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mimi/aditi

@sunshine.

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Posted: 18 years ago

I have a very close friend who is a guy and recently started dating this girl who is bad news. In the past she has cheated on guys and smoked marijuana. She is also a gold digger. I've talked to him many times and told him that she doesn't deserve him, and he just yelled at me for it. Now this is the guy that I've known since before kindergarten, he's like the sweetest guy you'd ever meet, and I don't get why he doesn't mind being associated with her. I don't want him to get hurt because I care deeply for him, but he doesn't want to listen to me and called me a bad friend. I don't know what to do, because I know the girl is still "bad" and doesn't only want him for him. What do I do??

Please help!

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@IceFire

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Posted: 18 years ago

i'm sure he's old enough to care of himself firstly. i've seen friendships break into pieces, even my childhood mate and i are now in our seperate ways. i'ts tough but it's true. do you have proof that this girl is cheating? have you ever! seen her smoke? if yes to both then next time you see her, bring a camera with you and take photos of what wrong actions she's been doing. i know that might sound silly but if you're so positive and sure about yourself then go for it

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mimi/aditi

@sunshine.

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: IceFire
i'm sure he's old enough to care of himself firstly. i've seen friendships break into pieces, even my childhood mate and i are now in our seperate ways. i'ts tough but it's true. do you have proof that this girl is cheating? have you ever! seen her smoke? if yes to both then next time you see her, bring a camera with you and take photos of what wrong actions she's been doing. i know that might sound silly but if you're so positive and sure about yourself then go for it

I think it's lust that has taken over him, and he's not aware of himself. That's why I'm concerned. I have seen her take out a joint in front of my eyes in the bathroom...and the cheating...I've talked to her old boyfriends before and that's why they say they broke up with her. I feel stupid worrying so much about her wrongs, but I don't want it to affect my friend or get him in trouble. I don't really know about the camera thing...

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@IceFire

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Posted: 18 years ago

lol i know :d they might think you're spying and mocking around >.< anyway don't do what i said about the camera >.< that'll probably pushed him away from you even further. it's lust is it? not love? in todays world, i'll have to agree. guys are stubborn :p i doubt he'd listen to you >.< but it's worth a try. just don't give up trying ^^

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@Angeleyes 2

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Posted: 18 years ago

hmm

he thinks that this girl he is dating is very good and ur just making up stories that she is doing all of this.

This is as simple as I think it could get, Find a way for him to actual see her cheating and smoking weed. He needs to know that she's a crack head.

The picture thing isn't a bad idea however he can always say that u edit the pic and add ur own stuff

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@IceFire

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

hmm

he thinks that this girl he is dating is very good and ur just making up stories that she is doing all of this.

This is as simple as I think it could get, Find a way for him to actual see her cheating and smoking weed. He needs to know that she's a crack head.

The picture thing isn't a bad idea however he can always say that u edit the pic and add ur own stuff

pretend not to know how to edit a picture. hahahaha 😆 video could help too :)

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@iiHEARTyu-x0

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Posted: 18 years ago

umm, first of all what kind of friend is he?
i think yu should jus let him go, and he'll see for himself when the time comes, then he'll come back to yu and sorry, andd lalala,

oor yu could makee one of those big plans they make in dramas, like when yu get her to admit her mistake in front of everyone,

or jus use the camera 😆

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mimi/aditi

@sunshine.

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: desi-chick
umm, first of all what kind of friend is he?
i think yu should jus let him go, and he'll see for himself when the time comes, then he'll come back to yu and sorry, andd lalala,

oor yu could makee one of those big plans they make in dramas, like when yu get her to admit her mistake in front of everyone,

or jus use the camera 😆

He's one of my best friends.

And I considered the ever-so-often-used in nataks 'big plan' idea, but then I realized none of that is ever gonna happen in reality 😆😆 So I'm going to learn to let it go.

Thanks desi 😛
Thanks everyone, actually.

Edited by *Mimi* - 18 years ago

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