What makes an ideal relationship ?

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Hriju321

@Hriju321

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Posted: 8 years ago

Can you resist from falling in love and staying in love with a man who you know will never let you down ?

Falling in love is relatively easy;but to have that sustained insurmountable faith and respect is not so easy.The trick is to remain in love after the first gloss of romance is over.

Most of us have our ideas about an ideal life partner,one who will be your friend and one who will let you be the lead in the relationship having full confidence in your capabilities.I would like such a man but I would love one who, in those times when you are in the dumps,too tired to fight or make a stand,becomes a wall,a safe haven where you just let go! You have faith that he will go to the depths of hell to keep you safe,to take care of you,to nurture you.The partner may be a flawed man but he comes through every time when you are down,one you realises his mistake and makes up for it in a million ways just to let you know that you are precious to him;one who is not just bound to the 'pallu' of his wife but is a family man who takes a stand for his family too.

Annika is one hell of a lucky lady that she has Shivaay Singh Oberoi as her husband just like he is the luckiest in the world to have precious one-in-a-million Annika as his wife.The duo make a very fresh,blood and flesh couple who fight,make up,let the other be the lead in the relationship but when the need rises,each makes a contribution without belittling the other.There is no ego between them and they do not conform to the societal age old norms about the woman being barefoot,pregnant and in kitchen who keeps her home neat and clean and is the ideal woman and the man being the lead in the relationship; kitchen and household work being a strict no-no for his ego.

This picture speaks words about their relationship 😊

What do you think makes them perfect?

Please discuss (discuss being the operative word) if you are like minded and add more instances. Bashers and haters please stay away in your own zone.Only peaceful discussions are welcome.If you do not like the post,stay away,don't hijack it and make it a battleground.

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Ujwala

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Such a beautiful post! 😳 I am glad with the old IB getting back its essence forum is also back with such beautiful posts 👏

What makes an ideal relationship?

Shivika sets an example for ideal relationship is what i can say. You see everything in them. Be it understanding each other, caring , Love , trust , honesty...

They fight for each other and also fight with each other unlike the usual love stories we see where FL just sacrifices.

This is called takkar ki ishqbaaazi and we are glad we got such a beautiful story. Looking for many more such khidkitod examples these ppl set 😳

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cestlavie

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well said Sangy! The progression Shivaay has shown in becoming that perfect life partner is so endearing!! I hope he continues to progress and I hope that both Shivaay and Annika continue to complement each other's personalities like hand and glove!!❤️

And you know me, I want that shivkuul 😆

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Hriju321

@Hriju321

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: cestlavie
Well said Sangy! The progression Shivaay has shown in becoming that perfect life partner is so endearing!! I hope he continues to progress and I hope that both Shivaay and Annika continue to complement each other's personalities like hand and glove!!❤️

And you know me, I want that shivkuul 😆

May God grant you Shivkuul Mamta 😆

Mera toh iss janam aur agle saath janam ka bandhan bandh chuka hain 😆 (I got my very own SSO);may you get yours😆

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cestlavie

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Hriju321

May God grant you Shivkuul Mamta😆
Mera toh iss kaam aur agle saath janam ka bandhan bandh chuka hain😆(I got my very own SSO);may you get yours😆

Haha I know tera toh set hai for next 7 generations!! 😆 && thanks ❤️

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TEJASWINI

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Posted: 8 years ago

Shivaay and annika are two imperfect people accepted each other with their imperfections and flaws,that is what makes them perfect ...

They never want to change the other...I think its the best part of their relationship...😳

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KALVIN

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Posted: 8 years ago

What a timing of your post as your answer is already given in Fuze article on MF.

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Hriju321

@Hriju321

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: teju111
Shivaay and annika are two imperfect people accepted each other with their imperfections and flaws,that is what makes them perfect ...
They never want to change the other...I think its the best part of their relationship...😳

Yes they never try to impose on each other -thats their best part.😊

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@Reeltoreal

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Posted: 8 years ago

Rimi this is a tough one...saathi milne ke baad kaisa saathi chahiye is a tought one...😆 as you said Saath janmo thak bandh gaye hain...tho kyaa boloon.

here is no ego between them and they do not conform to the societal age old norms about the woman being barefoot,pregnant and in kitchen who keeps her home neat and clean and is the ideal bahu and the man being the lead in the relationship; kitchen and household work being a strict no-no for his ego.

you described my saathi...to the T ...this is him most of the days n times n will tell you this...he changed more diapers than I did...n i take pride in saying so. 😆. i found my shivay Flaws n all.

That said I never thought I would get to see this on screen or any where else...but Shivika proved me wrong.

The transformation in Shivaay is phenomenal...God even today when I go back to watch old episodes I keep thinking oh wow where were we then n where are we today never did I think that I would see this in them...they will come this far...it was a beautiful journey...but they did almost all of it together...they fought,they hurled insults at each other,the constant bickering that got on our nerves some days...hell they did all this n just like that fell in love...it was fun for us n a revelation for them.

Where we are today when I watch each episode with them together I think is there anything new ,any new goal /hurdle they need to cross n they never cease to surprise me with the freshness.

The best of all to me is the way they communicate with their eyes...she looks at him n he eye signals...god who does that???who gets to read eyes n get their answers???those little hand gestures the body language n eyes that speak volumes n those fleeting emotions that pass thru those faces n they read it all n we see it all.

How can you not be in awe of this on screen couple. They are loud, they are irritating, they are intense, they are romantic ,they are cry babies n they are everything n more.

So to me they fit perfectly...completing each other . so yes she has the best husband n he has the best wife. they were not perfect but they made the Them perfect.

So thank you HS for Shivika n Thank you Narbhi for breathing life into Shivika... most of the times you make us forget what onscreen n fiction is.