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Hello Beautiful Girsl...!!
I would like to start with a Disclaimer... Dont Get Me Wrong.
Do you all really think what Zara did is Right and What Kabir did is Wrong. I don't think so. Don't be too feminist Girls.
Kabir is Right and Zara is Wrong here. Yes her view is Right. But Even Right thing in the wrong place and Wrong time Cost you big time.
He is your guest at your home. You are from a respectable family your actions would not just cost you it could cost to your family member and reputation. Especially in a Social Circle. The same happened. You can very well avoid that Argument to your Husbands Guest. Will your parents or brothers or Husband allow this. You wont be scolded by them... Please have a reality check.
Everyone in the word have their own views and opinions. Something right for someone may not be right for others. No one can change others opinions and view points by Arguing or debating. This is not a competition or debate to do it everywhere and with everyone. What she was trying to prove there. I felt this many times. Even when she did the same with her father. Having a healthy Conversation and Related Arguments can prove a Point. Also you don't need to do it with everyone you contradict. Where will all this would end. But this kind of behavior is really not civilized rather immature and disgraceful.
Kabir was right. Her father was right when he was telling her " tum iss sheher ki siasath ko nahi janthi"
You can be straight but the World is not Straight. You can be Fair but the world is not Fair. Straight Trees are cut first. The question Kabir asked was Right You think only your view points are right and the rest of the world is Wrong. No its otherwise. You have to accept that they do have the belief in their view points and their own reasons. Having IQ is Ok but she needs to have EQ too.
So I would say to Zara to keep her opinions and view points with her. She can very well confront with Kabir when they have differences in a healthy way. But she needs to give space to others view points too. Rather than hustling and Bustling she has to be Smart. I wish to see her like that.
I would like to start with a Disclaimer... Dont Get Me Wrong.
Do you all really think what Zara did is Right and What Kabir did is Wrong. I don't think so. Don't be too feminist Girls.
Kabir is Right and Zara is Wrong here. Yes her view is Right. But Even Right thing in the wrong place and Wrong time Cost you big time.
He is your guest at your home. You are from a respectable family your actions would not just cost you it could cost to your family member and reputation. Especially in a Social Circle. The same happened. You can very well avoid that Argument to your Husbands Guest. Will your parents or brothers or Husband allow this. You wont be scolded by them... Please have a reality check.
Everyone in the word have their own views and opinions. Something right for someone may not be right for others. No one can change others opinions and view points by Arguing or debating. This is not a competition or debate to do it everywhere and with everyone. What she was trying to prove there. I felt this many times. Even when she did the same with her father. Having a healthy Conversation and Related Arguments can prove a Point. Also you don't need to do it with everyone you contradict. Where will all this would end. But this kind of behavior is really not civilized rather immature and disgraceful.
Kabir was right. Her father was right when he was telling her " tum iss sheher ki siasath ko nahi janthi"
You can be straight but the World is not Straight. You can be Fair but the world is not Fair. Straight Trees are cut first. The question Kabir asked was Right You think only your view points are right and the rest of the world is Wrong. No its otherwise. You have to accept that they do have the belief in their view points and their own reasons. Having IQ is Ok but she needs to have EQ too.
So I would say to Zara to keep her opinions and view points with her. She can very well confront with Kabir when they have differences in a healthy way. But she needs to give space to others view points too. Rather than hustling and Bustling she has to be Smart. I wish to see her like that.
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