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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't know about all you guys, but I'm feeling so uncomfortable with the negativity that is surrounding social media in regards to zain's off screen moments with nalini, purvi and jahaan. For one, I feel like right now most fans are acting very immaturely (sorry if anybody gets offended by this statement of mine) by attacking actors such as nalini with names like naagin, tagging the actors in posts/ comments that make a personal comment on them (forgetting that actors actually see all of this), showing too much concern and making unnecessary comments on zain and nalini's friendship, and showing too much concern about who zain hangs with in his spare time. On top of it, the actors seem visibly and more blatantly affected by the overtly intrusive behaviour and personal comments by fans which is why even the actors are acting out, as I saw loads of vids on insta where the actors are making comments that directly hint to the complaints of fans such as zain not having a live chat, fans calling nalini as naagin, and all other things.

I don't want to offend anyone, but why are we as fans crossing so many boundaries where we not only make personal comments on the actors over small issues, but we also directly tag the actors in these comments so that the actors see them? On top of it, why are we fans so riled up about zain hanging out with gulfam, nalini and co? Shouldn't zain hang out with who he likes and feels comfortable with?

Some fans on insta are going so far as to tagging zain in comments saying that they are unfollowing him because he acts fake, breaks promises and pretends to be sick to avoid chats. I don't see what fans get out of chats in the first place seeing as all the fans says is hi to the actor, requesting the actor to give a shoutout to their fans, asks them where their co-star is, and basically say everything but an actual question that isn't awkward or too personal for them to answer.

Before it was just the fans crossing limits with their behaviour, but with the actors visibly irritated with the behaviour of fans, they are directly calling the fans out on their behaviour in ways that are coming out as very sarcy and rude to fans, making fans more riled up. Why do we need to get so personal with actors? Why have we made a habit of picking apart the actions of actors, forgetting they are also human?

People are even showing problems in seeing zain dance and do hookah, when he could be doing much worse things.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you for this post :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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well said... mujhe bhi itni negativity digest nahi ho rahi...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I do agree with most of the things but what happened today I would say both are equally responsible for I understand fans on social media do interfere too much into an actors life but it happens with everyone and it's up to to actor how he or she handles the situation.


I have never seen anyone anyone including me discussing about an actors personal like on this forum
But today it was such a good episode and people should talk about how fabulous he was but instead all I see is so much negativity which could have been easily avoided
Edited by Shaiksafia - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for this post..Im not tryin to support the actors or the fans here.No offense to any1..We r no 1 to suggest zain whom he shud hang out wit..I have seen very degraded comments regardin Nalini for hanging out wit Zain and she has been tagged in them too..My only issue is we being gurls how can we talk about another girls character like tat..Wat respect wil men give gurls if we end up talkin to another like tat jus becoz we want Zain to hang out with someone else..Jus becoz she sat beside Zain @ the preview of Nilu Mams film,some ppl wrote below the belt comments taggin Nalini in it..How far is tat fair..Im not supporting any actor here..but we dnt have any rite to point at another gurls character whn we hardly know her personally..We cant jus go by her onscreen role..I saw a post of Gulfam mam few months ago where she msged some fan tat Nalini is a nice gurl..Jahaan is close to Aditi too..Today he spoke for Nalini..im not sayin this is the right time to speak or not to speak..He did talk for her coz the comments have crossed all limits since the movie the Nk team saw few days ago..Mayb as a friend n co star he came forward to say she is nice..Im not supporting Jahaan at all here..but he did try to talk for a gurl,is wat i see it as..
N regardin Zains live,yes i agree wit u ppl ask them to come online to which most of them asked their names to b said or somethin related to Aditi or so..Yes ,he did promise a live chat ..he was sick too and shooting non stop..Both Aditi n Zain have been shooting non stop till early morning around 4am during the week inspite of being sick..I know its their job and they get payed for it..but then thy do tat to give us the best..Why not we let them njoy the lille break they get..Yes,tv industry is the most stressful industry and they hardly get a break during the week,,so whn they get why not let them have their own fun...Who r we to complain as to whom he/she shud hang out with..Ppl r complainin tat he is partyin and not comin online though hes alright..whn u say ur his fan why judge him jus like tat..
Yes,i did see Zains Snapchat update wit Nalini..A few provoked them and they responded back which i know shud have been ignored at this hr..But why r we targetin a gurl..Many may not agree with me but this is my opinion and im sorry if i have offended any one..For me both parties are at fault..One for targettin the actress wit dirty comments n the other who shud have jus ignored
The only thing which wil get affected in all this is the show NAMKARAN..
Edited by rosyanjalii - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rosyanjalii

Thanks for this post..Im not tryin to support the actors or the fans here.No offense to any1..We r no 1 to suggest zain whom he shud hang out wit..I have seen very degraded comments regardin Nalini for hanging out wit Zain and she has been tagged in them too..My only issue is we being gurls how can we talk about another girls character like tat..Wat respect wil men give gurls if we end up talkin to another like tat jus becoz we want Zain to hang out with someone else..Jus becoz she sat beside Zain @ the preview of Nilu Mams film,some ppl wrote below the belt comments taggin Nalini in it..How far is tat fair..Im not supporting any actor here..but we dnt have any rite to point at another gurls character whn we hardly know her personally..We cant jus go by her onscreen role..I saw a post of Gulfam mam few months ago where she msged some fan tat Nalini is a nice gurl..Jahaan is close to Aditi too..Today he spoke for Nalini..im not sayin this is the right time to speak or not to speak..He did talk for her coz the comments have crossed all limits since the movie the Nk team saw few days ago..Mayb as a friend n co star he came forward to say she is nice..Im not supporting Jahaan at all here..but he did try to talk for a gurl,is wat i see it as..

N regardin Zains live,yes i agree wit u ppl ask them to come online to which most of them asked their names to b said or somethin related to Aditi or so..Yes ,he did promise a live chat ..he was sick too and shooting non stop..Both Aditi n Zain have been shooting non stop till early morning around 4am during the week inspite of being sick..I know its their job and they get payed for it..but then thy do tat to give us the best..Why not we let them njoy the lille break they get..Yes,tv industry is the most stressful industry and they hardly get a break during the week,,so whn they get why not let them have their own fun...Who r we to complain as to whom he/she shud hang out with..Ppl r complainin tat he is partyin and not comin online though hes alright..whn u say ur his fan why judge him jus like tat..
Yes,i did see Zains Snapchat update wit Nalini..A few provoked them and they responded back which i know shud have been ignored at this hr..But why r we targetin a gurl..Many may not agree with me but this is my opinion and im sorry if i have offended any one..For me both parties are at fault..One for targettin the actress wit dirty comments n the other who shud have jus ignored
The only thing which wil get affected in all this is the show NAMKARAN..



Very well put 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rosyanjalii

Thanks for this post..Im not tryin to support the actors or the fans here.No offense to any1..We r no 1 to suggest zain whom he shud hang out wit..I have seen very degraded comments regardin Nalini for hanging out wit Zain and she has been tagged in them too..My only issue is we being gurls how can we talk about another girls character like tat..Wat respect wil men give gurls if we end up talkin to another like tat jus becoz we want Zain to hang out with someone else..Jus becoz she sat beside Zain @ the preview of Nilu Mams film,some ppl wrote below the belt comments taggin Nalini in it..How far is tat fair..Im not supporting any actor here..but we dnt have any rite to point at another gurls character whn we hardly know her personally..We cant jus go by her onscreen role..I saw a post of Gulfam mam few months ago where she msged some fan tat Nalini is a nice gurl..Jahaan is close to Aditi too..Today he spoke for Nalini..im not sayin this is the right time to speak or not to speak..He did talk for her coz the comments have crossed all limits since the movie the Nk team saw few days ago..Mayb as a friend n co star he came forward to say she is nice..Im not supporting Jahaan at all here..but he did try to talk for a gurl,is wat i see it as..

N regardin Zains live,yes i agree wit u ppl ask them to come online to which most of them asked their names to b said or somethin related to Aditi or so..Yes ,he did promise a live chat ..he was sick too and shooting non stop..Both Aditi n Zain have been shooting non stop till early morning around 4am during the week inspite of being sick..I know its their job and they get payed for it..but then thy do tat to give us the best..Why not we let them njoy the lille break they get..Yes,tv industry is the most stressful industry and they hardly get a break during the week,,so whn they get why not let them have their own fun...Who r we to complain as to whom he/she shud hang out with..Ppl r complainin tat he is partyin and not comin online though hes alright..whn u say ur his fan why judge him jus like tat..
Yes,i did see Zains Snapchat update wit Nalini..A few provoked them and they responded back which i know shud have been ignored at this hr..But why r we targetin a gurl..Many may not agree with me but this is my opinion and im sorry if i have offended any one..For me both parties are at fault..One for targettin the actress wit dirty comments n the other who shud have jus ignored
The only thing which wil get affected in all this is the show NAMKARAN..


Agreed with every word you have said 👏 Why do women resort to degrading one another, yet command respect from men? It's shameful, and just meaningless for a woman to speak derogatory words about another woman when we expect men to respect us.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17


Agreed with every word you have said 👏 Why do women resort to degrading one another, yet command respect from men? It's shameful, and just meaningless for a woman to speak derogatory words about another woman when we expect men to respect us.


Yes sammy,in this whole episode..I will talk for Jahaan..He wasnt wrong..Wats wrong in saying being human n she isnt Naagin..Atleast he spoke for her in the open..Even Zains Snapchat pic doesnt upset me a bit as much as the Insta comments i have seen towards Nalini in regard to her sittin beside Zain while watchin the film..Why r we gurls tryin to put down another woman..Recently i have seen an interview of Anita (Shagun frm Yhm ) and her husband rohit on a show wit Vahbiz..In tat her husband said how Anita literally cried for 6 months aft comin home from Shoot for all the _ve comments she used to receive from fans for her role ..Even actors r humans and why not respect thm..Why do we relate reel with real and vent out on them if we dnt like wat they do in real..Ppl may hate me tat im takin the actors side but no ..im jus talkin for Nalini me being a woman myself
Edited by rosyanjalii - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Zains brain has gone for a toss!!! He is the one much to loose...picture was uploaded from his account. It was irresponsible ...uncalled for ...and silly. Ultimately it' damaging for naamkaran right away and damaging for zain for his future endorsements. Hope when his senses are back he realises that and hope he doesn' repeat such antics again.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rosyanjalii


Yes sammy,in this whole episode..I will talk for Jahaan..He wasnt wrong..Wats wrong in saying being human n she isnt Naagin..Atleast he spoke for her in the open..Even Zains Snapchat pic doesnt upset me a bit as much as the Insta comments i have seen towards Nalini in regard to her sittin beside Zain while watchin the film..Why r we gurls tryin to put down another woman..Recently i have seen an interview of Anita (Shagun frm Yhm ) and her husband rohit on a show wit Vahbiz..In tat her husband said how Anita literally cried for 6 months aft comin home from Shoot for all the _ve comments she used to receive from fans for her role ..Even actors r humans and why not respect thm..Why do we relate reel with real and vent out on them if we dnt like wat they do in real..Ppl may hate me tat im takin the actors side but no ..im jus talkin for Nalini me being a woman myself


Babe! I really don't need to add anything. You are just literally sharing my exact same thoughts!

Thank you!

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