Ishita and Abhimanyu upbringing

On the other hand, Aaliyah had Abhimanyu and Ishita around her for 24*7. She grew up in a very loving and protective environment.

Adi and Ruhi have faced many obstacles - molestation, MMS scandal, murder etc but they had always faced with strength.

Ruhi did try to commit suicide but she was pressurized a lot by that time whereas Aaliyah has always been shown to be childish. She simply cannot handle stress. She panics with even small things. Committing suicide within a day . Panicking on seeing Param all these are signs of being a weak person. And this is not the first time she has pulled this stunt , remember she had cut her nerves when Abhimanyu had refused her to meet Adi.

So can I say Ishita and Abhimanyu failed to make Aaliyah as a strong person. It was good that Ishita was not around Adi and Ruhi during their growing days otherwise she would have made them also totally dependent on her just how Aaliyah is now.

That was in fun basis but these are serious matters. She needs to act her age..

An upbringing cannot be called good if you haven't taught your kids to fight their own battle.

This is the reason why I always liked Mr and Mrs. Iyers upbringing, they made both their daughters strong and independent.

Whereas on the other hand Mr and Mrs Bhallas kids all relied on Raman for finance and as the story progressed CV's t urned Raman into a man who did not know how to deal with problems.