Hypocrisy lessons from teacher Anami..

1) Instead of forcing Ladoo to call Bhola as Bhola ji, she could simply ask him to add Mister as people really do in real lives.

Originally posted by: dey.bh

1) Instead of forcing Ladoo to call Bhola as Bhola ji, she could simply ask him to add Mister as people really do in real lives.

2) Language has nothing to do with sanskars. Sanskar is a different thing altogether. Fluency in either English or Hindi do not make you a mascot of Sanskar. Similarly ' I belong to this and that city' does nt guarantee Sanskar of any kind.

3) Ladoo should respect his elders but same logic applies to Anami also. Ladoo should not call Bhola as Bhola but Anami should also not call Bade miya and Bade miya ki madam.

4) Ladoo was equally disrespectful to Pujan and co. Anami didnt bother to make him a better person then. For she hates them it was totally okay for Ladoo to disrespect them.

I don't see any logic in this ! Why they make ladoo rude ??? Just because satrupa teaching him English 🤢. They just like want to see us ,only sudh hindi ,and banarasi vale have all sunskar and who ever learn English or any other sofestication they are become rude and arrogant! 😲 just like our Sanskriti is best.Hippocrates ! And anami is so like it . She only think that banaras is only city in world were everything is Best , food, people,sanskar, everything ! Anything else not exist for her...! 🥱 every city have it's on charm and culture. It's different . You just except it. Good thing about ladoo is he can accept new thing ,but anami is so annoying in this matter. She just act like what she like and love it's best only !😡

Bella,

Hey there
I am a silent stalker and your post saved me from making one regarding the sanskar being available only in Hindi - why is English being berated, English as a language is sophisticated in itself just as any other language be it Urdu or Hindi or Bengali etc
Anami today looked like a reflection of satrupa on the table, asking lado to be mannered... just as satrupa is clueless on how to handle anami, so is anami with regards to ladoo... and lado was a reflection of being a brat just like anami... that's his way or the high way.
I wished for once lado would say that hypocrite anami, when you yourself don't respect people around you, how does she expect any different from him.
Anami seems to be a self volunteered champion of goodness and sanskar but everything falls flat when she refuses to even understand what the people around her are. She never stopped to listen for a moment, her personal grudge overpowers her so called high intelligence.

I agree...

Anami is against Ladoo's English learning only because Satrupa initiated it. She was hell bent to get him a seat in good English school back in Banaras. SSatrupa knows what Ladoo doing is wrong but she doesn't want to discourage him by correcting him in anger, rather she had asked him to add Ji next to His name on the initial day at the dining table by giving example of calling the Maharaj as maharaj ji. Anami rather than shouting at him, should tell him in nice words and he will learn.

Satrupa albeit unknowingly but have created the same situation for Anami whih Anami had created for her. Now, Anami is Satrupa, Satrupa is Sudha and Ladoo is Anami. She is only tasting her own medicine.

Originally posted by: dey.bh

1) Instead of forcing Ladoo to call Bhola as Bhola ji, she could simply ask him to add Mister as people really do in real lives.

2) Language has nothing to do with sanskars. Sanskar is a different thing altogether. Fluency in either English or Hindi do not make you a mascot of Sanskar. Similarly ' I belong to this and that city' does nt guarantee Sanskar of any kind.

3) Ladoo should respect his elders but same logic applies to Anami also. Ladoo should not call Bhola as Bhola but Anami should also not call Bade miya and Bade miya ki madam.

4) Ladoo was equally disrespectful to Pujan and co. Anami didnt bother to make him a better person then. For she hates them it was totally okay for Ladoo to disrespect them.