Flippant about motherhood

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Posted: 7 years ago
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It is difficult for me to tolerate Anami beyond a point.
Her calling Satrupa as matlabi mataji. Sometimes she addresses her as Satrupaji. And she calls another mother PP. She is so flipppant about motherhood.
The way she behaved with the principal and interviewers at the college.

Calling someone begum.

Satrupa's first decision of leaving Anami is somewhat right. But bringing her back is wrong.
Instead she should have nurtured Narottam and made him eligible to takeover RS instead of another brat Pujan's son.

Cant Satrupa give an AC to Sudha? Afterall it is only an AC, not Baldev.😆😆


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

It is difficult for me to tolerate Anami beyond a point.

Her calling Satrupa as matlabi mataji. Sometimes she addresses her as Satrupaji. And she calls another mother PP. She is so flipppant about motherhood.
The way she behaved with the principal and interviewers at the college.

Calling someone begum.

Satrupa's first decision of leaving Anami is somewhat right. But bringing her back is wrong.
Instead she should have nurtured Narottam and made him eligible to takeover RS instead of another brat Pujan's son.

Cant Satrupa give an AC to Sudha? Afterall it is only an AC, not Baldev.😆😆


leaving a daughter after giving birth is the right decision???????
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angelsonali1

leaving a daughter after giving birth is the right decision???????


Not at all supporting Satrupa.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

It is difficult for me to tolerate Anami beyond a point.

Her calling Satrupa as matlabi mataji. Sometimes she addresses her as Satrupaji. And she calls another mother PP. She is so flipppant about motherhood.
The way she behaved with the principal and interviewers at the college.

Calling someone begum.

Satrupa's first decision of leaving Anami is somewhat right. But bringing her back is wrong.
Instead she should have nurtured Narottam and made him eligible to takeover RS instead of another brat Pujan's son.

Cant Satrupa give an AC to Sudha? Afterall it is only an AC, not Baldev.😆😆




Abandoned a baby at birth is right?

And if Satrupa have raised Anami wouldn't have become like this... She might bcm sophisticated and well mannered like Vatsalya or bcm another Satrupa...
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Originally posted by: MahimaSingh



Abandoned a baby at birth is right?

And if Satrupa have raised Anami wouldn't have become like this... She might bcm sophisticated and well mannered like Vatsalya or bcm another Satrupa...


We still do not know why Anami is given away.

Here I am talking about how Anami treats motherhood giving names even to PP.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Satrupa is quite mean in denying AC.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves


We still do not know why Anami is given away.

Here I am talking about how Anami treats motherhood giving names even to PP.



Even I understood your post.. just that one line of yours looks like Satrupa is right to giving away a baby.

Even I wanted to know the reason.. Satrupa isn't ready to answer why she gave baby girl n not the boy.. Seeing her character now I feel there won't be any other reason than Vikku won't accept a girl baby as LM heir...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Me and my mom are like friends.In moments when I feel extreme love towards mom I sweetly call her crazy names like Pagli(not exactly Pagli but my colloquial terms which means Pagli)..so when Anami does it I dnt get offended rather I find it sweet.. everyone has their style of living/loving. Even my mom calls her mother Chechi(yani sister) and her grandmother as Amma(yani mom).She is used to call them like that since childhood..so what I am trying to say the words doesn't matter only feelings matter..
For me Anami values motherhood the most that's why she brought sudha to LM(to let the mother-son duo stay close).She loves and respect PP more than anyone in this world.
Satrupa may have a 100 reasons to abandon Anami at birth but that doesn't erase/rectify the injustice happened with Anami.
Anami reflects what's thrown at her..Gayatri gave her love and she loves her back.. Baldev and Vikku were indifferent towards her initially and she reflected the same feeling..when Vikku warmed up to her she too responded equally..And about Satrupa, I will just Adopt Anamis own words.Satrupa ne Sirf Anami ko haasil karna or haq jatane ki koshish ki he abtak..she has not yet considered Anami as a daughter..for her Anami is the heir or a replacement to vatsalya..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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And it's not just about AC..what made Satrupa riled up is the fact that Sudha is "Demanding".There is difference between requesting, asking and demanding. Satrupa couldn't stand it.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ardhanarishwara

Me and my mom are like friends.In moments when I feel extreme love towards mom I sweetly call her crazy names like Pagli(not exactly Pagli but my colloquial terms which means Pagli)..so when Anami does it I dnt get offended rather I find it sweet.. everyone has their style of living/loving. Even my mom calls her mother Chechi(yani sister) and her grandmother as Amma(yani mom).She is used to call them like that since childhood..so what I am trying to say the words doesn't matter only feelings matter..

For me Anami values motherhood the most that's why she brought sudha to LM(to let the mother-son duo stay close).She loves and respect PP more than anyone in this world.
Satrupa may have a 100 reasons to abandon Anami at birth but that doesn't erase/rectify the injustice happened with Anami.
Anami reflects what's thrown at her..Gayatri gave her love and she loves her back.. Baldev and Vikku were indifferent towards her initially and she reflected the same feeling..when Vikku warmed up to her she too responded equally..And about Satrupa, I will just Adopt Anamis own words.Satrupa ne Sirf Anami ko haasil karna or haq jatane ki koshish ki he abtak..she has not yet considered Anami as a daughter..for her Anami is the heir or a replacement to vatsalya..


It is more complicated. Satrupa also started to love her but she is in a hurry to to get complete rights over her and using underhand methods.

I am also a mother and a daughter but I will not like it if my daughter calls me anything other than amma even if she does it out of extreme love and affection. And luckily she does not do so. Amma is the sweetest sound for me and my daughter calling me that enhances the appeal of that word.
But I will not judge others except anami as she is a fictional character and her calling names is something that is not appealing to me. She may love PP but for anami PP is sort of comic figure.Maybe PP's mannerisms is also responsible to some extent. And the way Anami did not obey her when she begged her not to go to LM. She emotionally manipulated her. PP should stay in limits and not overreach. She has to give in otherwise she has to face sulking anami and silent satyagrah from anami.


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