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Posted: 7 years ago
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Is she same mother who was crying rivers and was literally begging infront of Naira "Mere Karthik ko ghar sey mat janey do" when they were to live away from GV (disliked her that time too). Her tears could actually fill rivers but here her own biological son find her guilty,returned after years and she is so "calmly" saying to Manish we need to make him understand. When Dadi was about to do Kirti's shuddi karan was she same Suwarna who didn't let her do that and said "mujhe jo saza chahe dey dain lekin apni beti key sath yeh nahin honey doon gi" Distance decrease mother's love? No infact it increases mother's longing for her kid. Kirti's opinion was being shown on how happy she is seeing maa beta (Karthik-Suwarna) milan, Naira's efforts to talk to Shubam were also shown but the person who should be talking to him is shown being emotional only on single thing and saying jab "woh" (Manish) ayain gey tabhi meri celebration complete hogi. C'mon woman ur husband and his kids are everything for u but ur own son is nothing for u? Where all ur mamta and anso went? She literally begged infront of Naira to make her understand how much she loves Karthik but can't even join her hands infront of Shubham? She is not scared of Dadi when its about Kirti's dignity but can't speak a word when dadi diverted guests attention when Naira asked Shuman to join them and guests asked them who he is. Her character is a perfect depiction of feeding people out of home when ur own kids are starving. Such sacrifices are impractical and greatly unfair and they ought be termed wrong. When Manish said "Main tumhare TYAG ko nahin samajh paya" his character was done for me. He could've said intention, point of view, circumstances but the word tyag is being wrongly used here. CVs I truly want YRKKH to go out of top 10 this time to make u understand that Suwarna mata's sacrifice better say selfishness with no redemption isn't liked by audience.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I also had been thinking about this Suvarna's act being called tyaag and sacrifice. First I didn't like it but then I thought isn't sacrifice supposed to be giving up something of value to you for someone else or something else. So in a way it is a tyaag / sacrifice, just that it is not a good sacrifice, it is a wrong tyaag and the reason of the sacrifice is also not entirely clear, it is just said that she did it for Karthik and Manish, but they didn't show what caused her to think that by her doing this problems would decrease or be solved, they gave no clear picture.

So I don't have any issues with Manish calling it a tyaag as she did give up their child so his and Karthik relationship doesn't worsen, that doesn't however change the fact that she was wrong and her reasons though seem selfless not justifiable.

I feel the problem isn't calling it a sacrifice, the bigger problem is not openly calling it a wrong sacrifice. In fact sacrifices especially when it involves other people and only one takes the decision is definitely wrong. Like the time Naira had decided to sacrifice her love for Gayu, even Karthik and Gayu were involved but Naira took the decision even if it was under Rama Dadi's influence and during diwali and Kaira's first date, Gayu and Karthik did call her stupid for doing such a thing.

Coming to the first part of the post I do agree, especially about not liking Suvarna in the beginning. Her entry was very shady and then when Naira came into her words so easily I was very apprehensive, though I understood Naira saw her own mother in Suvarna and herself in Karthik, just like she kept away from her mother, he was doing the same, so that caused her believe Suvarna easily. Half of the time I wasn't sure if Suvarna was actually good. Then the over flow of tears got extremely annoying, the worst part was when she was even talking about Naira joining the family and bringing Karthik back and all few moments before the wedding, in a way putting pressure on Naira. Then was even more irritated at her when Kaira left the house and family got to know that Suvarna had asked Naira to not let Karthik go from GV, she behaved as if she had nothing to do and Naira was at fault. During Kirti Naksh sangeet when Suvarna and Karthik had to dance together, it was so clear that Karthik was hurting but she only seemed happy for herself that she got to spend time with Karthik and not thinking that what caused her happiness had caused him pain. Like you said she doesn't seem to care for Aryan. So yeah moments like these her character becomes out of my understanding, and seeing all this happen for nearly a year, I guess am used to her all of a sudden behaving different in similar situations.

Though the biased Kaira fan in me is absolutely content because am seeing Karthik has got his mother after long, so I am really loving all those sweet mother son moments.

The hopeful part in me wishes that since they have done the Suvarna Karthik Milan part and even had him call her Maa. Yesterday there was a small part of SuvarNish talking about Aryaan, so I hope we do get some scenes, showing Suvarna's guilt and all.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I never liked suvarna as a character from the very beginning ..She doesn't have a voice , she relies on others to put her point forth ..It has always been manish and now naira ..I was amazed for so many years dadi couldn't see the good person in her ? As if she felt obliged that manish chose to marry a poor girl like her and she should let the misunderstandings prevail..Just close your eyes and cry when someone blames you...There was one character of sridevi in mom where her daughter doesn't acknowledge her but does she look weak from angle ? That's how strong willed women are ..That's the beauty of great writing ...


One thing is for sure , if she was brought in to fill the void created by akshara , as naira's mother , suvarna failed big time ..Akshara no matter how much I hated her later on for her mahan acts , was much better ..



So suvarna was always meek, submissive and cry baby, yeah I agree with you , her current behavior should not surprise us ..But she is big time obsessed with kartik ...I am so frustrated with this track ke don't wanna watch anymore of suvarna scenes ..let raghav come with his foolish story... I don't wanna see her trying to talk to aryan and he reacting harshly , she crying and naira watching and making another plan ..Done with it ..Let them show aryan kartik became ram bharat overnight , aryan ko jagriti ho gayi..


Cvs will never have a justification for this tyag..Just as they didn't have any justification for manish hiding the truth from kartik for so long ..That didn't make sense to me either ...If suvarna tells us it would have complicated r elations blah blah it's just an assumption no...Complications will arise now isn't it ..If you choose one son over the other you are doing tyag for one but arent you selfish for the other ..How does that make you a better person
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