Good post 👏 Anami is going by the philosophy of seeing is believing. Naive , I know . Because in Lal Mahal , that logic can lead you to death easily.
Like someone mentioned above to Anami, Narottam is the only kindred spirit in the house. Someone who is unwanted by many in the house. He seems so tortured and defenseless on the outside right. That facade can easily fool many. To know the real Narottam is going to be a tough task. But yes one day she will.
Frankly, I don't think I would trust a woman who all of sudden comes back to reclaim me just because she lost her son. I can understand Anami in that respect. In a real life situation , if this case had gone to court Anami would be send with her adoptive parents. Satrupa , for whatever reason, abandoned her child. She chose the male child pertaining to tendencies of society. She could have easily chosen Anami, In infancy it's hard to know who is the stronger one. Anami is much more strong willed than Vatsalya as we can see now.
Satrupa has made her bed. Now it's upto her to find the best way to get her daughter to lie in it. I have always thought that reverse psychology will work on Anami😆