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Posted: 7 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: aqua.m7

You and me both!

I'm hating this.

Is this even the same kabeer who was in Kashmir a few days ago? Somethings not adding up.

No one can be like this. He crumpled her work for heaven's sake! Who does that.

The same kabeer who was hugging her dupatta?
It's like this is some doppleganger. I can' stand it anymore.

Why r cvs doing this? Whyyy? Nothing is making sense.

One minute he's throwing her work away and the next minute and the next he is holding her hand in their room telling her that if she asked anything from him he would give it.

Has he got partial amnesia? WHAT ON EARTH IS HAPPENING????!!!

I am also there Mana with you both:)
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Posted: 7 years ago
#12

When he can throw the work done by Zara in dustbin then why is he using the land gifted by his father to him to complete his dream project?

He really should start working and start earning money, buy land and then use it to complete his dream project. That will be ideal and I will root for him too if he does that.
He just threw all the work done by Zara in dustbin as if her work doesn't matter to him, her time doesn't matter to him. She did all that work, didn't sleep for HIM, for HIS WORK not for her own work.
I expected that no matter how he is ,he will at least respect her time and her:/
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Going by the hasiyat of kabeer, as he himself says, is it possible to have a biwi who is daughter of Shehar Kazi, the person has the power of whole city and their kom in his hands?
Unless they both love each other, I don't see any point why Zara would marry a guy like Kabeer is narrow minded, who cannot work with his wife just because there nazaria is different, who cannot take her help, who just want woman to be in house and do house work.
Some of my ranting, copy pasting from AT:)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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So confused about kabir...whats wrong with him well his was like this but he his getting to that extend that a MCP like.
First he did not like that yellow note that work done by zara it was thrown into the dustbin. Secondly promised her to take her to shariah board but took her to see the land..still zara was so happy did not mention once that why did not he took her to the board meeting.
He wants to pay the meher on his own pehle romantic husband toh ban jah...give zara the love that she wants and thats her right.
He was like this but he use to agree that people has their one opinion. But now zara's one suggestion seems like a bullet to him.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: Mariyah0

Okay sista! I am with you 100%

Kabeer is Bipolar. But please dont call him asshole. He is still OUR Kabeer 😳

Hopefully he will be knocked on the head soon by Zara and will realise that he is acting like a jerky werky.


Haha. Well when he's been a sweetheart in the past I have called him as such. And now when he's being an asshole, I will also call him out. Sorry, I like telling it as it is 😆 But I get you, he's still our Kabeer. He just has a long journey ahead! 😆


'Jerky werky' 🤣
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: NarbhiForever..

When he can throw the work done by Zara in dustbin then why is he using the land gifted by his father to him to complete his dream project?

He really should start working and start earning money, buy land and then use it to complete his dream project. That will be ideal and I will root for him too if he does that.
He just threw all the work done by Zara in dustbin as if her work doesn't matter to him, her time doesn't matter to him. She did all that work, didn't sleep for HIM, for HIS WORK not for her own work.
I expected that no matter how he is ,he will at least respect her time and her:/
&

Going by the hasiyat of kabeer, as he himself says, is it possible to have a biwi who is daughter of Shehar Kazi, the person has the power of whole city and their kom in his hands?
Unless they both love each other, I don't see any point why Zara would marry a guy like Kabeer is narrow minded, who cannot work with his wife just because there nazaria is different, who cannot take her help, who just want woman to be in house and do house work.
Some of my ranting, copy pasting from AT:)


Giiirl once again you are SPOT ON! Especially @ bold! 👏 Seriously you always write down exactly what is on my mind, but 1000 times better than how I'd have written it lol.


It is indeed sad to see the respect missing from his side. What is truly heartbreaking for me to watch is Zara is not fully realizing it.

I also don't see the point. And I want Zara to realize this too and make the decision to separate. I am tired of watching the FL just be walked all over. I want her to wake up soon, if he is the one to give divorce and she refuses I will be so disappointed. She needs to leave his ass so he can understand her value 🤔
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TeriGalliyan

So confused about kabir...whats wrong with him well his was like this but he his getting to that extend that a MCP like.

First he did not like that yellow note that work done by zara it was thrown into the dustbin. Secondly promised her to take her to shariah board but took her to see the land..still zara was so happy did not mention once that why did not he took her to the board meeting.
He wants to pay the meher on his own pehle romantic husband toh ban jah...give zara the love that she wants and thats her right.
He was like this but he use to agree that people has their one opinion. But now zara's one suggestion seems like a bullet to him.


Exactly! Wasted away her efforts and lied to her! What happened to his so called ussool? 😕🥱 And Zara...my sweet, innocent Zara, so painfully unaware and oblivious. I felt like shaking her today! WAKE UP WOMAN!


@bold - Perfectly put!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with you... I absolutely hate this Kabeer! I didn't sign up for this when i started watching this show... I have had enough of MCP hero's.

He was more respectful to her when she was not his wife...Even during the triple-talaq clash in the train to the Wearing sleevless top vala episode he had those orthodox thoughts yet was respectful towards her...
Since the beginning of this week, Kabeer has had this shit attitude... I was pissed but read other posts and gave him benefit of the doubt and thought that maybe i was being too harsh with my views but after Friday's episode i have had it...
he literally threw her hardwork in the dustbin...So not acceptable...
Nobody expects him to be suddenly romantic and start singing and dancing on romantic songs...but his character has taken a complete 180... and i can't bear to watch this.

I get that Kabeer has insecurities which are coming to the forefront... he has the right to have those and be vulnerable...but that doesn't give him the free will to lash out at Zara and be mean to her just to satisfy his ego.
He wants to prove his worth...? Okay! But does he really think he would get money to fund his "dream project" if he wasn't Shehar qazi's Son-in-law and Shabhaz's son...?
He just completed his formal education/training at the madarsaa and has never had a job...never earned any money on his own...why would someone invest in someone's dream that is just a mere 'idea'... If someone does invest it will be coz he's SHehear-Qazi's SIL and Shabhaz's son.
He is all about my status isn't like Shabhaz or Qazi Sahab...he wants to do things on his own and not accept Zara's money coz that somehow makes him less of a "man" then he shouldn't accept that land from his Abbu... He shouldn't even accept the Nayab Qazi position... He got into the Sharia Board as vice-chairman coz his father gave him the position...He hasn't done anything to even earn that...
If he hadn't accepted Zara's mehr coz he wanted to actually do things on his own and "earn" the money it would have been fine but right now he isn't taking her mehr coz he thinks taking money from his biwi is making him less of a man and looks down on that thought as if its something shameful. This is something i just can't come in terms with.

I want Zara to stand up for herself else i'm out..Hope Zara doesn't let him walk all over her...
Vaise bhi i'm stressed/busy with my studies... don't wanna deal with Kabeer's shit attitude on top of this...😆😆


Edit: Sorry for the rant...but to anyone who doesn't share my views... I have the right to my views just like you're entitled to yours.. If i can go all heart eyes and gaga over Kabeer when he does something nice, I can also be pissed when he acts like this 😊
Edited by Anniiee - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ghissapitta

I don't really understand everyone who is saying this is him. Yeah...I knew he was going to be set in his ways and a MCP to an extent but this? Throwing away his wife's efforts in the trash, literally? He was never that disrespectful and rude!

On top of being an absolute asshole I heard he was also a hypocrite AGAIN lmao. He lied to her about taking her to board meeting but took her to the site instead? So did his ussool and 'mahzab kya sikhata hai' just went flying out the window, yeah?

Ok 😆

Yeah sorry, I'm not buying it. I will reiterate for about the billionth time, his character has transitioned into this...overbearing, OTT mess, very quickly and out of nowhere. And for those who said he was always like this, he was always very much not expressive and was like this with Zara. Ah, NO. Sorry, gotta disagree with you there. He used to regard her with some respect, looked at her softly and was generally more respectful for her.

Anyways, if talaq is really going to happen between them, how I wish it is Zara who asks for it because she realizes there's no way she can spend her whole life with this man. But no. We're probably going to be subjected to watching him walk all over her, while she hovers around him like a servant, trying to make the best of a situation, all the while he keeps treating her like an annoying piece of gum at the bottom of his shoe, until he cannot take it anymore and just gives her divorce.

He's becoming his freaking father. 🤣
A con, who says stuff vaguely and let other assume whatever, then get whatever he wants to -.-
But I feel like Talaq shouldn't be the solution to this. Or maybe it should. Except it shouldn't!! Urghhh!!
Okay never mind.
I hear you though. He didn't totally treat Zaara as a person today. I did have to pause for a second there when they were on the site, and laugh at his audicity. Not lying. He's really trying to get on my least favorite MLs list. He really does. But I am just waiting for Zaara to realize. It should be worth it.

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