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dey.bh

@dey.bh

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Posted: 8 years ago

Love and hatred are two most powerful human emotion. Its so powerful that it can diminish the difference between right and wrong, just and unjust,,fair and unfair, good and bad. In Ramayana, Ravan though evil was a learned man and Ramji didnt forget to mention it although he had to kill him in a war.

Anami keeps giving references to such characters from Hindu epics but she herself is blindly hating her mother. Hate her but also pay attention to what she says because even a broken clock is right twice a day and its a fact that only Satrupa knew everything about Vatsalya. To know Vatsya you need to know Satrupa. Even Vatsalya's room is full of his pictures with his mother. Then for Vatsalya, Satrupa was the best mother. Its time for some introspection.

Anami is only 17 and I understand her turmoil yet she needs to learn a few things before she can help herself or help Vatsalaya. Given she has a strong IQ and the fact that only she believes Vatsalya was murdered I expect her to first sketch out the usual suspects before trying anything. For example,there is enough reason why she can suspect Narottam. Narottam has enough reason to murder Vatsalaya and hatred is capable of a lot things. There is enough reason why he should hate him. One should read Artharnatham of Byomkesh Bakshi series to understand my point about hapless people being the most cruel cold blooded murderer.

Its interesting that for Anami her mother is evil but Narottam's mother is a bechari who is living separately so that her son can have his usual dal roti in LM. What sort of mother let her son be abused physically so that he can stay there? I believe she cannot fight LM people but she can always keep her son away if she is so scared of LM and its people. Like Satrupa she too had an option but she chose to abandon her child. Yes, Baldev would still be a womaniser but her son would have received a decent childhood like Anami.I dont think anyone would care if she went away with her son. That point should have raised her suspicion.

What kamzori is Narottam talking about? He is living like a servant in a rich household. He can really be a servant in some other house and live with some self respect. Why is his mother tolerating everything in the name of becharagiri?

Overall, Anami doesnt trust her biological mother's version about why she was given away. She lear t her lesson about relationships already.Her life began with being cheated by her mother. She should not believe anyone so easily now. Once bitten twice shy

Edited by dey.bh - 8 years ago

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

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Posted: 8 years ago

this is the reason i am not able to connect with both ma beta

both shudha chose this path and narottam also chose to select his mother who abondoned him and go against the father who has atleast given a place to live i know it is hell

but he has selected this path to be happy with his only brother death who atleast loved him for all and even used to blackmail everyone for his right

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

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Posted: 8 years ago

YA YOU ARE RIGHT SATRUPA WILL ALWAYS BE HER MOTHER WETHER SHE ACCEPT IT OR NOT

SHE CANT TAKE HER ALL BLOODOUT OR MAKE HER DNA MISSMATCH

YA PAGLIPANDITAYIN IS ALSO IS HER MOTHER

A PERSON ALWAYS LIVE TWO LIFE

ONE WHEN HE OR SHE IS IN MOTHER WOMB HE LIVE THERE AND LIVE A LIFE

OTHER OUTSIDE WORLD

I CANT UNDERSTAND ANAMI THE WAY IN PRECAP SHE IS SAYING THAT OTHER THAN HER NOONE KNOWS THE PAIN OF SEPARATION FROM HER MOTHER OTHER THAN HER

DID I MISSED SOMETHING

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646714

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dey my dear as usual a very good post 👏

Anami though intelligent she's naive, the surroundings where she grew up is simple and straight forward it's either black or white in her choti Si duniya. In a place like the Lal mahal and the world the mahal exists in there's no place for straight forward naive People.

Every step is important. Be wise and perceptive open eyes and sensitive ears with the most important part trusting one's gut instinct!! Developing a sensitive reliable instinct takes time for some whereas some are born with that naturally.
We've seen from Satrupa's words she wasn't like this once upon a time but she changed. Situations and people forced her, life has moulded her into what she has become today.

Anami is slowly unknowingly going to get changed with Satrupa's reverse psychology 😉

As for Anami suspecting Narottam: Narottam is the only soul she felt is as lonely and a misfit in this mahal. Narottam has played his cards right!!
First the misfit lonely soul card and secondly his mummy kahani!!

Narottam is using Anami to bring Sudha into the house and partial blame for this goes to the Lal Mahal people too!! As Dadi said If she's not accepted by the ones that should then she'll naturally seek to befriend people who accepts her.

Sudha is plain wicked. For her Narottam is a pawn not her child. She has brought him up in a very twisted way the boy doesn't even know what love is. I wonder if Sudha was a girl like Anami before the Past happened?
Sudha is definitely having some psychological issue but not completely delusional. She's manipulative and has trapped Narottam in her web of lies and the hate filled atmosphere.

That look on his face when he talks about what Anami did for him, stood up for him, accepted him, treated him like a human. That hard heart of his felt love.

Love can transform and Narottam will change if they want to give justice to this innocent child who's living life suffering for someone else's mistake!!

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Ecrivain

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hmm thought provoking post, Dey.

To be Anami is justified in a way that she had been abandoned by het birth mother and so its all about choices for her now, like it was for Satrupa 17 years ago.

Then Satrupa chose to keep Vatsalya and give away Anami and now Anami willingly is not accepting Satrupa.

But yes, Narottam is trying to have his way through a gullible Anami and that is what Gayatari said in the precap, which Satrupa will take care off sooner or later. Like she had said that Anami is winning cod she is allowing her to.

And that is what Anami dosnt know, the true colors of Satrupa and Narottam and once she does, there will be no looking back. Because like Gayatari said, one cannot compare to what parents do for their kids, so eventually Anami will give in

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646714

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Posted: 8 years ago

To know Vatsya you need to know Satrupa

I've a different take to this 😳

I feel Satrupa being the sole source of Knowledge about Vatsalya is kinda untrue, if Satrupa knew everything about her child she'll never have lost him in the first place. The slide show showed that Vatsalya the complete person can be found and understood as a whole through the eyes of the members of the mahal.

Right from Dadaji to Pujan to Avdoot too, there's a part of Vatsalya that each of them was privy to. Bringing back the mahal together, bringing back the members together pushing and poking them out of their hidden places and individual agendas will unveil Vatsalya as a whole to Anami!

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Ecrivain.
Hmm thought provoking post, Dey.
To be Anami is justified in a way that she had been abandoned by het birth mother and so its all about choices for her now, like it was for Satrupa 17 years ago.

Then Satrupa chose to keep Vatsalya and give away Anami and now Anami willingly is not accepting Satrupa.

But yes, Narottam is trying to have his way through a gullible Anami and that is what Gayatari said in the precap, which Satrupa will take care off sooner or later. Like she had said that Anami is winning cod she is allowing her to.

And that is what Anami dosnt know, the true colors of Satrupa and Narottam and once she does, there will be no looking back. Because like Gayatari said, one cannot compare to what parents do for their kids, so eventually Anami will give in

till now everyone is playing their card be it narottam or shudha or pujan

but satrupa has not even shown her one roop totally when she is known for seven roop

i feel satrupa is not impatient one to take discision like anami one time think to go with murari other time stay back and other time something else

satrupa is very patient and she will watch observe everything and then will take action if it is really not inher favour

right now she knows anami is 17 baldev is her legal husband and the power of attony is with her and the heir will be only the child which she and baldev would accept or be the parent legally and here court has declared anami legally their daughter

so right now whatever anami do she cant harm satrupa anything but just she has to be safe which satrupa is taking care of and know that her protection is from all side

so she is waiting where the game is going and will take one step and will check mate

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bhavis

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Posted: 8 years ago

Anami -

She is a 17 year old. A lady who had spent her childhood doing shraadh of her mother every year on her birthday. Her hatred for her mother is so deep that its not easy for her to trust her. Its the age when most adolescence are rebellion; whether they love or hate their parents. Here she is in denial. She just wants to hurt her mother the way she hurt her 17 years back by abandoning her.

By right she should not be able to trust anyone easily - yet she does that and the reason is her beautiful upbringing that Pandit and Pagli Panditayan has done. They have given her all the reason to trust world. In her young age she has seen those pakhandi gurus at the ghaats and so know how the pakhand works. So why does she care for Narottam? Is it because she is gullible? No I don't think that is the case. She is compares her plight with Narottam's. She think that like her he too has been snatched away from his mother. She has that "Dard ka rishta" on top of the fact that every one hates him so if she sides him she may be thrown out of Lal Mahal. 😆 (Her thoughts not mine) Remember how she played with the DNA samples. Even though she says words that are beyond her age when she acts it shows that she is just that a zhalli, jiddi, 17 year old teenager. 😃

Narottam -

I truly pity the guy. The man who never has seen what love is. The man who has been raised out of hate both by his father's family and mother. What do you expect from him? Although he is a man now he is still a child at heart who yearns for love, care and respect. Today we saw that he enjoyed that attention from Anami. He even tried to protect her yesterday from Adhiraaj, Although he is trying to use her as a pawn; I can see him easily being affected by the love and care from Anami.

He is still staying at Lal Mahal. I think when he was young he did not have a choice and even now he does not have a choice. His mother rules him. So even if he gets all the respect and love else where he will not quit Lalmahal. He will face all the humiliation because his mom said so. He is doing all this for "Maa ke liye" for now😛

WIll Anami be able to see his real face before she is hurt? That I will reserve my judgement till the story unfolds.

PRECAP - Dadi warning Satrupa as if she does not know it. I think its time for the Baldev's story with Sudha to be out. That is the only way Anami will understand. Lest we not forget that Satrupa has already asked to keep an eye on Narottam.(Unless Cvs have forgotten it) so may be she is already paying attention to the details.

Edited by -Bhavi - 8 years ago

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dey.bh

@dey.bh

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Posted: 8 years ago

@ Ecri,

Yes, she hates Satrupa and tbh Satrupa deserves it but if she wants to solve Vatsalya murder case then she has to bear Satrupa. Satrupa is what Madhu is to Anami and no one can change it. My point is to observe and introspect before jumping into conclusions.

@ Dreamer,

That is the case with all of us yet only a mother knows those little details which others dont care to observe. Only Madhu could tell Anami was unwell that too over a telephonic conversation. She knew her daughter cannot starve during that halwa scene. Murari loves her equally but there is something only a mother can tell. Same is the case with Vatsalya. Satrupa lost Vatsalya not because she didntt know her son. She lost him because she could not figure out his enemies. Then she is the only one to.know Vatsalya is not at home. Vatsalya was her best friiend, the only person she loved dearly and someone whose death was so unacceptable that she would commit suicide. When Vatsalya met Anami, he discussed his mother and not others. For Vatsalya his mother was the best mother.

@ Bhavi, I dont think Narottam is Sudha's son but Sudha has faked it all the way. My issue with Anami is that she believed his mother is so bechari that she left her son there to be humiliated and physically abused everyday. Like why does she believe th Lal Mahal would care if Sudha went away with this unwanted child of hers. Clearly Narottam doesnt mean anything to them. Also, the question should be why even Vatsalya didn't help Narottam despite of being the heir? Why didnt Vatsalya ask Narottam to sit with everyone during breakfast ? Why didnt he fight for Narottam's rights?If you hate the whole family for being cruel and unjust to Narottam you have to hate Vatsalya also. Why be a hypocrite?

Satrupa gave her a hint and she in her hatred just ignored it. Why? Why does she think Satrupa would not be able keep Narottam away from her and Lal Mahal? How difficult it is for her? Yet she ia talking about him. My issue is she didn't push it any further.

All her information is from Poonam. Try some other people also. I think its time she meets the Gurujj who is the root cause of all her problems.

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Navya

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Finally someone said it 👏 Spot on post !! TBH,Anami has started getting on my nerves now , her insolent behaviour is going over my head 😡 Ok fine , she has solid reasons to hate her mother but still enough is enough ...she knows no one loved Vatsalya as much as Satrupa so atleast she should talk to her about her suspicions on Vatsalya's death,unless she thinks Satrupa is involved *pun intended* 😆. These days I watch the show on a fast forward mode,can't stand this OTT Anami *uff*

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