arre.. tension kai ka?!

I have been reading a lot of posts as I was out day and am sitting in front of my pc at 10:45p.m. like a bhootni when the whole house is asleep😆

some of u feel, she is going the sandeep way.. Nooo I dont think so.. Sandy was so reluctatnt to even admit his own feelings.. I just saw the episode again.. when he touches her, she is shy, but she is so excited as well.. jaise current lagti hain😆.. i am now 100% sure that she will say, jaldi kya hain, let's romance first..😳.. as in the 1st episodes she has been saying that she wants to have some fun.. that is just what she wants.. nothing else for the moment.. so let's also enjoy😳 it will be funny though if sandy gets scared she might change

.. contd.. sorry hit post button by mistake 😡
sandy will be scared and after her thinking she has lost her mind now.. after 15 years of chappal ghisana after sandy, now it looks like sandy's turn 😆 but i seriously feel that she is not scared of the marriage.. she knows sandy more than herself and does not need any reassurance from him as she is so confident that sshe and sandy will have a happy future 😳 did u see when he says marriage, she looks around as if scared someone might hear.. so she wants to play chupa chupi romantic love story.. saari aashayein puri karni hain urmi ko 😆 😳

Arrre wah.. We were searching for you for a loooong time...Specially after todays episode 😊 Actually I guess Urmi is all nervous and Sandy's marriage proposal has made her more nervous now.. Coming to the point I want to know from you is it normal to have this pre nuptial nervous breakdown. We want to know more on this? Plz plz you are an experienced person, you only can help us to be better prepared for future, so that we dont fumble like Urmi in a similar situation.. 😊 😊

But she did developed a cold feet when she entered his house. It looked as if she just wanna run away from there.. 😳 😳

aww. u missed me 😳 but i am in a new team at work, where evrything is hectic and no time on internet 😡 and yes, u r right that she had ahesitatnt look on her face when she entered the house.. I am not sure if it was cold feet..she was suddenly aware where she was and i had 2 thoughts, 1. she does not want her parents to blame sandy in future when they come to know.. that we sent urmi in full faith and tumne use phasaya.. though from her expressions this scenario looks unlikely. 2. where she thinks, wow, this is gonna be my home and maybe her thoughts were on how she would be the bride in that house 😳 i dont know monu, i am going mad 😆 but one thing, she did not look nervous of the thought of marriage to me..now coming to the topic of cold feet, it is very true that it happens.. I am a living example 😆 me and my hubby from diff corners in india came to London to do our masters and fell in love.. And yes, I waited till he popped the q 😆 and once he said it, I was so so scared 😳

contd.. it was like OMG, my life changes this very minute on which was so scary then, but 10 years of bliss later, I am 😆 looking at my plight on thatday.. In fact I was shivering, in spite of being happy.. it is a whole new world, and everything changes for the girl, at least for the guy most things rmain the same.. At least for urmi, she will just move 2 doors away unlike me who had to move saath samundar away from all family 😆 if this hasn't answered ur query, pls ask more 😳

If i remember correctly 😉 , on my wedding day, when the baraat came, everyone rushed out, I was alone in my room and so nervous but with a mixed feeling of pure happiness as well. It is undescribable and hence i am babbling 😆 but as u said in an earlier post, shaadi toh ek hi baar hoti hain na.. and also romance bhi.. BTW, we still romanced around London for 1 more year before we got married 😳

Thanks pretty woman.. You are soo sweet to share things with us, thats why I didnt even hesitate to pop a qs to you😊 Actually I was just thinking about this numbness that a person feel when suddenly his/her life changes. I found Urmi quite unusual today. She looking at his house and then suddenly turning around to the door and then she getting scared when Sandy touched or holded her hands. Thats why I thought, though she always wanted and will continue to desire to live her life with Sandy, but is this the phase where she is on the transition mode and a bit numb to Sandy?
Or probably you are right she is just playing a prank on Sandy, we will get to know this soon..

Originally posted by: prettywoman

I am a living example 😆 me and my hubby from diff corners in india came to London to do our masters and fell in love.. And yes, I waited till he popped the q 😆 and once he said it, I was so so scared it was like OMG, my life changes this very minute on which was so scary then,

So how did you get over this. Is it like you have todeal with it yourself aur your darling hubby helped you out of this? I mean generally wat happens😉

no.. monu she is not playing a prank..she is now accutely awra eof any touch sandy makes as a woman as sandy has acknowledged his feelings to her.. BTW, sandy's shell shocked expressions when he sees her face after touching her cracked me up 😆 so for sandy,he has confessed and that't it.. now as per babuji's wish and sukhaji's advice next thing is marriage and he is being practical like most guys 😡 which is good also.. But she is a truw romantic at heart like me and wants to savour each and ever moment, as after a few years of marriage, even though the deep love grows and so does the underatsnding, somehow in life's busy lanes and family needs, romance sometimes takes a back seat 😕 so she wants to just enjoy for a bit now which is so not wrong 😃