Why blaming Kabir?He is not wrong & is at no fault:Mod note Pg2

Originally posted by: MsChanadlerBong

Why are we all blaming Kabir! What wrong has the guy done! He has the different set of opinions than us and that's totally justified.

He believes that men who take their wives help are spineless! That's so true!👏of course men who need help are spineless! Cause they are superior species! They are self sufficient. They don't need anyone's help. And of course not their wives! Taking help from wives is such a shame on men!

True that Kabir! But suddenly most of men in my life are spineless.my bad!😛

Second, what does he want from his wife. Its so simple, to stay and home and not go out and work! That's so simple. Girls are not supposed to work outside. Oh no no. That's shameful.😵what kind of man makes his wife go out and work! The insensitive types!🥱she should stay at home and work. Speaking of work and help, so if according to Kabir, husband who take their wife's help are spineless doesn't that count on housework too? So that means wives should not help their husband with the housework. Husband are more than capable themselves cause they have spines! So what will wives do? Nothing sit back and relax!😎see how considerate your husband is Zara!😎

Third, what wrong did he do by manhandling her? It was his way to show his anger! Why are we all enraged with that idea?😲 Kabir did nothing wrong. He was just expressing his anger. Thats how husband do it! They should abuse and man handle their wives when they don't listen to them. As simple as that. It's just a male logic! Why don't people get it, right Kabir?

So next time when Kabir does something wrong and angers Zara, it's alright Zara, you can always woman-handle him, push him on the wall, shout at him and Kabir wouldn't reciprocate at all. In fact he will come after you, asking do forgiveness, apologising you while you can give him the silent treatment!

So people Kabir views and actions are not wrong. Ask any egostic chauvinist male and find out how correct Kabir is! And why are we blaming him! We should blame ourselves for not being smart enough to figure out the mind of a dominant husband who has lost the art of respecting his wife!

You are great Kabir!👏👏👏Youve changed completely but thats alright, you are the husband and your actions are justified!🤔

Ps everyone was busy posting how Kabir is wrong so just justifying his actions. I'm not good at analysing situations and character so

Originally posted by: ghissapitta

Can I kiss you?

I lost the plot when I read the post which said 'Zara is also emotionally abusing him'.

Comparing physical torture, to a wife trying to help/support/go out of her way to aid her husband. Wah!👏

I'm just glad most of the married women on this forum agree Kabeer's behavior is deplorable. Others need to open their eyes. End of.

Originally posted by: Sonatia

Sarcasm sarcasm sarcasm !

loved this sarcastic post !!

Tu toh sachchi wala chandler niklaa !!😆

But i never thought of this in this way, niche walaa👏

Speaking of work and help, so if according to Kabir, husband who take their wife's help are spineless doesn't that count on housework too? So that means wives should not help their husband with the housework. Husband are more than capable themselves cause they have spines! So what will wives do? Nothing sit back and relax! 😎 see how considerate your husband is Zara! 😎

this is true, zaara can tackle kabeer like this she should call him spineless every single day for helping him in household works. 'Mere spineless shohar'😆

Originally posted by: ghissapitta

Can I kiss you?

I lost the plot when I read the post which said 'Zara is also emotionally abusing him'.

Comparing physical torture, to a wife trying to help/support/go out of her way to aid her husband. Wah! 👏

I'm just glad most of the married women on this forum agree Kabeer's behavior is deplorable. Others need to open their eyes. End of.

Originally posted by: Fantasia.

@ TM - i love chandler !! 😳

Originally posted by: Fantasia.

I guess u are referring to me, ermm .. are we school kids giving snide remarks without actually replying with some logical points ? You can always not agree .. we all are here to discuss and enjoy a show which gives us something to discuss. I felt what i felt and wrote it down .. would have been happy if this reply wiuld have been on my post instead an indirect judgemental remark sonewhere else.

@ TM - i love chandler !! 😳