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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

Yeah i know i mean i posted that i don't know how kabir and head priests and others are so dumb like they following it blindly,then what is use of head priest and board committe if they don't follow quran ,all these thoughts i posted there in your previous post as a reply to the member MuratHayat.i told you as i was not able to copy that comment here.i posted my thoughts there.i mean i asked you to just go through my comment there.i agree with your point

ya I understand thanks
but these are real issues not it is like they are creating unnecessary drama in this serial
as it is happening in reality and many have not accepted it even after supreme court announcement and is still an issue either they are misunderstanding or they really don't want it or simply because its India supreme court and Muslim think that India cant take any decision in their favour because it is Hindu country as shahbaz in first said or simply due to politics
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: adni143

i know this as i have read it previously about nikaah halala
but sorry i somewhat not like this rule as it is even like forcing a girl to marry someone else without her will
as you will see in this serial later i gurantee you after talaq both will feeel the voidness of each other but they will not be able to remarry


I know many ppl find it hard to accept these rules. but when divorce keeps happening between ppl ..they need to stop it. their marriage diesn't work . they have to move on..and try to find a better second half. For me I consider 3rd talaq the end of useless marriage. you need to know that the man who divorced you trice doesn't deserve you.
If the woman got married to other guy , and discovered that he too isn't good for her ..or verse vise ..talaq happened again. then she maybe got more wise and learn from her experience. maybe her first husband too learned that he needs her in his life. . then if they get married again..they'll keep this marriage!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: awida


I know many ppl find it hard to accept these rules. but when divorce keeps happening between ppl ..they need to stop it. their marriage diesn't work . they have to move on..and try to find a better second half. For me I consider 3rd talaq the end of useless marriage. you need to know that the man who divorced you trice doesn't deserve you.
If the woman got married to other guy , and discovered that he too isn't good for her ..or verse vise ..talaq happened again. then she maybe got more wise and learn from her experience. maybe her first husband too learned that he needs her in his life. . then if they get married again..they'll keep this marriage!

thank you for making me understand a beautiful perspective of this
and really if we are talking about serial then only it look wrong as leads are fairytale but in real life if the person divorced you and not even reconciled in 3 month then that person is really not fit for you or vice versa
thanks alot because this is first thing which i feel i was missing as i have not seen real life talaq i have seen this only in serial and serial leads love are fairytale not reality
i really have not seen talaq in real life because the society in which i live are mainly on arranged marriage so after marriage both party compensate or the one dominate it is not necessary that male only dominate but in many situation female even harass and do nautanki sometime
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: adni143

thank you for making me understand a beautiful perspective of this
and really if we are talking about serial then only it look wrong as leads are fairytale but in real life if the person divorced you and not even reconciled in 3 month then that person is really not fit for you or vice versa
thanks alot because this is first thing which i feel i was missing as i have not seen real life talaq i have seen this only in serial and serial leads love are fairytale not reality
i really have not seen talaq in real life because the society in which i live are mainly on arranged marriage so after marriage both party compensate or the one dominate it is not necessary that male only dominate but in many situation female even harass and do nautanki sometime


Thank you too for adding this info about female harrassment. As for talaq . you see I learned it the hard way. I got one talaq, and alhamdulillah we reconsiled soon. but that experience made us wiser, more aware of our natures, more understanding. This is true life as you said. and if someone dumped you once and returned you may accept him back. but if he kept dumping you, it is hard to fogive , na?😲

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