My thoughts on this topic of teenage love is lil different...intensity in love and passion has nothing to do with age...just because they are teenagers we cant say that their love isn't love or doesn't have the same passion or intensity that is seen among married couples or two adult live in partners...I think it has got to do with people and their characters .
As far as teenagers and their emotions are concerned we need to respect them and not take it lightly. Only when we adults trusts our teenagers ( sons , daughters. niece, nephew or even friends kids , siblings ) will they learn to have confidence in their own emotions ... and not play with them.
Love is important and during the teenage life if one finds affection there is nothing wrong in it...its a part of the growth cycle..but what we need to teach them , not to be cheated in love...and also if they find the right affection then how to balance it and respect it. Make them understand the consequences of physical intimacy when done as an impulsive act or out of curiosity.
Love at this age must be avoided.Because there are Hormonal fluctuations during teenage years and not every single individual is same. Some girls don't have interest in this age instead they focus on studies. But, if a boy loves her or shows as if he loves her, she doesn't know. If she makes friends with other guys, it is in a nice way. The person who says"LOVE" starts hurting her from behind. And, he will be possessive whenever that Girl talks with anybody else etc. I think all of these have to be avoided as they are not grown at this age mentally or physically. And Mind is not stable at this age for teenage boys. So, it is better to avoid and anybody's Life should not be affected because this is a very good growing up age. Growing up age should always be there for Future. Even during 26 or 27 years, some males behave like fools. They say Love but they don't even know the meaning of Love. I think some idiotic BOYS/MEN should know the likes and dislikes of the Girls first before liking the Girl. They should avoid the dislikes. And, Naina is a very Strong Character so she should hold up firmly and study. Not worry about any other distractions because Naina's Dad, Rakeshji is very strict.
There are so many changes be it hormonal, family pressures, education, growing up years and it is not easy for Love to reach towards Marriage. It takes multiple years for Love to grow or build upon.
Make them understand that ..intimacy is pure ..it is ..union of two people which culminates in procreation of life...hence the act need to be treated with respect , purity and responsibility ..and to be done with the right person at a time you think you are able to take responsibility of a relationship and is willing to be a provider in the relationship ( doesn't matter if its a boy or a girl because equality is the mantra of today)...also the important point is the legal issues that would pop up if things go wrong...because the law of the land is above all.
Intimacy should never be at this age because Boys after having intimacy, they will leave the Girls. So, Girls have to be careful and watch out because Teenage Pregnancies are not Good. It spoils the whole Life of a Girl and the Family is affected and Girl's child will be affected. I think intimacy is best after Marriage because we don't know how many loves are successful before marriage. So, I think it is better to avoid it.
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IN TRUE LOVE, THEY DON'T HURT THE PERSON/GIRL THEY LOVE. THE MOMENT THEY HURT, THAT IS NOT TRUE LOVE âď¸.
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