Over the board Dramatisation : Cvs It's so not done

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is completely my take on whatever was shown onscreen in the friday's episode and today's episode...
No doubt these two epis have been shot at a great scale with lot of effort by the entire team... much appreciated.

But but but, I don't think it was sooo necessary or feasible to show and make the actors enact too dramatic or rather far from reality scenes... like wiping off the sindhoor, pulling off mangalsutra by husband itself and in today's scene breaking of bangles.

These things are considered very inauspicious and done only when the woman becomes a widow... i.e only when her husband passes away.

It's so disheartening to see Aditi doing these scenes...not once but twice... once for the promo and once for the actual shot.
I'm sure her family would have felt "career ke liye kya kya karni padti hai " when they've seen their daughter enact all this.

Star plus which preaches "Nayi soch" has allowed to showcase such immoral scenes which i condemn.

At the end, i understand it's mere acting... and nothing real. But a channel who preaches nayi soch and condemns social evils should stick to its quotes.

"Practice what you preach" dear star plus.

PS : i also know many of u might not agree with my post. But it's fine... only thing i want to say is this post is not out of hypocrisy.

It's about mere thought a viewer went through.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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I actually do agree with you here, because the thought did cross my mind too.
As much as I am liking the new track, the bangle breaking, sindoor wiping, and mangalsutra breaking clips were totally uncalled for, when all of this could have been done with just a verbal spat.
It would have totally served the purpose.

Even trp aunties, most of them are religious ladies, may not like the idea of these gestures which are damn inauspicious in Hindu culture, and done only when a woman's husband dies.

These could have been avoided.
Drama is good but like I have mentioned earlier too, too much of anything is never good and rather leaves a sour taste.

Even from the show point of view , after all this, despite the reconciliation of AvNeil, would Avni feel normal or never recall Her husband breaking all her symbols of marriage the next time she wears them?

Food for thought!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simi1711

I actually do agree with you here, because the thought did cross my mind too.
As much as I am liking the new track, the bangle breaking, sindoor wiping, and mangalsutra breaking clips were totally uncalled for, when all of this could have been done with just a verbal spat.
It would have totally served the purpose.

Even trp aunties, most of them are religious ladies, may not like the idea of these gestures which are damn inauspicious in Hindu culture, and done only when a woman's husband dies.

These could have been avoided.
Drama is good but like I have mentioned earlier too, too much of anything is never good and rather leaves a sour taste.

Even from the show point of view , after all this, despite the reconciliation of AvNeil, would Avni feel normal or never recall Her husband breaking all her symbols of marriage the next time she wears them?

Food for thought!


I agree with all of what u have said...

Res...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simi1711

I actually do agree with you here, because the thought did cross my mind too.
As much as I am liking the new track, the bangle breaking, sindoor wiping, and mangalsutra breaking clips were totally uncalled for, when all of this could have been done with just a verbal spat.
It would have totally served the purpose.

Even trp aunties, most of them are religious ladies, may not like the idea of these gestures which are damn inauspicious in Hindu culture, and done only when a woman's husband dies.

These could have been avoided.
Drama is good but like I have mentioned earlier too, too much of anything is never good and rather leaves a sour taste.

Even from the show point of view , after all this, despite the reconciliation of AvNeil, would Avni feel normal or never recall Her husband breaking all her symbols of marriage the next time she wears them?

Food for thought!

absolutely,since yesterday iam thinking about this. How can she feel normal when she will wears them.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely agreed with you both Avni reddy and Simi
I detested that mangalsutra breaking and sindoor wiping in Friday .. haven't watched today's episode yet ..
Those were really not needed to be done/ shown.Verbally declaring that their marriage is done would have been enough for the audience there ( vidyut and khannas ). If they wanted that Neil have her symbols of marriage .. she would anyways return them when entering jail ..so Neil could have them safe with him then andas a symbol of their love and married life ..

They could have shown her heart breaking when she has to take off those ornaments that stand for her marriage to Neil and with every single ornament that she takes off in jail she could be shown gradually transforming from heartbroken to angry at Neil , from Mrs Avni Neil Khanna to Avni Ayesha and then finally Ananya Verma .. while Neil watches all this helplessly from afar as the ACP , vowing to win her back and protect her and collecting her jewellery for safe keeping 😊

Hehe , I just realized I wrote an entire scene 😆..sorry for the long post ..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simi1711

I actually do agree with you here, because the thought did cross my mind too.
As much as I am liking the new track, the bangle breaking, sindoor wiping, and mangalsutra breaking clips were totally uncalled for, when all of this could have been done with just a verbal spat.
It would have totally served the purpose.

Even trp aunties, most of them are religious ladies, may not like the idea of these gestures which are damn inauspicious in Hindu culture, and done only when a woman's husband dies.

These could have been avoided.
Drama is good but like I have mentioned earlier too, too much of anything is never good and rather leaves a sour taste.

Even from the show point of view , after all this, despite the reconciliation of AvNeil, would Avni feel normal or never recall Her husband breaking all her symbols of marriage the next time she wears them?

Food for thought!


Bang on @ the last paragraph .. these things would surely haunt any normal living female with heart and emotions .. I donno how the creatives wish to address this or if they have even thought about these basic sensibilities in the first place or not
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with u Avni.After all these doings how can she wear theses symbols without any difference or hurt😕.I too was thinking abt this from Friday
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'm muslim so I don't fully understand this concept of inauspiciousness, but with the way you have put your point across it has reminded me how indian serials ultimately make a joke of religion time and time again just to create drama. They make an even bigger joke out of marriage, so I agree. Indian serials need to understand that they can't keep chanting about religion and using religious symbolism in the manner they do, so as not to make a spectacle of religion. Considering how a large amount of these trp aunties are evidently hindu, it shocks me how they sit through watching and enjoying these spectacles that are used to create drama. Why don't they complain about religion being mocked in the name of creating drama and entertainment, when they complain when serials try to present women as modern and in a realistic way? They don't like watching serials where the female lead is modern, doesn't dress traditional, and isn't this selfless abla nari, bu they have no issue sitting through watching their own religion mocked time and time again for drama? 😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Trust me no matter how bad this thinks looks trp audience do love watching this. I don't know how. I m watching serials for years now and whenever husbands do thinks like that trp rose. This is really sickening
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17

I'm muslim so I don't fully understand this concept of inauspiciousness, but with the way you have put your point across it has reminded me how indian serials ultimately make a joke of religion time and time again just to create drama. They make an even bigger joke out of marriage, so I agree. Indian serials need to understand that they can't keep chanting about religion and using religious symbolism in the manner they do, so as not to make a spectacle of religion. Considering how a large amount of these trp aunties are evidently hindu, it shocks me how they sit through watching and enjoying these spectacles that are used to create drama. Why don't they complain about religion being mocked in the name of creating drama and entertainment, when they complain when serials try to present women as modern and in a realistic way? They don't like watching serials where the female lead is modern, doesn't dress traditional, and isn't this selfless abla nari, bu they have no issue sitting through watching their own religion mocked time and time again for drama? 😕



Dear it's not just about a mockery of our religious customs...this is secondary... but primarily it's down right double standards shown by the cvs and the channel about portraying a WOMAN of today's age..

Where the channel and show talks about empowering women and making them stronger... they show scenes like this which are so unrealistic and uncalled for... which indian husband who is a well read dignified ACP and loves his wife so dearly wipes off her sindhoor and pulls off the mangalsutra??

Does it happen anywhere that a strong woman like Avni breaks her bangles in a fit of rage just to show her relationship is over??

How feasible is this ?

Coming to the auspicious custom... i felt wrong for Aditi for she is enacting something against her custom. Trust me no girl would want to do this even if it's reel and fake..

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