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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is my observation on Kabir. Kabir had instant attraction on Zara, in my opinion both of them had the attraction from the beginning and it stayed all the way. To their shock they have different Ideology. There is a Psychology, we never try to correct someone or argue with Someone Until we have some kind of Connection with them or attachment. Mostly we ignore if we really don't care about that person or they don't affect us.

They both affected each other from the beginning. Their words affected each other. They way Zara affected Kabir was shown but today it was revealed how Kabir affected Zara. Beautifully handled and that was way too sophisticated. Like how Zara affected Kabir by saying that "she pity the Girl who would be his wife" like how Zara was also affected by kabir's words that "he pity the Guy who would be her husband". It was revealed after the marriage. Good timing!!! .The question Zara asked Kabir Today was there in my mind from the beginning. That Kabir have No plans to Say NO. I said that in my previous post too that Kabir would Never say No.

In my opinion Kabir is More Layerd and Intense and Understanding than we all think. He clarified with his Dad " where he was telling him that Zara could say No for the wedding Where Shabaz clearly guess that Zara wouldn't do that as it would affect her father's reputation"

At that point Kabir was Dead Sure that this wedding would happen. I was surprised with Parlour Scene why he was insisting Zara to say No when she will be asked about her consent for the wedding. When it would be so difficult for him. It would be even more difficult for Zara. Every one know this obviously. Don't say kabir don't know this or he can't guess this. He even double checked with his Dad's guts too. I had all these questions Zara asked to Kabir. Somewhere I had a feeling that Kabir also wanted to Push Zara to that Edge where she cant say No for this wedding. He has made up his mind to Marry Zara in the Half Engagement itself. I noticed this in one more scene where Kabir want's to meet Zara to Tell about the "Ruksar Factor" to her mom and create mess in the wedding.

He was super keen in meeting Zara and also he was keen in clarifying zara that she is staying her Behan's house and with her behan. And she is interested in marrying him. I had a feeling that Zara too felt little possessive there. There he clearly mentioned and intentionally clarified the position of ruksar to Zara. Normally when we don't care about some one we don't ask or we don't clarify. This applies to both. He also insisted and Clarified that they have difference only in their opinions and thoughts. He don't wants to Ladna. He was keen is having a pleasant conversation with Zara.

Though they worked together to stop the marriage. They had great understanding and trust for each other. Kabir was bothered too much when he was not able to reach Zara on Phone.
They both explained each other the situation. During the engagement kabir was quiet convinced to made her wear ring. He was reacting to Ruksar but not to Zara. Even after the engagement he was tell Zara ab kay Faydha. Zara asked him then what your not a part of the Plan? ;)

Zara really had trust on Kabir. Though she says she don't trust him any more. She trust him still.

Obviously he don't want a forceful wedding for neither of them. I notice one thing he gets affected when Zara Cries. Obviously he was tensed like What kind of argument they both gonna have in their suhag rath. He was relaxed to see Zara in the room. He was more relaxed when the argument was over quickly. He was super relaxed and was relieved when she said that she is not going any where and he is gonna sleep in sofa. Kabir can show Ruksar her place in a fraction of a second.

Points to note. Zara accepted Kabir as Husband. She accepted that its her room, her bed , her place, her right, and whatever between them will be between them. In a day she held the rights on her room, bed , bathroom and everything. She even Held her rights on her Husband while garbing the kheer from kabir's hand. Kabir realized it all and he was relieved. Kabir was awestruck when Zara garbed his hand to have the Kheer. Zara even showed ruksar her place. They both didn't deny or refuse. Its their ego and differences that's keeping them apart.

I would recommend the CV's to Keep the Devilishness of Zeenath and Rukshar More Subtle and sophisticated than being too cheap and crappy. We Want More Drama, FUN, Romance, Emotions and Less or Just Right amount of Devilishness... Please Keep it More on the Pleasent Fun Side than Stress ...We want Entertainment...;)




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Posted: 7 years ago
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i loved your post!👏
yes they are both affected by eachother.😛

todays episode gave clear indications. like how zara said it was her bathroom too, and how she shooed away Ruqsar. 😆

Kabir is her husband, whether she likes it or not that her own problem, But she knows that marriage is for keeps and from the second she agreed in the nikkah, only she has rights on Kabir.❤️
NOT RUQSAR😡

as for Kabir the thing i love most about him is that he accepts Zara, He might not agree with alot of her thoughts but he accepts the she thinks that way. He doesnt want to prolong their fights. He was never going to say No, that indicates alot. his trust in Zara and the fact that he had already accepted the rishta. 😃

The other thing that draws me to Kabir is despite the issues he has with Zara he still treats her with respect, he gave her the blanket today, he didnt fight over the bathroom and never has he once manhandled her (seen that way too often on shows).😡


Edited by aqua.m7 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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zara a little interest in him or anything related to him will make kabir total active
once he will see zara taking interest in their relationship even a little he will give his full
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is a bang on post!

For me, I believe Kabir has been interested/attracted towards zara. The first scene of saving her and then the train scene where is is all blushy when his friends tease him with Zara!☺️ Today in kheer chatai scene, oh good lord, his look was intense!☺️ But kabir does have a contradictory character, just my POV. He dint mind holding zara's hands multiple times in the the first few scenes(train), however he washed his hands off when ruksar held his hand😆 . He does not let ruksaar touch him but today in kheer scene he said no word when ruksaar ate it from his hand😡

Zara on the other side is very strong headed, independent and educated girl with right amount of religious beliefs and modern views. Zara as per me has the slightest attraction towards kabir, but she will eventually fall for the man that he actually is! She considers him to be a male chauvinist which he definitely is not! yes he does have an ego of a man but he is not someone who treats a woman lesser than a man! (proved in the cooking scene). Again she does have a huge misconception about kabir. She was worried about her parents reputation and did not consider Kabir's side of it😆she always sees him to be a part of the plan😆

The two characters are a lot more deeper than what we see now! this bonding that will grow to friendship and then love will be in interesting journey for sure.

I really agree with you that Zeenat and Ruksar scenes should be more classier than what it is right now. They both are filled with jealousy and insecurity for nothing! I wihsed they had more stronger reasons for their behaviour.

also to mention , I personally like Aisha's character as well!
Edited by neetha - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Loved ur post so much.. U have described ZaBir so beautifully just like the way they truly are..😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Too Good!! 👏 Loved reading your post on #Kabira n their dynamic relationship!! 😊 Keep it up!!:)

You've written almost everything bt wanna add only 1 thing- will like to see Zara as Working woman bcoz in Indian tv, i hv never seen Any fl as Working!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wow ! This is such a great post !
Agree with everything

But I totally agree with the Ruksar & Zeenat thing , arent they too devilish ? Like it seems unrealistic .
I can see Ruuksar as an evil character ( but with limits ) but Zeenath ?
I expected her to be grey not entirely negative !

I want them to be a little soft , like okay theres no need of PURE EVIL characters thats cringey 😒 !
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well written and beautifully summed up
I hope we see more moments where we can appreciate the situation then being shown all the rona dhona
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Posted: 7 years ago
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very well written about the dynamics of ZaBir relationship... I loved every part of their scene.
I agree to all your points... i want to add CVs pl keep Zara a smarter FL like the way it showed now. She senses everything correctly (leave about Kabir, she will change her opinion about him slowly) but how she sensed Ruks and described her as CCTV..i loved that.

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