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Posted: 7 years ago
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Okay, I have to admit I was really worked up seeing ArShil's 'break up' last night especially after seeing Arshi crying so much. But in retrospection, I have a feeling that before Arshi vs Shilpa fan wars end on the forum, ArShil would have patched up. Call that wishful thinking or delusionalpan, I stick by that because I have faith in ArShil!

I think it has been dissected to death already but I just want to say to all those saying Arshi is using Shilpa, she is not. She was genuinely hurt yesterday, her sobs were real and I don't think kissi aur ke liye woh ro ti. Had it been anyone else saying those stuff other than Shilpa, she wouldn't have given a damn but since it was her so Arshi felt it deeply.

Arshi is hypersensitive when it comes to Shilpa. She did not mind her telling her not to speak to Akash, she just didn't like Shila threatening to stop speaking to her if she did. I think that was wrong of Shilpa, I get that she may be telling her to keep away from Akash out of concern but I agree with Hina for the first time maybe in the history of BB when she said that pyaar ho ya dosti ho, khula chor dena chahiye.😆 Shilpa's get lost and don't talk to me always hits Arshi hard because she is so emotionally invested in Shilpa.😭

That said, my hope to see them back together was revived when Shilpa was explaining to Remo and Jacqueline that Arshi is her daughter and calls her Shilma.😳 Arshi's face immediately lightened up and she could not help getting up and dancing with her Shilma and Hiten.❤️ It doesn't take much to make Arshi happy but it takes a lot to make her sad, unless it's Shilpa who's the reason for it. So get back together already guys! Mujhe apni ArShil chahiye.😳

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I absolutely agree, Arshi admitted herself she can't live without Shilpa in that house. I think more than anything, Arshi was hurt that Shilpa was talking to Puneesh and Bandigi over her past day or so, especially after Arshi has always been there for Shilpa. I wish Shilpa would just go hug and kiss Arshi because Arshi would forgive her in an instant.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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shilpa was pissed off with arshi for that towel incident.. and as shilpa is an wise elderly woman she actually behaves like moms.. which is natural from her side i think.. but arshi sometimes can't be able to accept that.. that's the problem between them.. in this case vikas is nire successful than shilpa to handle arshi by make her understand logical way by politely talking to her. arshi is like bachha jisko samajh me to ati hai ki masti jayada thik nehi per apne apko control bhi kar nehi pati maasti karne se.. per hab koi use pyaar se samjhate to wo samajhte hai.. iss mamle me shiloa moms ki tarah gussa ho jate hai aur arshi ye le nehi pati hai.. shilpa really very bad at communicating... very complicated situation hai iss me agar koi kuch kar sakta i think that is vikas.. kyu ki he is very good at make people understand the situation and how the positive way to deal with it.. but lagta nehi vikas kuch karega kyu ki use arshil ke rishte ko lekar koi tension to hai nehi aur hoga bhi kyu..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think no one is at fault this time, neither Shilpa nor Arshi.
Arshi is too emotional and Shilpa was already hurt by aakash.
Both reacted on the matter and clashed.
Just give them some time and this Ma-Beti duo will be back!
Chote- Bade jaghde toh hote hi rehte hai, Iska matlab rishta thoda tut gya.

#StayPositive #ArShil❤️
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I totally agree. I don't think Arshi is using Shilpa. Her love for Shilma is real. In one of the latest UVs when Bandagi is being tortured by Acash and Sapna, she is enjoying and she tells Shilpa and Vikas that it is their karma since "they hurt the person i loved the most and now the same is happening to them" I was moved.

That being said, Arshi was wrong yesterday. She can't first blame Shilpa for being soft on Acash and forgiving him and then doing the same thing. Shilpa actually thought she was acting when she blamed Shilpa in front of Acash but it doesn't seem that now and that's why shilpa is hurt as she mentions in UV.
Also nothing can explain Arshi going back to Priyank, Hina and Sapna- the same people who maligned her character.

Shilpa is blunt and harsh. Yes. But she has always tried to make Arshi understand for Arshi's own benefit. She obvio wouldn't support the towel thing and she couldn't understand her patch up with HinSaPriya.
And Shilpa is already hurt over how Acash betrayed her who she loved the most in the house and Arshi's changing behavior is causing her to doubt her as well. Can't really blame her.
Also, whenever Shilpa is hurt, she goes absolutely silent, she never goes to the person to make them understand( like how Vikas does). This is her biggest weakness and Arshi knows this and still she blamed her. It was sad.

Anyway i want ArShil back.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I dont want ArShil please. Arshi's better off with the 24x7 threatening and conditional friendship. It might be tough for Arshi in the beginning but she's got a better unconditional friend in Vikas.

Hope she plays her game in her own way instead of being threatened by Shilpa or Salman etc. 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amna1991

I absolutely agree, Arshi admitted herself she can't live without Shilpa in that house. I think more than anything, Arshi was hurt that Shilpa was talking to Puneesh and Bandigi over her past day or so, especially after Arshi has always been there for Shilpa. I wish Shilpa would just go hug and kiss Arshi because Arshi would forgive her in an instant.


Yes omitted that. Puneesh and Bandagi were trying to take full advantage of the situation but hopefully Shilpa sees through them. These two can never be anyone's friend bina matlab ke. I couldn't understand how these two are more layak of speaking to than Akash when they are the instigators but khair letting it go.😆

Even I want that yaar, Arshi always says sorry in some way when she hurts Shilpa. Kabhi Shilpa bhi mana le isko. Kitni khush ho jayegi! 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Momrin

shilpa was pissed off with arshi for that towel incident.. and as shilpa is an wise elderly woman she actually behaves like moms.. which is natural from her side i think.. but arshi sometimes can't be able to accept that.. that's the problem between them.. in this case vikas is nire successful than shilpa to handle arshi by make her understand logical way by politely talking to her. arshi is like bachha jisko samajh me to ati hai ki masti jayada thik nehi per apne apko control bhi kar nehi pati maasti karne se.. per hab koi use pyaar se samjhate to wo samajhte hai.. iss mamle me shiloa moms ki tarah gussa ho jate hai aur arshi ye le nehi pati hai.. shilpa really very bad at communicating... very complicated situation hai iss me agar koi kuch kar sakta i think that is vikas.. kyu ki he is very good at make people understand the situation and how the positive way to deal with it.. but lagta nehi vikas kuch karega kyu ki use arshil ke rishte ko lekar koi tension to hai nehi aur hoga bhi kyu..

Han I think that's Shilpa weak point that she cannot communicate easily. She wants to say something but the way she says it is maybe not the best way to do it especially when it comes to Arshi, zyada harsh ho jati hai. But you are right there, moms are harsh at times. Vikas is very good there, mastermind kahi ka.😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nancy_NUTS

I totally agree. I don't think Arshi is using Shilpa. Her love for Shilma is real. In one of the latest UVs when Bandagi is being tortured by Acash and Sapna, she is enjoying and she tells Shilpa and Vikas that it is their karma since "they hurt the person i loved the most and now the same is happening to them" I was moved.


That being said, Arshi was wrong yesterday. She can't first blame Shilpa for being soft on Acash and forgiving him and then doing the same thing. Shilpa actually thought she was acting when she blamed Shilpa in front of Acash but it doesn't seem that now and that's why shilpa is hurt as she mentions in UV.
Also nothing can explain Arshi going back to Priyank, Hina and Sapna- the same people who maligned her character.

Shilpa is blunt and harsh. Yes. But she has always tried to make Arshi understand for Arshi's own benefit. She obvio wouldn't support the towel thing and she couldn't understand her patch up with HinSaPriya.
And Shilpa is already hurt over how Acash betrayed her who she loved the most in the house and Arshi's changing behavior is causing her to doubt her as well. Can't really blame her.
Also, whenever Shilpa is hurt, she goes absolutely silent, she never goes to the person to make them understand( like how Vikas does). This is her biggest weakness and Arshi knows this and still she blamed her. It was sad.

Anyway i want ArShil back.


Arshi's problem/quality is that she forgives easily. She doesn't keep any grudges for long. I don't think she's going to Hina and Priyank ever but she did not want to drag the issue and was speaking normally to them.
If we are talking about patch up toh Shilpa ne bhi Pungi ke saath baat shuru ki.

But yes, that's the most important thing. They should sort it out and just get back to their masti. BB will be pain to watch if these two are at loggerheads.😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I can forgive everything but I cannot forgive or forget Arshi's ULTRA QUICK cozying up to people who shredded her character to shreds. One minute she's hooting and clapping at Priyank's be-izzati and the next she's all chummy with Priyank and wants him and Vikas to patch up to. 🤔 Like W*F! I got why Vikas got mad at that. She also cried and said...Shilpa ne bola ki phir gayi Priyank ke paas. Toh? Kya galat bola? Usmein Shilpa ka kya fayda tha? She meant well for your sake.

ArShil might be back but I didn't like Arshi taking her own izzat, self-respect so lightly. These people character assassinated her yaar. How can you flip THAT quick? 😕 Keep away from them Arshi. They'll do it again.
Edited by MithiBani - 7 years ago

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