies somewhere in between. Life is not black and white, it is grey. In life your success depends on how to maneuver this grey area.

For that you need to understand that grey area. Because you cannot stand in the grey area, ultimately you have to make a choice to move forward. You have to make that choice and time tells you whether you ended up in black or in white to a neutral person.

This point in life where we are at cross roads is called Dharmsankath. It is said that when you reach that point please dont take any decision, but ask direction in whichever supreme power you believe. If you truly surrender your ego the path will open up. This I can tell with hundred percent guarantee is because I have experienced this multiple times whenever I had to make difficult decisions in my life.

Here Sakshi had seen Adi choosing her multiple times over Anjana. She had listenend to Adi insulting Anjana for her sake. Still her choice was her blood over the trust of Adi. She had the option to come clean to Adi at multiple levels to which he might have listened. She always defended Pooja and at the time of going she rubbed salt on Adi's raw wounds. Just think what was lacking in your marriage for Pooja to seek that outside. She told Adi was wrong, not Pooja. Yes Adi has his flaws but he had truly trusted Sakshi. His faults has to be pointed out. Zoya did that. He apologized at multiple levels to Mahi. He spoke truth to Mahi why he did what he did.

If Sakshi had told him upfront he might have corrected himself even later post Pooja's death if she had confessed he would have still listened. But he found the evidence of her cheating and when he questioned she rubbed salt on his wounds.

Adi was wrong with respect to Mahi which is going to create much problems in his life. But Adi was right with respect to Sakshi and if she needs to redeem herself maybe tomorrow she might have to come to court and proclaim her daughter had an affair and not Adi. She keeps on telling she cannot lose Adi. Let her do something solid for her son whom he loved more than his birth mother.

It is easy to choose wrong path and justify and play victim. But difficult to stick on the right path and fight. The man who was betrayed by the people whom he cared the most is going to deliver on the trust a woman called Zoya placed on him. And that makes him different with all his flaws. He is broken to the core, yet for the larger interest of that company who had trusted him, he is going to pretend he is happy, really happy. It is for the happiness of others he is going to burn just like the sun that gives light.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Dear I agree to your post partially, but not fully. Reason it is not always two, but it is three when it comes to truth. One your truth, one my truth and the other the real truth which lies somewhere in between. Life is not black and white, it is grey. In life your success depends on how to maneuver this grey area.

For that you need to understand that grey area. Because you cannot stand in the grey area, ultimately you have to make a choice to move forward. You have to make that choice and time tells you whether you ended up in black or in white to a neutral person.

This point in life where we are at cross roads is called Dharmsankath. It is said that when you reach that point please dont take any decision, but ask direction in whichever supreme power you believe. If you truly surrender your ego the path will open up. This I can tell with hundred percent guarantee is because I have experienced this multiple times whenever I had to make difficult decisions in my life.

Here Sakshi had seen Adi choosing her multiple times over Anjana. She had listenend to Adi insulting Anjana for her sake. Still her choice was her blood over the trust of Adi. She had the option to come clean to Adi at multiple levels to which he might have listened. She always defended Pooja and at the time of going she rubbed salt on Adi's raw wounds. Just think what was lacking in your marriage for Pooja to seek that outside. She told Adi was wrong, not Pooja. Yes Adi has his flaws but he had truly trusted Sakshi. His faults has to be pointed out. Zoya did that. He apologized at multiple levels to Mahi. He spoke truth to Mahi why he did what he did.

If Sakshi had told him upfront he might have corrected himself even later post Pooja's death if she had confessed he would have still listened. But he found the evidence of her cheating and when he questioned she rubbed salt on his wounds.

Adi was wrong with respect to Mahi which is going to create much problems in his life. But Adi was right with respect to Sakshi and if she needs to redeem herself maybe tomorrow she might have to come to court and proclaim her daughter had an affair and not Adi. She keeps on telling she cannot lose Adi. Let her do something solid for her son whom he loved more than his birth mother.

It is easy to choose wrong path and justify and play victim. But difficult to stick on the right path and fight. The man who was betrayed by the people whom he cared the most is going to deliver on the trust a woman called Zoya placed on him. And that makes him different with all his flaws. He is broken to the core, yet for the larger interest of that company who had trusted him, he is going to pretend he is happy, really happy. It is for the happiness of others he is going to burn just like the sun that gives light.