Originally posted by: return_to_hades
No one has to like the poster, the trailer, the songs, the actors or the film. You can hate it to the core.
Some people don't watch Deadpool because they find it too crass. Some people avoid movies like Fifty Shades of Grey that are sexually explicit. Some people found the plot of Sisterhood of Traveling Pants borning. Some people love the Oscar nominees while others find them snoozefests.
Personal taste in entertainment is diverse and subjective. So if people have a dislike for any aspect of Veere Di Wedding due to personal likes and dislikes it is perfectly fine.
However, there are some (not all) audiences who tend to hold double standards. Some people are OK with the likes of John Abraham walking around in a tiny speedo, but balk when a woman wears a bikini. Some people are Ok with male characters smoking or drinking, but feel it is inappropriate if women do so. Some people are OK with male characters being sexually promiscuous but disapprove of female characters being as such. Some people find male leads engaging but find female leads boring and not worthy of holding a film. There is a big problem with this mindset. It reflects a hypocritical double standard.
I am not a mind reader. When people dislike things about Veere Di Wedding, I can't say for sure if it is genuine personal taste or a hypocritical double standard. My personal bias is to assume the latter, but I try to hold myself back. It's a terrible feeling to be misjudged.
All I can hope is that people who may have a bias check themselves. It takes just a few moments to think about why we likeor dislike something. Good brain activity while pooping or showering or laying in bed waiting for sleep.😆
So whether you believe yourself to be biased or not - ask yourself why you like/dislike something. Ask yourself if you could have been subconsciously conditioned to be biased due to societal rules. Are your personal tastes consistent or do you see any hypocritical variances?
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