Dadi's Proverb Knowledge!- Half Baked!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Today Dadi's proverb' knowledge caught my attention and I was like 'Shrewd lady' for sure.The actual proverb was meant to be ''When in Rome,do as the Pope does''.So Dadi thinks herself as 'Pope'..

Hmm..Monarchy!

''Monarchy, like dress, is the badge of lost innocence; the palaces of kings are built on the ruins of the bowers of paradise''.So no wonder Deepika and Rohan's innocence have been mutilated.

This phrase derives from a medieval Latin phrase which is attributed to St Ambrose. The original Latin is, ''si fueris Romae, Romano vivito more'' which means, if you are in Rome, then live in the Roman manner'.

St Ambrose was the bishop of Milan and he lived in the fourth century AD. He wrote this proverb in 387 AD.

Thus, though in the original phrase, St Ambrose referred specifically to Rome, the proverb is most usually used in a more general sense. It refers to the fact that, no matter where in the world we are, we should respect local laws and customs'. In fact, St Ambrose added on a little extra to his proverb, noting that and when I am elsewhere, I act according to other customs'.

And Dadi cleverly doesnot mentions this second part.Shrewd lady.Proved.

Or may be she doesn't know.Imported illiterate.😉

This proverb has many uses: some that are pragmatic and some that are more about personal growth.

Pragmatically, it is a very good idea to follow the locals' lead when it comes to living in a different land. After all, they have lived there longer than the visitor and can let him in on all of those all important local secrets.

In terms of personal growth, setting the differences aside and living in the way that locals do will enable you to gain a new perspective on the world. This maxim encourages us to expand our horizons by trying out new things, and also to embrace the fact that there are many different ways of understanding life and of living it too!

Hopefully Sameer too finds his way through in a positive manner.😳

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Firstly a big thank you to you for an insightful post...I always knew the proverb which Dadi said but never knew the story behind it and the other half of it...
I strongly believe in this ideology and I am actually a staunch follower of this proverb...

Like for example- I'm personally not a very religious person, spiritual yes, but not very much into following religion. And my Dad's family is pretty liberal about following things, but my Mom's family are staunch followers of religion. Now whenever I have to visit my maternal home, I have to keep aside my beliefs and ideologies aside for few days inorder to live their peacefully and hence I follow some religious things...This is just to keep the environment peaceful and not give a chance to anyone to taunt my parents...cause being a rebel isn't always a good way...

So it's very important that a person in Rome does as the Romans do...For Sameer it is a difficult phase right now, plus he is in this crucial age of his life where he is going to be rebellious and wish to do exactly opposite of what he is expected...But as you said it will always be easy and helpful for him to adjust a bit and live their peacefully...but like many of us we learn maximum things after our teenage phase is over...I guess currently he won't understand this...and will end up being a rebel...
Edited by KashafZaroon30 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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' When is Rome, do as the Romans do' - Is that not the right proverb Minu ? I remember learning this in school. I actually didn't know this ' Do as the Pope says' part. Is it a later edition ? Thanks for explaining the other part too.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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this was quite informative... thank you for this knowledgeable post... i shall keep this in my mind...
well sameer will learn to be manipulative like dadi😉 for me she indirectly gave a hint to sameer dt f he has to stay in their home he needs to be like them... n sameer will be like them but with his own tashan... he will bring back dt innocence in rohan and deepika... he will show them kids dont need to be robot😆

also for handling business sameer needs to learn to be strong... over here he will learn how to control his anger n handle the situation using manipulative ways... one man army who needs no one to support him... he can fight his battle alone... dt will happen when he would connect with naina... she would assure him dt she s there to love him... there to take care of him... also connecting with mundit give him dt push to take over d business... during forgiveness track with mundit he was able to survive dt agarwal house... likewise for entering business he would require assurance from his two pillars... so delhi house will prepare him to be strong... will give him courage to fight his own battles... will give him strength to show people their right face... in business u need such qualities...


also he has handle a family before in naina's house... so he just needs to use his experience... he will strong sameer in front of them but with his family? naina preeti swati n mundit he would remain d same sameer who needs love support n care which he got from nanu😊 he will be sameer jaiprakash maheshwari in front of whom no body will be able to speak anything... like rakesh also couldnt say anything to nanu... he will gain dt power n position dt nobody would be able to speak anything nonsense infront of him😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dixie123


' When is Rome, do as the Romans do' - Is that not the right proverb Minu ? I remember learning this in school. I actually didn't know this ' Do as the Pope says' part. Is it a later edition ? Thanks for explaining the other part too.

Yes Thats the right one.But it initially was attributed to Pope.Later the change was made to Romans.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thanks for the clarifications Minu...your posts are always insightful😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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thanks Minu... i hv actually used the proverb always as Dadi mentioned. however its good to know how it actually is 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Actually i have heard both the proverbs used by people under different circumstances.
:)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dixie123


' When is Rome, do as the Romans do' - Is that not the right proverb Minu ? I remember learning this in school. I actually didn't know this ' Do as the Pope says' part. Is it a later edition ? Thanks for explaining the other part too.



And that is how I remember it too.😳

Minu darling your posts are always so interesting 🤗
Edited by Infofan - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Insightful post minu
Dadi is expecting too much from sam... Or is she even expecting or simply saying so as to taunt him... Sameer will definitely change the way things are in somani household... Dadi thinks herself as some kind of queen... She's expecting him to adjust as per her time table... In a way its good for sam... He'll learn to live in any circumstances... Just like you how he learnt so many life lessons during his stay at the agarwals... He has to take over Nanu's business too someday... For that he needs to learn to deal with different people... Manipulative and cunning people like dadi and somani will also teach him some lessons of life.

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