Is It Right For SAMEER To Do So ?????

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I just don't know how many think in this way...but...


I am having this doubt since the day I saw spoilers of sameers cute apologises...it was indeed cute and I am eagerly waiting for those episodes too ... but...


My question is


For whoms sake is SAMEER asking sorry...


Is it for naina who is hurt becoz of him or

Is it for himself who is hurt for hurting naina...



Today's episode may reveal something about sameers attitude...does he want his friend back or special friend...


But if samerr is apologising just for her friendship...
All I can say is that... that action is purely selfish...



Asking sorry at this stage when all her wounds are open is quite a foolish act...unless if he really wanted to carry on their relation forward from this sorry



I cannot say that sameer is completely selfish but his action is... he is hurt ... he know he has broken her ... broken her trust...

( Is he asking for sorry becoz he is burdened with guilt...or is he really sorry for nainas condition...only coming episodes can reveal that...till that I cannot say much about it...)



What sameer still is not knowing is ... it's not his sorry that naina wanted... all these sorries are just going to backfire him...she is going to get irritated more and more...


Sameer is not knowing that... she loved him and she expects nothing but love from him...


How can sameer even think that she will forgive him with these small sorries...she will just pity him ... for not understanding the depth of her feelings and her emotions...



Her wounds are not those which can be healed by these sorries...sameer should apologise to her emotionally ...



I strongly believe naina will defenetely make him understand that what he is doing is childish acts...sameer should come up with more intense ways to say sorry... her pain is beyond all these apologises...naina pakka class Legi uski... she may even question him...how can he even think of her forgiving him after such a big mistake...that too with all these childish acts...



Sameer is like having double standard regarding naina... he very well know her sufferings but doesn't know what should he do for her relief...


Sameer is yet to know... all that is needed to heal her wounds is his love that only he can give her...no sorry can work here...in fact it only hurts her more and more...


The person whom she loved with all her might...is behind her for sorry but only for friendship not for her love...what will be more insulting for naina and her love ...



This is just my opinion ... it's true that sameer is understanding slowly ... also he is just 17...but If he has the ability to break someone to this extent... he can also come up with many more mature ideas .... just a sorry cannot work here...the damage he has done is terrible...this is just going to make the situation even more worse...


I am Sure Too Sameer Will Come Up With Something Extraordinary Next Time Which Would Directly Hit Nainas Week Point 😉😉






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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sameer is yet to know... all that is needed to heal her wounds is his love that only he can give her...no sorry can work here...in fact it only hurts her more and more...

Yes Here U said the right answer to the question you asked😎

Sameer hi hai Naina ke dard ki dawa... Only his love can heel her pain...And Once Sameer will understand the same He will do the best to win her trust and her love back...😳 and I am waiting for that spl moment of his realisation
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ya u r right it will be insulting if he want to apologize her in special ways only for her friendship but not love that will directly hit her thinking about her looks.Sam baba naina ko pagal karke rahe ga ek din 😭
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with all what you all have said... but one thing we all are missing is that first thing he needs to do is apologize... and that too with his full heart... till the time he does this she would relate everything to bet... once he apologises and say what he feels for her at heart... till then she won't be able to understand anything and forget about forgiving him...
So after the sorry he needs to try and gain a place as a friend in her life... slowly then he'll realise what his life is with and without her... that would make him name his feelings as love... till then it's purely guilt😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I have also similar views. I voiced it a couple of days ago but many seem skeptical and thought the question as negative.

I my views:

Sameer asking For forgiveness will be very SELFISH in many ways. And he is unknowingly again hurting Naina.

His forgiveness might be just to absolve his conscience from the guilt of the Sin he has committed. If that's the only emotion with which he is after Naina, then he is again thinking for himself. He just wants to get Naina's forgiveness by his actions. First all his actions were for bet. Now all his actions are for getting rid of his guilt. Both have selfish motive directed at only satisfying his emotions.

Suppose, Naina tiers of his attempts or again falling in to emotion of love (or believing Sameer has changed) forgives him. Sameer is free from his guilt. Then what???

They become friends again???

With all the feelings and passion Naina has for Sameer, she can never be just friends with Sameer.

In fact she will be expecting Sameers aknowledgement of her love and loving her back as much as she loves him.

If Sameer has indeed fallen in love by then - then all his actions will make sense. Infact he should already be in love with Naina.

If after all the bet, guilt, asking sorry and Naina's forgiveness- he is not yet in love then he is again going to hurt Naina. In fact he is not letting Naina move ahead in her life nor he is giving her the love that she truly deserves.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

I agree with all what you all have said... but one thing we all are missing is that first thing he needs to do is apologize... and that too with his full heart... till the time he does this she would relate everything to bet... once he apologises and say what he feels for her at heart... till then she won't be able to understand anything and forget about forgiving him...

So after the sorry he needs to try and gain a place as a friend in her life... slowly then he'll realise what his life is with and without her... that would make him name his feelings as love... till then it's purely guilt😳


Well said👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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At this point Sameer not apologizing would be insensitive. Now that he has realized his mistake, he is feeling guilty yes, and unless he apologizes and she forgives him, how will his conscience be rid of the guilt? Only after that any other potential relationship thought will come to Sameer's mind.

The actual sorry acts may seem childish, but at this stage she is not even going to look at him leave alone listen to his explanation.

It would be best for her to forgive and forget to be able to move on. Chachaji's words about forgiving will make her do it or out of frustration just to get him to stop bothering her.

About what after all this? Will have to see after a couple of the sorry' episodes.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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NO...it was not right to play with any girl's or for that matter anyone's emotions...even if it was Kamya though I do not like her character, but it wasn't right for Sameer to put a bet on someone's heart! The victim here was Naina..though I feel she's quite lucky Sameer is deep down a nice guy n has or will genuinely love her. It doesn't happen the same way in real life always.
Even in this case, if you mark, Sameer started treating Naina with respect after she slapped him...before that he was always on the I'm the stud n she's the behenji mode n that he doesn't like to spend time with her...he thought Naina would be blown over by the kiss while the reverse happened. That was one day, Naina chose her self-respect over Sameer n that led to Sameer blurting out that she's not right to judge him all the while, just because he is different. I think that also helped him vent out his anger on her n made her think on his point of view.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samaina_1990

NO...it was not right to play with any girl's or for that matter anyone's emotions...even if it was Kamya though I do not like her character, but it wasn't right for Sameer to put a bet on someone's heart! The victim here was Naina..though I feel she's quite lucky Sameer is deep down a nice guy n has or will genuinely love her. It doesn't happen the same way in real life always.

Even in this case, if you mark, Sameer started treating Naina with respect after she slapped him...before that he was always on the I'm the stud n she's the behenji mode n that he doesn't like to spend time with her...he thought Naina would be blown over by the kiss while the reverse happened. That was one day, Naina chose her self-respect over Sameer n that led to Sameer blurting out that she's not right to judge him all the while, just because he is different. I think that also helped him vent out his anger on her n made her think on his point of view.




That slap was something which brought genuine change in sameer...he started respecting her since then...

Now we will only get to know from when did sameer started loving naina only once he realises himself...we defenetely know he loves her but from when...that is to be answered...and I hope we will get that through his VO...


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Even I have the same doubt!! Whether he wants his dost(Naina) back or his Dosti back!! After all these incidents it is impossible for Naina to be just a friend!! I hope he doesn't give any stupid reason to Naina!! If she gets frustrated there is a chance that she might slap him!! I hope he realizes his love soon!!

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