Death of a friendship

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Syed Shuridh Rahman Khan Mijan/Shuridh.

@mijanur

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Posted: 7 years ago

In first two episode we not only saw the death of Aditya and Pooja's marriage but also death of a friendship.

Yes, Pooja betrayed Adi as his wife, but I think Pooja also betrayed Adi as his friend.

Childhood friendship is very significant because generally those friendship are built unconditionally. Your childhood friends are the symbols of your childhood iinnocence.

Adi has a very troubled childhood, his father's cheating, and his mother's silent acceptance of it cause him a lot pain.

Pooja came in his life as a breath of fresh air, he learnt to enjoy the life again because of her friendship. Adi felt finally someone cared about him. It was his friendship with Pooja that prevented him from becoming a bitter person.

Now, by hiding the truth, fooling him, Pooja made Aditya to question his whole life not just his married life.

He is now having doubt not only her loyalty to their marriage but also the existence of their friendship.

Therefore, I think a friendship also died along with marriage.

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Saranya

@charanyaaj

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Posted: 7 years ago

I agree because he always said she is my best friend first and then my wife. So she was his best friend it's really hard for him to trust anyone from now

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Mages

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Posted: 7 years ago

I agree...

but the question is does pooja even loved adi...i don't think so...she seems to make a compromise rather than being in love with adi...maybe she only treats adi as her friend n her love was yash even before her marriage but she had to sacrifice her love due to marriage by adi which might be forced by family members...

if yash-pooja had a relationship before marriage she should have told adi the truth...he is selfless n a person with a large heart...he will definitely understand her heart n will want her happiness only...adi doesn't like lies n hiding secrets from him...he lived a honest life...he will die but will never lie...

I agree adi-pooja know each other since their childhood but it seems like pooja never loved adi

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.Peaceminusone.

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Posted: 7 years ago

For Aditya I think the fact that his "best friend" betrayed him probably hurt more than the fact that his wife did. Even in yesterday's episode Aditya said twice that his "best friend, a friend of 12 years, his wife died", while its very good that your wife is your best friend, but when your wife who you love so much dies shouldn't the order of the statement be a little different?! Her stature as a friend in Aditya's life was probably, just may be more higher than that of a wife. Maybe that's what caused her to look solace in other person. Or maybe something else or maybe there wasn't such a thing.

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ALISHA SHIRODKAR

@PRINCESS_ALISHA

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Posted: 7 years ago

yes i agree. Pooja never loved Aditya. She treated him as her freind only thatsy why she cheated her

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@bugsbunny12

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Posted: 7 years ago

Agreed...she was his best friend first then wife...
And to adi it feels like being betrayed by 2 people he loved most, his wife as well as his best friend...

well 3 actually, his dad also made the list few years back 😆

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Syed Shuridh Rahman Khan Mijan/Shuridh.

@mijanur

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: charanyaaj
I agree because he always said she is my best friend first and then my wife. So she was his best friend it's really hard for him to trust anyone from now

You are right. His friendship with Pooja had great significance in his life.

Aditya will now have doubt not only love but also on friendship.

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Syed Shuridh Rahman Khan Mijan/Shuridh.

@mijanur

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Mages
I agree...
but the question is does pooja even loved adi...i don't think so...she seems to make a compromise rather than being in love with adi...maybe she only treats adi as her friend n her love was yash even before her marriage but she had to sacrifice her love due to marriage by adi which might be forced by family members...

if yash-pooja had a relationship before marriage she should have told adi the truth...he is selfless n a person with a large heart...he will definitely understand her heart n will want her happiness only...adi doesn't like lies n hiding secrets from him...he lived a honest life...he will die but will never lie...

I agree adi-pooja know each other since their childhood but it seems like pooja never loved adi

I think she loved Adi, or she thought she loved Adi when marrying him. After that, she realized that, she was not satisfied with that marriage.

I think Yash -Pooja affair happened after her marriage.

I think if Pooja told Adi that, she was npt happy with that marriage and she was seeing someone else then Adi would have sacrifice his love for her happiness

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Syed Shuridh Rahman Khan Mijan/Shuridh.

@mijanur

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: PRINCESS_ALISHA
yes i agree. Pooja never loved Aditya. She treated him as her freind only thatsy why she cheated her

Pooja was a bad example of a friend. From childhood she knew how Adi despise Cheating. A true childhood friend would not hurt his/her friend that way. I don't think she even considered him as friend while cheating with other man.

For Pooja I think Adi had become just a person she knew.

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Syed Shuridh Rahman Khan Mijan/Shuridh.

@mijanur

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: bugsbunny12
Agreed...she was his best friend first then wife...
And to adi it feels like being betrayed by 2 people he loved most, his wife as well as his best friend...

well 3 actually, his dad also made the list few years back 😆

His dad let him down by cheating.

His mom let him down by silently tolerating Mr. Hooda's cheating.

And finally you are right Pooja let him down as both friend and wife.