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Hello guys .😃😃.. warning... it's a lengthy post..😉😉 don't get bored reading this 😆😆 and surely do comment about my view on it...today my post is all about the different side of love of samaina.😃😃..which we haven't explored till now... I was planning to post this since days but was little busy 😕 and today I have no episode analysis...so this is for today guys...hope you enjoy 😃😃
Like we know both sameer and naina are poles apart... both have different attitude towards life... like that their concept for love is also different ...
For sameer ... love is that feeling he is in always search for...but couldn't get it... living a lonely life...away from everyone he loves....his life was always craving for that care and protection that a parent can give him...
The only love he could get was from his nanu and mom.....nanu defenetely loves him...but he always wished for a mother's love...the only women of his life...he doesn't know the warmth of a mother's love... he doesn't get the protection of her hands around him...he couldn't find solace or peace in her lap...he doesn't know the pain killing love of her care when he gets hurt.... above all he doesn't really know... what a mother's love is ??? He has always seen a mother who was always behind him either for his academics or his discipline... she defenetely loves him but couldnt show it in a proper way...her love is always like an order for sameer which he never obeys...
So for a person like sameer who is deprived of every love he could have got... his heart and soul will be in search of only love...it's common he will be attached to the very first person who even cares for him a little...that is his mental state...sameer who has only one person to care for him...his whole world revolves around him...his nanu...but his undying wish to be loved and have a family who cares and loves him..respects and appreciates him for what he is remains forever...
Sameer who was in such a state gets introduced to a girl who is academically good...obedient...loved by all and above all have a family who cares and loves her...this was the first impression that sameer had for naina...may be inside deep down his heart ... he was jealous of her all achievements...during all those incidents where sameer irritates naina...we can also sense some kind of jealous above all revenge...because for him she is something which he can never ever dream to become...
Slowly ... slowly ... through each and every incident...sameer was getting to know more about her... her studious nature...her truthfulness and her sharpness and smartness...everything attracted him...
It was after getting into bet that sameer has actually started to know the inner naina... that naina who is a good friend and a good human being...he was knowing her slowly and patiently with each passing day...every day he got to know something knew about her... he knew that she is not just a padaku ... but is smart too... her value for relationships always surprised him...
Through her he got to know about her family...in fact a joint family .... which sameer knew only through movies... her family including everyone from the elder tauji to younger pralay... he got to know all her family...nainas love for her family and it's importance is something which is sameer so sure about...she can do anything for them...
Sameer who always craved for a family listens to nainas family narration so keenly...he loves to listen about her family... the three most important persons about whom naina keeps talking to sameer is chacha chachi and preethi...
We can see sameer anxiously listening whenever naina talks about these three...when sameer said about nanu being his mom...naina immediately told about her chachaji...sameer came to know that he is like a role model for her who supports and appreciates her for what she is even though everyone goes against her... ( the same thing which sameer has been longing for )
Next through her he came to know about chachiji...who keeps scolding them for no reason even though there is love in it....he knew naina is taken care of by her...she loves her like her own daughters...that day when sameer asked what did she ate...she said tinde made by her chachi...he felt that she was so lucky to have that....( it was something which he was missing from his mom ) that scolding...making food for him... may be destiny has already included sameer in nainas family ... becoz during the first episodes you see... it was the same day where sameer argues with his mom and goes away without eating the aloo paratha.... later in school he gets the same dish which was prepared by chachi to naina...he says ...aaj mere kismat mein yahi Likha hein...see indication...
Thirdly he came to know about preethi...he came to know about the sibling bond naina and preethi share...in their every talk naina includes preethi too...just observe it...naina is so fond of preethi... naina and preethi relation always mesmerises sameer... when naina talked about she and preethi watching tv chup chup ke...he fondly listens it...he gets shocked when she say ...they are not allowed to watch tv all time....all these are just new dimensions of a family for him...naina tells that preethi ko belan bhi padi hein and she gets thappad quite often which amazes him...how can someone love anyone even after getting slaps and harsh words...when naina said she and preethi watch films together late night and finishes all the snacks ... and also gets scolding for that... the first question he asked was... inn sabme bahuth maza aata hoga na....I felt soo bad for him that day...he really wishes for a sibling to fight and to be a partner in crime ... he really likes to fight with preethi...dont worry sameer ... she is defenetely going to give you a tough competion... perfect saali who will tease and irritate you to extreme...
So through naina he not is not only getting her affection and attention..love and care but he is getting attached to her family too which he was always longing for...unknowingly he is getting attached to everything that is of naina...everything of naina will be his....her family will be his family too...he has already hinted this to rakesh...
Loving naina ... he will be not only getting a true love but also be a member of that family....I am sure once naina and sameer get together...they will defenetely love him...apart from naina...
For sameer losing naina will not be only losing love but also losing a family which he gets through her...and he will neither leave naina For that family nor leave that family for naina....sameer will be a complete family man...
You will get to live the life you wished for with naina and her family...
Coming to naina ...
For naina... born in a typical middle class Indian family and belonging to 90s ...naina has all the qualities and flaws that a girl can have living in that era...
She has been brought up knowing the values of relation and principles of life. for her life is never a joke ... she adores and values every relation...the relation she forms through her family and that family is the whole world for her...
It's common for every girl after a certain age to dream of their life partners....naina is a girl who has been highly influenced a lot by movies and mythological characters...she depends on God's words when she faces a dilemma...
Brought up in a good and cultured family ... she has always been exposed to such movies and characters where every love story have a happy ending and the love between the couples are pure and true...every girl is a heroine of her particular love story and here too she considers herself a heroine... in that particular period...girls used to give very importance to pyar and shaadi...that s why they decide to only love after marriage... and even if we love someone , we should get married to that man only....every girl was a one man woman...
Highly influenced by filmy and mythological characters ... the girls just tries to become one among them...sometimes like sreedevi of chandini and sometimes juhi chawla and sometimes madhuri dixit... all their love stories and their pure love fascinates every girl...they too wish for such love to happen with them...
I knew those days seeta was a high epitome of sacrifice and purity and every girl was advised to be like her and be dedicated and truthful towards their husband... Pakka pativratha types...
So here too our naina is a mixture of all these...she defenetely has a filmy dimaag and along with it she has all the morals and principles that a girl will have towards her man... for her love life is her whole world ... being true and faithful is the base of relation and she does that.....she is so dedicated and can sacrifice anything for her love...she soo beliefs in true love and happy love life...she is so innocent to see the reality where there is also another side of all these... she doesn't hurt or cheat anyone and she expects it from others too...
Because of all the above principles...love will be a complicated feeling for naina...if for once her principles and values gets hurt ... she will be loosing her all hope in love...her beliefs and morals will be shattered...she will totally loose her hope in true love and will not be able to believe anyone further..trust will be above everything for her...and a girl like naina will never ever be able to forgive if her dignity gets hurt...
For both sameer and naina... love will have the same value and space in their life ... but... for naina her dignity and vajood will be standing a step ahead than love...wheras for sameer love will be above all and everything...the only thing that will be similar is their undying and true love for each other...
Through naina... sameer will be getting true love who understands him ...who appreciates him for what he is ...and makes him feel the most important person of her life....and...that love.. care and affection of a family that he always wished for...and naina would be getting that love partner in sameer who loves her unconditionally ... who adores her...who respects her and makes her feel like the most precious gift he can ever have....
Naina will be like a dream for sameer whereas Sameer will be the hero of nainas life...
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