Would you marry a divorced person ??

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@BebaakBegum

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Posted: 7 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: TheBoss
Well I know I will get attacked by the liberals but believe me it's not easy as you think. That person may have experienced trauma and some people are never the same after divorces. It comes with a great deal of responsibility and care. Only if you are seriously ready and wiling then proceed.

True True! But same is the case with serious relationships. Though, divorces involve families and finances so the situation can be worse but not all divorces are bad. Some people simply part ways coz of incompatibility. I know a few such cases. Deffo not talking about Channing Tatum 😆

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return_to_hades

@return_to_hades

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Posted: 7 years ago

#32

Personally, I don't believe in marriage. So marriage is not for me.

Divorcees are just people. Every human being has baggage in some form or another. Whether married or not, most people have exes and past relationships that shape them. Even family and friends can create baggage for people to carry. Divorce is just a type of baggage.

So for me, divorcee or not doesn't matter in relationships. It just depends on who they are, what baggage they carry, and what they bring to the relationship. If the relationship can work. Why not?

That being said the dealbreaker for me is children. I have absolutely nothing against single parents or divorcees with kids. I wish them the best. But children are a huge responsibility. It also takes a lot of maturity to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner's ex if they are involved in raising the child. Besides, I want to be carefree, indulge in spontaneous activities and travels. I avoid relationships itself because expectations cramp my style. Children would take it to a whole new level that I cannot handle.

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TheBoss

@TheBoss

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Posted: 7 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: -BebaakBegum-

True True! But same is the case with serious relationships. Though, divorces involve families and finances so the situation can be worse but not all divorces are bad. Some people simply part ways coz of incompatibility. I know a few such cases. Deffo not talking about Channing Tatum 😆

Yes. Absolutely any heart break be it end of a relationship or marriage is difficult but I still think when you add marriage and all the family it becomes another level of complexity not to mention the honor factor and stigma. Even when people part ways some part of them still dwell in self blame. I really don't mean to generalize but desi people are not as understanding when it comes to divorces. The process isn't so smooth or with maturity.

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cory

@cory

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Posted: 7 years ago

#34

I would judge how she is with me if she seems good to go and we get gel well and i see a future than i would, if she's carrying baggage of a bitter previous relationship then i would have patience and help her through it being divorced or not don't matter to me its not a stigma to be divorced

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maha15

@maha15

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Posted: 7 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

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LifeOLicious

@LifeOLicious

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Posted: 7 years ago

#36

Divorced is fine. Just find out why the divorce happened or what is the relationship status with ex is or if there are children.

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Jaitreya23

@Jaitreya23

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Posted: 7 years ago

#37

Divorce is breaking off a marital relationship and similar to those breaking off Live-in or steady relationship of years. Divorce has legal binding and comes with the perks which the other two dont. So in fact its better than the others since the person had the ability that someone did want to marry and live. Like in all relationships the behavior of the person is imp.